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SoontobeMrs.Brown Posted: Jan 18, 2011 08:59 AM+

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Posted: Jan 18, 2011 08:59 AM

NWQOTD 1/18 ***

Short and and to the point ---

Now that we are married ... do you think its okay to flirt .. I'm tallking about flirting with coworkers, ex bf's, you're out with friends at a club/bar and meet some random person ...

CarolAnn721 Posted: Jan 18, 2011 09:30 AM+

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Posted: Jan 18, 2011 09:30 AM

Re: NWQOTD 1/18 ***

Do I think it is ok?? No. Do I do it? Shamelessly!!!! I flirt with homeless people asking for change, peoples Mom's, I don't care.....

AwaitingAugust Posted: Jan 18, 2011 09:35 AM+

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Posted: Jan 18, 2011 09:35 AM

Re: NWQOTD 1/18 ***

we only flirt when we're trying to kiss someone's butt .... like if we want customer service to actually resolve an issue for us

that's DH and my's deal that we made - flirting is only ok if you need something (wow that sounds awful ... i'm not talking about needing money or cars or anything lol)

MrsSx2 Posted: Jan 18, 2011 09:37 AM+

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Posted: Jan 18, 2011 09:37 AM

Re: NWQOTD 1/18 ***

hehehe...this is one of those double standards....its OK for me...but not DH.

I have a horrible thing for UPS men...and it doesn't help that we have a super hot one that comes to my office. So, I flirt with him a lot...but I tell DH about it. he doesn't care..he knows nothing will happen.

SoontobeMrs.Brown Posted: Jan 18, 2011 09:38 AM+

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Posted: Jan 18, 2011 09:38 AM

Re: NWQOTD 1/18 ***

I think that sometimes even harmless flirting can lead to undesireable consequences .. my answer is no - I do not think its okay ... I do not do what I wouldnt want my husband doing.

Future Mrs H Posted: Jan 18, 2011 09:42 AM+

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Posted: Jan 18, 2011 09:42 AM

Re: NWQOTD 1/18 ***

No- I dont think its ok. I wouldnt do it and wouldnt want DH to either

bride2be1012 Posted: Jan 18, 2011 09:45 AM+

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Posted: Jan 18, 2011 09:45 AM

Re: NWQOTD 1/18 ***

Not OK for either of us.

StaceyWill Posted: Jan 18, 2011 09:47 AM+

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Posted: Jan 18, 2011 09:47 AM

Re: NWQOTD 1/18 ***

Posted by Future Mrs H

No- I dont think its ok. I wouldnt do it and wouldnt want DH to either

Ditto- I think people should act the way they would if their partner were there. Would I flirt with someone in front of DH? No. So, I don't flirt if he's not there either.

christine2010 Posted: Jan 18, 2011 11:20 AM+

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Posted: Jan 18, 2011 11:20 AM

Re: NWQOTD 1/18 ***

Posted by StaceyWill

Posted by Future Mrs H

No- I dont think its ok. I wouldnt do it and wouldnt want DH to either

Ditto- I think people should act the way they would if their partner were there. Would I flirt with someone in front of DH? No. So, I don't flirt if he's not there either.

ITA. I always think to myself, 'How would I feel if DH was acting a certain way?' I always try to act & treat DH with the same respect as I want him to treat me with.

Rosalind_75 Posted: Jan 18, 2011 11:26 AM+

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Posted: Jan 18, 2011 11:26 AM

Re: NWQOTD 1/18 ***

i dont remember how to flirt

bluj786 Posted: Jan 18, 2011 11:29 AM+

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Posted: Jan 18, 2011 11:29 AM

Re: NWQOTD 1/18 ***

Posted by Future Mrs H

No- I dont think its ok. I wouldnt do it and wouldnt want DH to either

agreed!

SoontobeMrs.Brown Posted: Jan 18, 2011 11:29 AM+

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Posted: Jan 18, 2011 11:29 AM

Re: NWQOTD 1/18 ***

Posted by Rosalind_75

i dont remember how to flirt

HA - this is hysterical.

Byrne2Be Posted: Jan 18, 2011 11:36 AM+

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Posted: Jan 18, 2011 11:36 AM

Re: NWQOTD 1/18 ***

Both of our personalities are very chatty and friendly so I suppose at times this can be misconstrued as 'flirty' but really, I have no interest in flirting flirting with anyone other than DH (I still have the biggggggest crush on him!) and I have all the confidence in the world that he's not out there macking. We don't have a 'no flirting policy' per se, but the general understanding is based on respect for each other. I wanna barf thinking of him 'flirting' with someone else.