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Not a newlywed..........But!!!
Spitzergirl Posted: Apr 21, 2004 12:05 AM+
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Not a newlywed..........But!!!

Hi Newlyweds...

I have a interesting question

Who helped you get dress before the wedding?

Mom and I are being told that NO ONE SHOULD SEE THE BRIDE before she enters the church...

Sort, of like a mystery?

Thanks
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juju Posted: Apr 21, 2004 05:33 AM+
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Re: Not a newlywed..........But!!!

by bms and mother saw me
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princess99 Posted: Apr 21, 2004 08:10 AM+
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Re: Not a newlywed..........But!!!

My sister and aunt and MOH helped me.
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VickiC Posted: Apr 21, 2004 08:28 AM+
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Posted: Apr 21, 2004 08:28 AM bride-minus.png

Re: Not a newlywed..........But!!!

My BM's helped me get into my dress before the photos started.
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kelswiss Posted: Apr 21, 2004 09:08 AM+
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Posted: Apr 21, 2004 09:08 AM bride-minus.png

Re: Not a newlywed..........But!!!

My mom and bm's helped me get dressed.
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Diane Posted: Apr 21, 2004 09:35 AM+
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Posted: Apr 21, 2004 09:35 AM bride-minus.png

Re: Not a newlywed..........But!!!

my sisters helped me.
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Sonicstef Posted: Apr 21, 2004 09:38 AM+
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Posted: Apr 21, 2004 09:38 AM bride-minus.png

Re: Not a newlywed..........But!!!

My bridesmaids and my day of coordinator helped.

How can no one see you? Someone has to do your hair and makeup - so those people see you. And then you take photos with your family and bridesmaids before the ceremony starts so those people see you. And then of course your photographer (and maybe videographer) is there the whole time too.

Although dont listen to me....i took photos with my husband before the ceremony and its one of the best decisions we made. But as you can tell, meaningless traditions dont weigh heavily in my decision making process
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2003fallwedding Posted: Apr 21, 2004 09:41 AM+
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Posted: Apr 21, 2004 09:41 AM bride-minus.png

Re: Not a newlywed..........But!!!

My mom was with me when I picked it out but all my BM's saw it when we went to get their dress.
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AliKing Posted: Apr 21, 2004 09:45 AM+
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Re: Not a newlywed..........But!!!

My mom and most of my BM came with me for fittings
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usuk2004 Posted: Apr 21, 2004 09:56 AM+
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Posted: Apr 21, 2004 09:56 AM bride-minus.png

Re: Not a newlywed..........But!!!

My mom, MOH and grandmother helped me. But we took some family photos before the ceremony, so my dad, my brother, my sil, my MOH's husband...they all saw me. Plus the photogs, the limo driver, etc. AND we arrived at church early, so I sat in the car while everyone was going into the church and they ALL saw me!! :)
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aliciahelene Posted: Apr 21, 2004 09:59 AM+
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Re: Not a newlywed..........But!!!

my mom and two sisters helped me! It wsa fun, we had our makeup done at the same time, so we drank mimosas, danced around and dressed ourselves!
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JENHOS Posted: Apr 21, 2004 11:03 AM+
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Re: Not a newlywed..........But!!!

I think that would be impossible! It took 3 people to put me in my dress!!
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Spitzergirl Posted: Apr 21, 2004 02:45 PM+
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Posted: Apr 21, 2004 02:45 PM bride-minus.png

Re: Not a newlywed..........But!!!

I went to a wedding last year...and I was so shock how crazy the family was. The bride got dressed in a private sacred room. They made sure everyone who was in the bridal party met at the church. They made the bride leave last after everyone. She was locked up behind close doors with only about maybe 3 other people. THe only time you saw her was when, it was her initial time...to go down the aisle.

I don't know, to me it was a little stupid and over done, but I have heard that the bride preparing should not be disturbed. I guess everyone has there own idea...or tradition.
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ChristineC68 Posted: Apr 21, 2004 04:27 PM+
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Posted: Apr 21, 2004 04:27 PM bride-minus.png

Re: Not a newlywed..........But!!!

That would just add stress to the bride. I enjoyed the time I spent getting ready with my mother & sister.
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bedda26 Posted: Apr 21, 2004 04:31 PM+
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Posted: Apr 21, 2004 04:31 PM bride-minus.png

Re: Not a newlywed..........But!!!

One of MOH's and BM helped me.
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bedda26 Posted: Apr 21, 2004 04:31 PM+
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Re: Not a newlywed..........But!!!

The only one that should not see the bride before the wedding should be the groom.
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Spitzergirl Posted: Apr 21, 2004 06:32 PM+
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Posted: Apr 21, 2004 06:32 PM bride-minus.png

Re: Not a newlywed..........But!!!


Posted by bedda26

The only one that should not see the bride before the wedding should be the groom.



I totally........agree...........

thanks ladies!!!
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