It might be time to be more direct with them to see what's going on. It sounds like they're showing up to things for attention and gifts. I might call and leave a message saying something about the shower (do you have an item you really want from your registry or some silly question) to get them to call you back and then ask what's up.
Butterfly123
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I would probably just send the gift. I understand people get busy with such an important time in their life but they dont have to ignore calls and texts. If theyre too busy to keep in touch then so are you. Just send the gift thats what I would do
Ayne11
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Posted by Songstress
I would probably just send the gift. I understand people get busy with such an important time in their life but they dont have to ignore calls and texts. If theyre too busy to keep in touch then so are you. Just send the gift thats what I would do
ITA! Obviously she's only a friend when there's something in it for her. I.E. a gift. And you're not the only one of your friends who has noticed this.
Autumn08
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I would do what was in my heart. Sometimes life in general gets crazy then throw in preparing for a baby into the mix. I've lost contact with a few of my friends over the years but I personally always tried to keep in contact. I was truly greatful they attended my shower and weddings. Also, they may not even realize how they are acting is being percieved by everyone. Especially since you RSVPed, I think it's best you go, IMO.
Kimbalina
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Thanks ladies..
I have talked to the other girls and we are going to all go and make one last effort. Then the ball is in her court.