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NWQOTD Humpday, October 27th
SummerBride10 Posted: Oct 27, 2010 12:49 PM+
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Re: NWQOTD Humpday, October 27th

We both want kids, however we're waiting until we have a house first (and I want to run a marathon before I have kids!) So probably another 2-3 years.
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AugustBridein09 Posted: Oct 27, 2010 02:16 PM+
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Re: NWQOTD Humpday, October 27th


Posted by kris_gets_hitched

Nope, no way, uh uh!

We talked about it early on...we are 100% on the same page.

He likes kids but doesn't want the responsibility. I straight-up find most kids to be irritating.

My parents don't pressure us. His are more in the school of thought that we will.

I want my tubes tied.





This!

Except I like kids just don't want any for myself and he.... well..... he just doesn't like them at all.
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christine2010 Posted: Oct 27, 2010 02:19 PM+
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Re: NWQOTD Humpday, October 27th

We want to have kids but we are waiting a couple of years.

We both need to have better job security, we also would like to have a home & I would ideally like to be a stay at home mom for a couple of years so we will have to save up some money.
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soontobecruz Posted: Oct 27, 2010 02:23 PM+
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Re: NWQOTD Humpday, October 27th

Yes Eventually... I'm in no rush. I think DH would have one now if I was up for it but he's not pushing for it either.

When the times right we'll know. For now we are just going to be NW's and enjoy our newest little furbaby
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KatieG2010 Posted: Oct 27, 2010 04:47 PM+
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Re: NWQOTD Humpday, October 27th

yes - i want to be a mommy!!!!!! i also wan to be a stay at home mommy!!!!! Since we weren't able to do stuff (like vacations and weekends away) while we were dating i'd like to wait a few years before having a baby!
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daniellek730 Posted: Oct 27, 2010 06:01 PM+
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Re: NWQOTD Humpday, October 27th

I never wanted kids until my mother passed away. The bond that we had together made me realize that I want that. She used to keep a journal in the back of my baby book and wrote from the heart how much she loved me and how amazing it is to be a mom. I really wanted to take care and watch my son or daughter grow.

My DH really wanted a baby too. We weren't getting any younger and felt immediately we wanted a baby or two! I must tell you that I didn't expect to get pregnant this quickly but I'm glad that my son will be joining our little family in four months. I feel complete again.
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MirabellaNYC Posted: Oct 27, 2010 08:41 PM+
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Re: NWQOTD Humpday, October 27th

Yes we absolutely want children-in fact, I'm 24 1/2 weeks pregnant with a yummy baby boy!

DH and I are both on the same page with wanting 2 bambinos. We don't care if we have 2 boys or 1 of each. Truly, you go through so much crazy testing while you're preggo, all you really care about is that your baby is healthy.
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MoochsWifey Posted: Oct 27, 2010 09:03 PM+
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Re: NWQOTD Humpday, October 27th

We both desperately want a baby and have been ttc for over a year.
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SoontobeGallagher Posted: Oct 27, 2010 10:29 PM+
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Re: NWQOTD Humpday, October 27th

I've been getting baby fever A LOT lately...then reality sets in and I know right now is not the time for us to have children. DH is fully aware that we are not having kids for a few years and he is cool with it.
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GR2010 Posted: Oct 28, 2010 12:22 AM+
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Re: NWQOTD Humpday, October 27th

We go back and forth. The thought of something growing inside of me freaks me out a little (I know I know I have issues). We have always said we'll try at some point and if it happens great, if not we'll look into adoption or just get lots of mini schnauzer friends for Darwin We do want to travel a lot more before we try, we know there are certain places you don't take the kids on vacation and we're not ready to give that up just yet.

ETA: As for family pressure my mom calls the small bedroom room next to ours 'the nursery' and two months before the wedding she asked if we were going to have kids soon so she could be a grandmother. She likes to remind me she had 4 children by the time she was my age (30). She's only 50! I don't know why she wants to be a grandmother so badly!

and for MIL she told me I shouldn't have children so I guess no pressure there
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LadyDuda81509 Posted: Oct 28, 2010 08:17 AM+
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Re: NWQOTD Humpday, October 27th

Do not have any yet,

and yes i want them!!!

having kids will make my life complete!!

3 or 4!!

prob wont make it to four, but def more than 2!
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GT143EA Posted: Oct 28, 2010 06:35 PM+
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Re: NWQOTD Humpday, October 27th

Well we already have one (my 10 1/2 year old stepson) and a on the way! Thbis will probably be it for us jsut because we cant afford anymore kids and we dont have any room for more.
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caper24 Posted: Oct 29, 2010 11:13 PM+
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Re: NWQOTD Humpday, October 27th

DH and I are both on the same page that we do not want kids. Every now and then I change my mind, but then I visit my friends who have kids and I am right back to not wanting them again.
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