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Future Mrs H Posted: Jan 25, 2011 08:34 AM+

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Posted: Jan 25, 2011 08:34 AM

NWQOTD 1/25/11

Last week DH and I went to see The Dilemma with Vince Vaugh and Kevin James. Todays question comes from that movie.

If you saw your BF's husband/wife cheating on them would you confront the cheater?

Would you tell your BF?

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I dont think I would confront the person first. I would definitely tell my bf what I saw though. But I would try to do it diplomaticly and face to face.

flibbertigibbet Posted: Jan 25, 2011 08:45 AM+

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Posted: Jan 25, 2011 08:45 AM

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if i saw meredith's husband kissing another woman -- it would probably be me.

ha.

ha..

...aha.

it never gets old: my wishful thinking...

Future Mrs H Posted: Jan 25, 2011 08:54 AM+

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Posted: Jan 25, 2011 08:54 AM

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Posted by flibbertigibbet

if i saw meredith's husband kissing another woman -- it would probably be me.

ha.

ha..

...aha.

it never gets old: my wishful thinking...

Clover23 Posted: Jan 25, 2011 08:55 AM+

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Posted: Jan 25, 2011 08:55 AM

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i would not 'confront' the cheater, but i would make sure he saw me.
yes i would tell my BF.

halfbaked Posted: Jan 25, 2011 09:17 AM+

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Posted: Jan 25, 2011 09:17 AM

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I think I'd confront the cheater- tell him 'You tell her or I will.' From my experience, people tend not to believe things unless they hear it from the horse's mouth. Besides, I wouldn't want to be the one to hurt her. But if he didn't follow through and tell her, I would.

grkbarbie Posted: Jan 25, 2011 09:47 AM+

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Posted: Jan 25, 2011 09:47 AM

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nope. i mind my bizzz

StaceyWill Posted: Jan 25, 2011 09:49 AM+

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Posted: Jan 25, 2011 09:49 AM

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Posted by grkbarbie

nope. i mind my bizzz

Ditto

AngnShaun Posted: Jan 25, 2011 09:51 AM+

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Posted: Jan 25, 2011 09:51 AM

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absolutely... after i beat the **** out of them they would go confess

ourwedding9510 Posted: Jan 25, 2011 09:52 AM+

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Posted: Jan 25, 2011 09:52 AM

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HMMM, if I saw my BF's wife cheating on him? I would tell him. I would confront her and then I would tell him. He's my BF and deserves to know. I tell him everything and I can't hide anything from him so I wouldn't really have a choice.

latinaj Posted: Jan 25, 2011 10:09 AM+

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Posted: Jan 25, 2011 10:09 AM

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i will make sure that he knows that i know

kris_gets_hitched Posted: Jan 25, 2011 10:17 AM+

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Posted: Jan 25, 2011 10:17 AM

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Hell yeah. I would snap a picture on my phone first and then say something to the person cheating. AND THEN I would approach my friend.

Because if the tables were turned, I'd expect the same.

SoontobeMrs.Brown Posted: Jan 25, 2011 10:20 AM+

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Posted: Jan 25, 2011 10:20 AM

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Posted by grkbarbie

nope. i mind my bizzz

You would mind your business if its your BEST FRIEND being cheated on?

ETA: ABOLUTELY I WOULD SAY SOMETHING. My loyalty lies with my best friend. Imagine your best friend knew something like that and kept it from you. Unacceptable. It'd hurt her more in the end if you didnt tell her.

Byrne2Be Posted: Jan 25, 2011 10:21 AM+

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Posted: Jan 25, 2011 10:21 AM