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ok this is my final 2 cents on this whole shower thing...

Original post by gina409

i cant believe how ot of hand this got...i never meant too ffend,hurt anyone..i really was just trying to have a shower for all the preggo/mommies w have...a way to celebrate the great experince of having a baby

the original plan was a secret santa gift exchange..a gift for each preggo/mommy with potuck so it would be cheaper..we would play some games,make the bow hats and just have fun

i dont know where it all got out of han but i know some people r upset,the fms are flying around..

i am officially taking my name out..i think we should scrap this whole idea..cause even if someone else wanted to do it..it would just be weird since all this happened


to anyone who is ttc or have had a miscarriage..i cant imagine the pain u r going through an i never brought this up to hurt you or make u fel bad for not wanting to come..i would totally undertand why you would not want to..

i know some peope questioned why i would do this cause some lades on this site have had these unfortunate events happen to them an i assure you 100 percent i never meant to upset you

i just thought it would be fun..so there it is my goodbye baby shower letter and i hope we do something all together soon
LadyDuda81509 Posted:

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Posted by GT143EA


Posted by LadyDuda81509


yeah i pretty much swear by cotton candy! we had it at my shower, and i was going to get it for the wedding, but i didnt want my teeth and tounge to be blue for pictures!! lol i totally have a small cotton candy machine! so except that at the DU-DA-Q!!!




Yay!!! Is there a definite date for the DU-DA-Q?



yup!! its june 26th!! you coming right??!!!?!?!?!?!
GT143EA Posted:

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Posted by LadyDuda81509


Posted by GT143EA


Posted by LadyDuda81509


yeah i pretty much swear by cotton candy! we had it at my shower, and i was going to get it for the wedding, but i didnt want my teeth and tounge to be blue for pictures!! lol i totally have a small cotton candy machine! so except that at the DU-DA-Q!!!




Yay!!! Is there a definite date for the DU-DA-Q?



yup!! its june 26th!! you coming right??!!!?!?!?!?!




You know it!
VickiR510 Posted:

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Posted by gina409

i cant believe how ot of hand this got...i never meant too ffend,hurt anyone..i really was just trying to have a shower for all the preggo/mommies w have...a way to celebrate the great experince of having a baby

the original plan was a secret santa gift exchange..a gift for each preggo/mommy with potuck so it would be cheaper..we would play some games,make the bow hats and just have fun

i dont know where it all got out of han but i know some people r upset,the fms are flying around..

i am officially taking my name out..i think we should scrap this whole idea..cause even if someone else wanted to do it..it would just be weird since all this happened


to anyone who is ttc or have had a miscarriage..i cant imagine the pain u r going through an i never brought this up to hurt you or make u fel bad for not wanting to come..i would totally undertand why you would not want to..

i know some peope questioned why i would do this cause some lades on this site have had these unfortunate events happen to them an i assure you 100 percent i never meant to upset you

i just thought it would be fun..so there it is my goodbye baby shower letter and i hope we do something all together soon



OMG GIna! Im so sorry this is happening. I know you were just really trying to do something sweet & nice. And as a person who has had a miscarriage within the last 5 months i just want you to know that i did NOT take any of this idea as something you would do to hurt anyone. Things in life happen & we all have to find our way of dealing with it & moving on. If it wasnt for some people then they shouldnt go & if it is then let the party commence.

Thank you for being sweet & generous & thinking fo all of those that are happily parent planning! Goodluck to them all.
jeanettelovesjason Posted:

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Posted by VickiR510


Posted by gina409

i cant believe how ot of hand this got...i never meant too ffend,hurt anyone..i really was just trying to have a shower for all the preggo/mommies w have...a way to celebrate the great experince of having a baby

the original plan was a secret santa gift exchange..a gift for each preggo/mommy with potuck so it would be cheaper..we would play some games,make the bow hats and just have fun

i dont know where it all got out of han but i know some people r upset,the fms are flying around..

i am officially taking my name out..i think we should scrap this whole idea..cause even if someone else wanted to do it..it would just be weird since all this happened


to anyone who is ttc or have had a miscarriage..i cant imagine the pain u r going through an i never brought this up to hurt you or make u fel bad for not wanting to come..i would totally undertand why you would not want to..

i know some peope questioned why i would do this cause some lades on this site have had these unfortunate events happen to them an i assure you 100 percent i never meant to upset you

i just thought it would be fun..so there it is my goodbye baby shower letter and i hope we do something all together soon



OMG GIna! Im so sorry this is happening. I know you were just really trying to do something sweet & nice. And as a person who has had a miscarriage within the last 5 months i just want you to know that i did NOT take any of this idea as something you would do to hurt anyone. Things in life happen & we all have to find our way of dealing with it & moving on. If it wasnt for some people then they shouldnt go & if it is then let the party commence.

Thank you for being sweet & generous & thinking fo all of those that are happily parent planning! Goodluck to them all.



ITA!!! for Gina!!!
FutureMrsG Posted:

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Posted by grkbarbie

Yikes! I can only speak for myself when I say you are AWESOME for even thinking about a shower g2g bbq. Hopefully everything gets ironed out and you girls can have a memorable day together. Anything I can do to help, let me know.






ITA! And I can't believe that anyone would think that you of all people would want to do this to hurt someone else's feelings!!!



I agree! I thought it was so sweet of you to think of the idea in the first place.
RitasEngaged Posted:

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what did i miss
KerriJohnS Posted:

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No dudaq for me. :( sooo sad. I cry.

Summertimegal424 Posted:

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i dont think you should stop planning this g2g.... u had many that were interested!

MoochsWifey Posted:

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Gina I am so sorry people took it as you were trying to hurt their feelings! Anyone who frequents this board should know Gina is the LAST person to do something to intentionally hurt someone.

And I just have to say, I am ttc and DH and I are having a really rough time. We can't conceive naturally due to medical issues we both have and will be starting IVF next month. I never for one second though Gina was trying to hurt or exclude meor anything like that.

Also, just as a testement to who Gina really is and how considerate she is of other's feelings: A few weeks ago there was like a boom of pregnancy announcements on the board, Gina took the time to send me a FM saying that she knew it must be hard for me to see so many people getting pregnant while I was struggling. She said the sweetest things that really made me feel good.

In the words of Forest Gump, 'That's all I have to say about that.'
T E R I Posted:

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GIna, I'm sooo sorry that you were being put through crap for this, I thought it was an awesome idea and I'm not preggers or ttc. It sounded like a great idea for all of us to have fun and celebrate all the pregger girls

sorry you were given crap, you rock for thinking of doing it
julesrbf Posted:

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Also, just as a testement to who Gina really is and how considerate she is of other's feelings: A few weeks ago there was like a boom of pregnancy announcements on the board, Gina took the time to send me a FM saying that she knew it must be hard for me to see so many people getting pregnant while I was struggling. She said the sweetest things that really made me feel good.






That's a pretty wonderful thing for someone to do!
MoochsWifey Posted:

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Posted by julesrbf


Posted by MoochsWifey



Also, just as a testement to who Gina really is and how considerate she is of other's feelings: A few weeks ago there was like a boom of pregnancy announcements on the board, Gina took the time to send me a FM saying that she knew it must be hard for me to see so many people getting pregnant while I was struggling. She said the sweetest things that really made me feel good.






That's a pretty wonderful thing for someone to do!



That's what I'm saying! How can someone be so thoughtful to do that but then intentionally try to hurt people, they can't plain and simple.
RitasEngaged Posted:

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Posted by MoochsWifey

Gina I am so sorry people took it as you were trying to hurt their feelings! Anyone who frequents this board should know Gina is the LAST person to do something to intentionally hurt someone.

And I just have to say, I am ttc and DH and I are having a really rough time. We can't conceive naturally due to medical issues we both have and will be starting IVF next month. I never for one second though Gina was trying to hurt or exclude meor anything like that.

Also, just as a testement to who Gina really is and how considerate she is of other's feelings: A few weeks ago there was like a boom of pregnancy announcements on the board, Gina took the time to send me a FM saying that she knew it must be hard for me to see so many people getting pregnant while I was struggling. She said the sweetest things that really made me feel good.

In the words of Forest Gump, 'That's all I have to say about that.'



LadyDuda81509 Posted:

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Posted by KerriJohnS

No dudaq for me. :( sooo sad. I cry.



iknow im soo sorry kerri!!!!! i will make it up to you i promise!!!!!!!
geegee827 Posted:

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Gina - YOU ROCK!!! That's all I have to say. You are the warmest most giving, sympathetic person ever! I don't think you have a malicious bone in your body.

I don't know what went on with this shower thing because I haven't really been paying attention today but I just want you to know that I HEART YOU!!!

xoxo
KerriJohnS Posted:

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Posted by MoochsWifey

Gina I am so sorry people took it as you were trying to hurt their feelings! Anyone who frequents this board should know Gina is the LAST person to do something to intentionally hurt someone.

And I just have to say, I am ttc and DH and I are having a really rough time. We can't conceive naturally due to medical issues we both have and will be starting IVF next month. I never for one second though Gina was trying to hurt or exclude meor anything like that.

Also, just as a testement to who Gina really is and how considerate she is of other's feelings: A few weeks ago there was like a boom of pregnancy announcements on the board, Gina took the time to send me a FM saying that she knew it must be hard for me to see so many people getting pregnant while I was struggling. She said the sweetest things that really made me feel good.

In the words of Forest Gump, 'That's all I have to say about that.'



Damn that Gina!!!!.. I didn't get an FM like that!!!

bah hahahaa! I'm joking before anyone gets nutty!!!

Who doesn't love Gina??
KerriJohnS Posted:

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Posted by KerriJohnS

No dudaq for me. :( sooo sad. I cry.



iknow im soo sorry kerri!!!!! i will make it up to you i promise!!!!!!!





I'll still be drunk that day at least!!!!!
azailia Posted:

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gina i am so sorry you feel that way!!

i know how sweet and gennuine you are!!! i have never met anyone in my life as self less as you and I mean that from the bottom of my heart!!!

i hope you know how much we love you!!! and really aprreciate all you do for each one of us!!! you are truly amazing!!!


p.s.....ummm did I hear block party????? I haven't been to a block party in years!!!! I am totally crashing yours!!!!!

block parties define summer!!! i always wanted to do one here, but i wouldn't even know how to begin!!! i bet you are in charge of a lot of the planning for yours!!
Summertimegal424 Posted:

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Posted by azailia

gina i am so sorry you feel that way!!

i know how sweet and gennuine you are!!! i have never met anyone in my life as self less as you and I mean that from the bottom of my heart!!!

i hope you know how much we love you!!! and really aprreciate all you do for each one of us!!! you are truly amazing!!!


p.s.....ummm did I hear block party????? I haven't been to a block party in years!!!! I am totally crashing yours!!!!!

block parties define summer!!! i always wanted to do one here, but i wouldn't even know how to begin!!! i bet you are in charge of a lot of the planning for yours!!



gina im thinking you might have to have a g2g block party! ha ha
dazies1011 Posted:

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Posted by gina409

u guys better come!!!!!! its going to be so fun!!!!

day time we got rides for kids,magician,games,water ballon fghts,cotton candy,italian ices etc etc

nigth we got the dj and beer pong tourney!!!!!





you said cotton candy!?!?!?!?!?! im soo there! i will push my way to the front of that line!!

can big kids ride the rides too???

Ill be right there with you!!!!

All I know is that I LOVE GINA!!!!!!! And Im sorry things worked out this way because some people are the way they are

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