Q of the D (with poll!!)

Original post by TommysWife08

Mar 03, 2009 09:49 AM

ok ladies.... recent events of the weekend have sparked this Q of the D

does DH have facebook?? if so, does it ever cause problems between you? like, seeing a girl he is friends with that you dont know leave a comment on his page or something?!

take poll and feel free to answer below

Cutechef729 Posted: Mar 03, 2009 04:55 PM

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We both have facebook-we pretty much keep in touch with high school friends and most of them are mutual.

Espo22 Posted: Mar 03, 2009 06:45 PM

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Dh is on FB and I am not which is funny bc you would think it'd be the other way around. Eh no problems, not yet at least hahaha. He almost deleted it but i told him to just stay on. About a month ago or more some girl messaged him saying hey how you been, and he said, i think you mustve mistaken me for somebody else and she said no you look so familiar though i think i know you. He responded by saying that she was so young and there was no way she knew who he was bc when she started partying was when he probably stopped. Its so funny bc he felt so bad about that and i asked why and he said bc maybe being on FB encourages these idiots and he's married so he shouldn't be on. I said it doesnt matter what others do, bc whether its FB or in person or anywhere these things happen and you have to know how to handle it. Right after though he changed his pic to one of our wedding pics.

He's not that into it though, not like he goes on and leaves comments or any of that.

VickiR510 Posted: Mar 03, 2009 07:11 PM

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DH has a facebook. I actually showed him how the whole thing works. Do girls that leave messages bother me? NO but if it were inappropriate especially if they know we are married then yes it would bother me. But DH hopefully i believe would be smart enough to not entertain that type of stuff. And the girl wouldnt want to get on my bad side! lol lol

RockysGirl Posted: Mar 03, 2009 09:51 PM

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no facebook, but he did used to have a myspace page. he hated it, but I made him keep it up anyway since we lived far apart and i liked to leave comments for him. lol. We never had any 'real' issues with it. Once though, I did find his stupid ex-girlfriend on his page and I'll admit that I didn't like it. They had NO friends in common at all, so for her search his name and then friend request him - i dunno, just seemed fishy. So I told him that i wasn't comfortable with that and he totally understood. He didn't even think that I'd care if he confirmed her, since he was NEVER on that page anyway, and because they broke up like 10 years ago and haven't even talked at all since. But he still respected my feelings and deleted her. Blah. Stupid girls trying to be 'friendly' with their ex's. She even got his number from her MOTHER (who is next door neighbors with his aunt) and texted him around that same time that she friend requested him. Stupid Slutt better watch her back, huh!

TommysWife08 Posted: Mar 04, 2009 08:22 AM

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Posted by RockysGirl

no facebook, but he did used to have a myspace page. he hated it, but I made him keep it up anyway since we lived far apart and i liked to leave comments for him. lol. We never had any 'real' issues with it. Once though, I did find his stupid ex-girlfriend on his page and I'll admit that I didn't like it. They had NO friends in common at all, so for her search his name and then friend request him - i dunno, just seemed fishy. So I told him that i wasn't comfortable with that and he totally understood. He didn't even think that I'd care if he confirmed her, since he was NEVER on that page anyway, and because they broke up like 10 years ago and haven't even talked at all since. But he still respected my feelings and deleted her. Blah. Stupid girls trying to be 'friendly' with their ex's. She even got his number from her MOTHER (who is next door neighbors with his aunt) and texted him around that same time that she friend requested him. Stupid Slutt better watch her back, huh!

SEE!!! no good can come of facebook lol

Kimbalina Posted: Mar 04, 2009 08:27 AM

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We both have a facebook and Myspace. I think that there has never been a problem. He will ask me if he doesn't know who someone is.

SparkyandAng Posted: Mar 04, 2009 08:31 AM

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Posted by kristi313

DH doesn't have one, and he's not so pleased that i'm on the internet so much.

same here

kirstenjk Posted: Mar 04, 2009 09:03 AM

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Actually neither of us have a facebook page.

I know I have no desire to have one - I like flying under the radar and being found so easily.

DH might change his mind since his friends keep bugging him that he doesn't have one. Whatever he wants is fine with me.

Kimbalina Posted: Mar 04, 2009 09:58 AM

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Posted by bluebelle

we both signed up for it in college -- i use it a lot more than he does (although he used it to get addresses for our wedding guest list, and to make plans for his bachelor party)

no drama through facebook - neither of us is jealous and we are friends with eachothers friends

Wellllllcome to LIW. It seems that you are already married and just joined!! To bad you didn't join during the planning process you could have had craziness with us!

SB7308 Posted: Mar 04, 2009 09:59 AM

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Posted by Kimbalina

Posted by bluebelle

we both signed up for it in college -- i use it a lot more than he does (although he used it to get addresses for our wedding guest list, and to make plans for his bachelor party)

no drama through facebook - neither of us is jealous and we are friends with eachothers friends

Wellllllcome to LIW. It seems that you are already married and just joined!! To bad you didn't join during the planning process you could have had craziness with us!

RadiantBride Posted: Mar 04, 2009 10:01 AM

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Posted by SB7308

Posted by Kimbalina

Posted by bluebelle

we both signed up for it in college -- i use it a lot more than he does (although he used it to get addresses for our wedding guest list, and to make plans for his bachelor party)

no drama through facebook - neither of us is jealous and we are friends with eachothers friends

Wellllllcome to LIW. It seems that you are already married and just joined!! To bad you didn't join during the planning process you could have had craziness with us!