Q of the D (with poll!!)

ok ladies.... recent events of the weekend have sparked this Q of the D

does DH have facebook?? if so, does it ever cause problems between you? like, seeing a girl he is friends with that you dont know leave a comment on his page or something?!

take poll and feel free to answer below

dh isnt into that kind of stuff but for some reason it bothers him that i have it

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Posted by futuremrsfab

dh isnt into that kind of stuff but for some reason it bothers him that i have it

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same here... kinda...

He is not into facebook or myspace at all. He had myspace a few years ago for a few months but he never kept up with it. I never cared who commented. He even had an ex girlfriend on there (Who was married and pregnant with her first child at the time) Call me a fool, but I really trust my DH 100% and never worry about things like that. I keep telling him to make a FB but he's like HELL NO

He doesnt really like that I have one but not cause he cares who Im friends with. He just calls me corny for having one!

We both have it. He has a lot of HS friends (men and women). It doesnt bother me. He is the insecure one . I have some guy friends from HS on their but rarely talk to them.

ETA: I did have my ex-sis in law (who I still talk to), but he freaked and that caused a fight so I deleted her.

DH isn't into facebook, myspace,etc because he's a teacher and very private.

I however have both and it doens't bother him that I have it. It bothers him if I put pics up of him...thought that went out the window with the wedding pics.

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Posted by Songstress

Call me a fool, but I really trust my DH 100% and never worry about things like that. I keep telling him to make a FB but he's like HELL NO

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oh dont get me wrong... i trust DH 100% also... but i know that he was a bit of a ladies man back in the day.... and i've met some of those ladies he was 'friends' with and i feel like FB would be an invitation for them to be all about being in DHs life again which i am happy without them

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Posted by TommysWife08

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Posted by Songstress

Call me a fool, but I really trust my DH 100% and never worry about things like that. I keep telling him to make a FB but he's like HELL NO

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oh dont get me wrong... i trust DH 100% also... but i know that he was a bit of a ladies man back in the day.... and i've met some of those ladies he was 'friends' with and i feel like FB would be an invitation for them to be all about being in DHs life again which i am happy without them

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I can see where youre coming from. My DH was a ladies man too. You know he can make it so that no one can search for him. Thats what I did with mine.

DH does not have facebook.. he has (more like had) Friendster.. so no biggie.. he thinks i post too much on facebook.. too many pics and what not.. but then i tell him, i can regulate who views it.. anyway.. i have some of his friends on my list, so if they post a pic of their baby or their house or something, he'll look at it.. otherwise, he has no plans to join..

DH doesn't have one - he had a myspace that he barely signed on to and one day he had this crazy message from his ex's sister - it was totally insane so after that he got annoyed and deleted it - so he refuses to do a facebook he thinks its gay i just made one about a week ago b/c my family and some co-workers were pestering me about it......i wouldnt mind if he got messages from girls though - he used to get messages from girls on myspace once in awhile and it was never a big deal usually just people he grew up with and went to school with that would send him private messages to say whats up.....

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Posted by TommysWife08

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Posted by futuremrsfab

dh isnt into that kind of stuff but for some reason it bothers him that i have it

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same here... kinda...

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i wanted him to join just so that i can show married to DH

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Posted by Songstress



I can see where youre coming from. My DH was a ladies man too. You know he can make it so that no one can search for him. Thats what I did with mine.

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yeah but i feel like all these girls will see in their news feed that DH became friends with so and so and they will see him that way

i dont know - i KNOW it will cause issues b/c while i trust DH totally.. i just dont even like the THOUGHT that there are all these girls that at one time some of them didnt care that we were together and they could possibly be back in his life in some way.... sorry, i dont need that

No. I think its cool that I get to put a face to some of the friends girls or guys that he has had memories with. Everyone has a past...there is no harm in that.

I forced him to sign on because i was getting tired of his friends requesting me to send him messages. I have had myspace/facebook since their creation (pretty much) and he never had issues with me using it and talking to people so why should I have issues with him doing it.

I had a few girls say some off the wall comments about him since they knew him when he was touring in a band, didn't phase me one bit. I actually get a kick out of hearing old stories about him.

DH could care less about email, computers, etc.

My cousin's husband recently said some crappy things about his life (he has 4 kids and acts like he was not part of the deed that caused them, and that he's unhappy about it) on facebook and I want to call my cousin and tell her about them. He's a JERK and facebook is NOT the place to voice concerns about your family and it just makes it easy for him.

DH has FB and i think sometimes hes on it more often than I am lol

We've had no issues. I have ex's on there as friends, they comment on my page and I comment on theres. He doesn't care, he knows its harmless.
Now i get to see his old friends online so its nice to put a face with the name. We're pretty easy going people.

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Posted by TommysWife08

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Posted by Songstress



I can see where youre coming from. My DH was a ladies man too. You know he can make it so that no one can search for him. Thats what I did with mine.

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yeah but i feel like all these girls will see in their news feed that DH became friends with so and so and they will see him that way

i dont know - i KNOW it will cause issues b/c while i trust DH totally.. i just dont even like the THOUGHT that there are all these girls that at one time some of them didnt care that we were together and they could possibly be back in his life in some way.... sorry, i dont need that

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If there were girls who were disrespectful and ignored that he was with you, then it would honestly bother me. But DH would probably deny those friend requests anyway. He doesnt have to accept those biatches

DH does not want it and does not care.

I have it and he doesnt care - I do let him see it and show him posts and stuff. Overall he doesnt seem to care and is not the jealous type.

Me on the other hand I am jealous type so I could see me getting mad about it.