ok this is my final 2 cents on this whole shower thing...

i cant believe how ot of hand this got...i never meant too ffend,hurt anyone..i really was just trying to have a shower for all the preggo/mommies w have...a way to celebrate the great experince of having a baby

the original plan was a secret santa gift exchange..a gift for each preggo/mommy with potuck so it would be cheaper..we would play some games,make the bow hats and just have fun

i dont know where it all got out of han but i know some people r upset,the fms are flying around..

i am officially taking my name out..i think we should scrap this whole idea..cause even if someone else wanted to do it..it would just be weird since all this happened


to anyone who is ttc or have had a miscarriage..i cant imagine the pain u r going through an i never brought this up to hurt you or make u fel bad for not wanting to come..i would totally undertand why you would not want to..

i know some peope questioned why i would do this cause some lades on this site have had these unfortunate events happen to them an i assure you 100 percent i never meant to upset you

i just thought it would be fun..so there it is my goodbye baby shower letter and i hope we do something all together soon

Yikes! I can only speak for myself when I say you are AWESOME for even thinking about a shower g2g bbq. Hopefully everything gets ironed out and you girls can have a memorable day together. Anything I can do to help, let me know.

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Posted by grkbarbie

Yikes! I can only speak for myself when I say you are AWESOME for even thinking about a shower g2g bbq. Hopefully everything gets ironed out and you girls can have a memorable day together. Anything I can do to help, let me know.

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ITA! And I can't believe that anyone would think that you of all people would want to do this to hurt someone else's feelings!!!

i dont understand what the problem was to begin with

you wanted to have a party for the liw girls who are preggo, right?

why do you have to be prego to go

isnt that the point of a baby shower? to give gifts and play games for the mommy to be

im sorry you had a hard time putting this together
your heart was in the right place

aww gina!
it is a very sweet idea! and maybe something can still happen. dont feel bad for bringing up the idea

I feel as if part of this is my fault because I originally misinterpreted the plan. And if that's the case, I'm sorry that that was the catalyst.

You really are too good of a person to feel this way, and I don't doubt for one moment that it ever crossed your mind that girls going through their own struggles would be hurt. Maybe a few months down the line things will change

Gina...

ANYONE who knows you knows that you are the most caring and considerate person they will ever meet in their entire life. I personally am so greatful and blessed to know you and know that I have someone like you in my life and Jelly Beans.

With that being said, I truely know that anyone who knows you knows your heart was ONLY in the right place and that you just wanted to do what you do best... give... give and give some more. Make people smile, and be there for the preggos.

I understand if some people didn't feel comfortable going, I spoke to some,and so with that, they didn't have to go..and wouldn't have...and some have even said they just wouldnt have gone and didnt post because they didn't see it as a big deal. Does this make sense or do I sound like a loon?

I know it wasnt expected for everyone to buy every preggo a gift, and that you just wanted to bring a smile to all the girls who have become your extended family, because GIna, that is just how you are! And I know you are sensitive because I am too...so I know where you are coming from.
No one blames you for that. And if anyone does then there is a chip on their shoulder for another reason...and it has nothing to do with YOU...

It is amazing that you even considered it.... just shows you are doing things for others, not yourself...

sincerely,
Mama Herb and Baby Basil

yeah i think the whole thing should be scrapped...

gina is probably the most selfless person i know and wanted to do something amazing for the moms to be! i dont know why people would get offened!

love you gina!!! sorry it got out of control...can i still come to your block party??

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Posted by LadyDuda81509

yeah i think the whole thing should be scrapped...

gina is probably the most selfless person i know and wanted to do something amazing for the moms to be! i dont know why people would get offened!

love you gina!!! sorry it got out of control...can i still come to your block party??

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Im crashing ur party because Im gona wana drink after i have this little one. I have been dying for a drink lately...lol

u guys better come!!!!!! its going to be so fun!!!!

day time we got rides for kids,magician,games,water ballon fghts,cotton candy,italian ices etc etc

nigth we got the dj and beer pong tourney!!!!!

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Posted by LadyDuda81509

yeah i think the whole thing should be scrapped...

gina is probably the most selfless person i know and wanted to do something amazing for the moms to be! i dont know why people would get offened!

love you gina!!! sorry it got out of control...can i still come to your block party??

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i dont know her but imo in shouldnt be scrapped at all.

you should still have it and give a big F U to all the big babies who were cryin about it.

NOTHING WRONG ONE BIT CELEBRATING THE JOY OF ANOTHER WOMAN HAVING A CHILD.

jmo

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Posted by gina409

u guys better come!!!!!! its going to be so fun!!!!

day time we got rides for kids,magician,games,water ballon fghts,cotton candy,italian ices etc etc

nigth we got the dj and beer pong tourney!!!!!

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sweeeeeeeeeeeeeeet!!!!

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Posted by GT143EA

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Posted by gina409

u guys better come!!!!!! its going to be so fun!!!!

day time we got rides for kids,magician,games,water ballon fghts,cotton candy,italian ices etc etc

nigth we got the dj and beer pong tourney!!!!!

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sweeeeeeeeeeeeeeet!!!!

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Gail... does this mean you'll be showering at Ginas again?



Just wana know around what time to get a flash in

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Posted by gina409

u guys better come!!!!!! its going to be so fun!!!!

day time we got rides for kids,magician,games,water ballon fghts,cotton candy,italian ices etc etc

nigth we got the dj and beer pong tourney!!!!!

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you said cotton candy!?!?!?!?!?! im soo there! i will push my way to the front of that line!!

can big kids ride the rides too???

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Posted by PoppedInASnap

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Posted by GT143EA

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Posted by gina409

u guys better come!!!!!! its going to be so fun!!!!

day time we got rides for kids,magician,games,water ballon fghts,cotton candy,italian ices etc etc

nigth we got the dj and beer pong tourney!!!!!

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sweeeeeeeeeeeeeeet!!!!

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Gail... does this mean you'll be showering at Ginas again?



Just wana know around what time to get a flash in

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Posted by LadyDuda81509

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Posted by gina409

u guys better come!!!!!! its going to be so fun!!!!

day time we got rides for kids,magician,games,water ballon fghts,cotton candy,italian ices etc etc

nigth we got the dj and beer pong tourney!!!!!

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you said cotton candy!?!?!?!?!?! im soo there! i will push my way to the front of that line!!

can big kids ride the rides too???

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MMMMMMMMMMMMMM!!! Cotton candy is heaven!!! I was wondering about the rides too!

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Posted by Rosalind_75

i dont understand what the problem was to begin with

you wanted to have a party for the liw girls who are preggo, right?

why do you have to be prego to go

isnt that the point of a baby shower? to give gifts and play games for the mommy to be

im sorry you had a hard time putting this together
your heart was in the right place

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ITA!!!!!!!!!!

oh im def on the rides!!!!! and cotton candy for everyone

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Posted by GT143EA

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Posted by LadyDuda81509

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Posted by gina409

u guys better come!!!!!! its going to be so fun!!!!

day time we got rides for kids,magician,games,water ballon fghts,cotton candy,italian ices etc etc

nigth we got the dj and beer pong tourney!!!!!

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you said cotton candy!?!?!?!?!?! im soo there! i will push my way to the front of that line!!

can big kids ride the rides too???

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MMMMMMMMMMMMMM!!! Cotton candy is heaven!!! I was wondering about the rides too!

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yeah i pretty much swear by cotton candy! we had it at my shower, and i was going to get it for the wedding, but i didnt want my teeth and tounge to be blue for pictures!! lol i totally have a small cotton candy machine! so except that at the DU-DA-Q!!!

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Posted by LadyDuda81509


yeah i pretty much swear by cotton candy! we had it at my shower, and i was going to get it for the wedding, but i didnt want my teeth and tounge to be blue for pictures!! lol i totally have a small cotton candy machine! so except that at the DU-DA-Q!!!

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Yay!!! Is there a definite date for the DU-DA-Q?