ok ladies.... recent events of the weekend have sparked this Q of the D
does DH have facebook?? if so, does it ever cause problems between you? like, seeing a girl he is friends with that you dont know leave a comment on his page or something?!
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MnM182008
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DH also doesn't have facebook or myspace, he refuses too. Thinks its 'ridiculous' to tell everyone your every move, and show them our pictures. He gets annoyed at me when I am online so often. I have exs on my page as well. I don't talk to them much, but DH doesn't care. We trust one another completely. I have to since my DH works in the same office as his ex. Its the past we are married, and they (the ex's) are in relationships and have moved on as well I am sure.
lucky1010
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He has it, but rarely goes on it. I set it up for him as a joke originally and then deactivated it, but he wanted to see what all the hype was about and reactivated..
If I see a girl or anyone I don't know I ask. It hasn't caused any issues, cause its really not worth it for me..
RadiantBride
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DH hates any type of website where you can post pictures or personal information. We share my page, its sad some of his friends really request me as a friend . I dont mind and it definitely does not cause issues. I will actually call him and tell him to check out so and so's pictures or something.
TommysWife08
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Posted by Songstress
If there were girls who were disrespectful and ignored that he was with you, then it would honestly bother me. But DH would probably deny those friend requests anyway. He doesnt have to accept those biatches
u have fm
lizzie217
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DH is not into anything like Facebook, Myspace he hates it.
I canceled my MYSpace a cple yrs ago bc guys left me stupid messages that annoyed DH. Now I have FB but I am very careful who I am friends with.
He gets annoyed bc he does not get why I put status 'making dinner' or 'going out with Bobby' he thinks its all so 'juvenile' but I LIKE IT! haha so he just keeps quite ...MOST OF THE TIME....sometimes he will get annoyed at it like He also goes on mine to see things RARELY like his friend posted pics from their old little league and he looked at those
I think FB and myspace to have the potential to cause problems and use FB sparigly as such and am cautious with it
Butterfly123
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Just tell him theres always LIW
lizzie217
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Just tell him theres always LIW
DH keeps begging me join
TommysWife08
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Just tell him theres always LIW
lizzie217
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Posted by Songstress
I can see where youre coming from. My DH was a ladies man too. You know he can make it so that no one can search for him. Thats what I did with mine.
yeah but i feel like all these girls will see in their news feed that DH became friends with so and so and they will see him that way
i dont know - i KNOW it will cause issues b/c while i trust DH totally.. i just dont even like the THOUGHT that there are all these girls that at one time some of them didnt care that we were together and they could possibly be back in his life in some way.... sorry, i dont need that
UMMMMM Hell to the no....that would piss me off and you are totally normal IMO to feel that way! Its one thing if the friends are respectful but any girl that in the past has been disrespectful of you no way.
Butterfly123
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Posted by TommysWife08
Posted by Songstress
I can see where youre coming from. My DH was a ladies man too. You know he can make it so that no one can search for him. Thats what I did with mine.
yeah but i feel like all these girls will see in their news feed that DH became friends with so and so and they will see him that way
i dont know - i KNOW it will cause issues b/c while i trust DH totally.. i just dont even like the THOUGHT that there are all these girls that at one time some of them didnt care that we were together and they could possibly be back in his life in some way.... sorry, i dont need that
UMMMMM Hell to the no....that would piss me off and you are totally normal IMO to feel that way! Its one thing if the friends are respectful but any girl that in the past has been disrespectful of you no way.
Exactly. I am not jealous but there are things I wont tolerate. Anyone who was not respectful of your relationship should not be in your lives, PERIOD.
TheFutureMrsM
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Dh has it, but uses it to make money he rarely goes on
Butterfly123
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Just tell him theres always LIW
DH keeps begging me join
actually, I didnt wanna tell you but he did join. His screen name is LoveMyLizzieForever
(okay dont quote, wouldnt wanna cause drama with a little jokey joke)
lizzie217
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Lea I just called and he is mad your ruined the surprise!
BTW I joined LIW last march so it has been a year of this insanity..
Totally agree it goes both ways anyone male,female, shemale who disrespects our relationship is OUT!
TommysWife08
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thanks ladies!! you just made me feel normal
GinaZ
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yes my DH has it. never causes any issues. Except now he is considering going to his high school reunion which will mess up my thanksgiving. Otherwise I have no problem with it at all.
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dh isnt into that kind of stuff but for some reason it bothers him that i have it
same here... kinda...
I let him see my page & I think he thinks its just dumb. I dont talk to any of my ex's- those relationships were over years ago- but its weird because he was in a frat (and I was in a sorority) so he gets annoyed when his frat brothers request me- he doesnt like some of them (some are seriously shady) and I guess he doesnt want them to know our business. I like keeping in contact with people from the old days & seeing what everyone is up to.
squeekietoy
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We both have Facebook and MySpace. But we both have a lot of the same friends so it's not really an issue.
CD516
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Dh hates facebook, my space, all of it. Hes a teacher and thinks these online sites are for kids. He also thinks they cause problems that are unecessary and that his business does not need to be publicized. I dont have facebook either . When we first started dating , people kept contacting me and it was causing problems and we just dont need that anymore. We feel like we stay in touch with everyone we want to.
Bride908
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DH made a FB a few months ago. I dont really care. At first he was a little annoyed when I had a myspace a few years ago and he didnt. I was really suprised when he made a FB actually. He knows better than to get into any trouble with it just like I do.
bluebelle
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we both signed up for it in college -- i use it a lot more than he does (although he used it to get addresses for our wedding guest list, and to make plans for his bachelor party)
no drama through facebook - neither of us is jealous and we are friends with eachothers friends
