QOTD2- March 24- Let's Get It On...

PoppedInASnap Posted: Mar 24, 2010 08:20 AM

QOTD2- March 24- Let's Get It On...

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PoppedInASnap Posted: Mar 24, 2010 08:20 AM

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Hump Day Question...How often do you and DH get intimate'
Is it more or less from before you were married? Any tips for those trying to spice up their love lifes?

PoppedInASnap Posted: Mar 24, 2010 08:22 AM

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For us, whenever we can. I know its a rather personal question, but DH and I both agree that even snuggling in bed at night should be something we take the time to remember to do.

When I started to stress out and get my contractions, dh refused for us to do anything. When I mentioned this to the doctor, he acutally told me that if every couple spent TEN minutes of hand holding, massaging, or even kissing, that their stress level would be relieved by half.

We set aside time every night just to talk and cuddle, and I have to say, I sleep through the night and are more relaxed, and DH says that he wakes up in an even better mood...

As for the 'Intimacy'- I still love showering with dh lol... And he seems to find my added weight to be a turn on!

CloudNine Posted: Mar 24, 2010 08:25 AM

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it used to be like 2- 3times a week. since being married, i came off my BC pill and i'm like a raging horomone now lol. lately its been almost every day

LadyDuda81509 Posted: Mar 24, 2010 08:31 AM

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I would say prob on average 2 times a week, sometimes more, sometimes less, but usually at least 2 times!

showering together def is fun!! we do that alot too!

Kimbiz1 Posted: Mar 24, 2010 08:50 AM

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Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh my reply got lost. I had to sign back in. HATE THAT!!!

In a nut shell, married life is sooooooooo much better than the last three months of engaged life. DH said so himself.

Since we're trying for some bambinos, the frequency has increased. I'm shooting for every other day, but we skipped one here and there.

Funny you should mention the shower. Last night DH hopped in for a quick shower before our tax appt. Well I joined him and oh the fun that was had. Right up to the time his friend rang the door bell to leave for the appt. OOOppppss
he he he he

MLAngelo Posted: Mar 24, 2010 09:53 AM

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This has been a very tough place for us. Not that we don't, but not often enough... when I got so sick with stomach issues it was over two months without because I was in to much pain and feeling to miserable. Even now I have pain or get stomach issues that totally kill my mood. Plus the massive weight gain from it, I don't feel even remotely sexy.

Add to that the fact that we have only about 3-4 days a week when we are sleeping in the same state (and bed) and at least one (more likely two) of those days he has to get up massively early. Then factor in things like time of month, visiting his family, visiting friends, nights my stomach still hurts... Its not pretty!

It is definitely A LOT less then we did right after we were married but more then when I was really sick. Still we both wish it was more. That would be one benefit to moving to CT.

coldasice217 Posted: Mar 24, 2010 11:25 AM

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Well....obviously more than before we were married But in all honestly, we cuddled more before we were married, and we lived at home and would go over for visits. Now we just kinda keep to ourselves. I blame PS3. Good thing I have a library card. DH plays video games and is on the computer all night, I usually go in to bed and read, and most nights I go to sleep before he comes in. We maybe only 'cuddle' together one or two nights a week. Now that we have netflix though, we've been watching movies together and spending more time together relaxing like that. But 'intimacy' wise, maybe like twice a week, 3 times on a good one? We're just so tired after work and DH gets home kinda late.

MrsDtoBe09 Posted: Mar 24, 2010 11:26 AM

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Not nearly as much as we should! Working the after school program has me exhausted! By the time I come home, cook dinner, clean up and then work out I'm ready for bed, not sexy time. So I'd say once a week but I'd like it to be more.

gina409 Posted: Mar 24, 2010 12:27 PM

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we def do it more..we live together now!!!!

i would say we go 4 times a week...hey we found something we are both good at

as for tips..my best one would be to switch it up...nothing makes it hotter than doing it in a place u dont often..noe of course the bed is usally more often than not but try the couchthe shower,the floor etc etc

also be the one who offers it..dh likes it when out of nowhere im like u ready..also helps f u r topless when u say this

allegracristina Posted: Mar 24, 2010 03:48 PM

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We are the same now I would say. We've both always had a, how you say, Healthy Sexual Appetite We were like rabbits the first week we got together lol. Now it's probably 3 or more times a week. Hey sometimes it's a couple times a day on the weekends!!! We are both just horny people I think, and very attracted to each other.

VickiR510 Posted: Mar 24, 2010 04:35 PM

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About 3/4 times per week. I guess it really hasnt changed in the 7 yrs together.

As for tips - i just say be imaginative. It really helps to keep the suprise in the relationship. The oher night DH came home & I had on a cute thong these litle stickers that were crystals & they go around the areola. Well I DONT RECOMMEND THEM. HOLY CRA P THEY HURT TAKING THEM OFF> BUT dh loved them & it made for a really hot evening But after was hell! lol

MrsInglima Posted: Mar 24, 2010 06:09 PM

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I'd say 2-3 times a week. Right before we got married we'd do it once a week if even (I think we were both super stressed), but before we moved in together we'd do it like 5 times a week. I think the problem is the fact that I go to bed before DH (he's usually up for another hour or two) and by the time he comes to bed he doesn't bother. I think we both wish we had sex more often, and we've talked about it, but we're both busy so it's hard.

gina409 Posted: Mar 24, 2010 08:32 PM

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Posted by allegracristina

We are the same now I would say. We've both always had a, how you say, Healthy Sexual Appetite We were like rabbits the first week we got together lol. Now it's probably 3 or more times a week. Hey sometimes it's a couple times a day on the weekends!!! We are both just horny people I think, and very attracted to each other.

cant blame u on that!!!!!! im horny just looking at the 2 of you

Summertimegal424 Posted: Mar 24, 2010 09:16 PM

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i'd say 3-4 times a week. sometimes more than once especailly on those days off

caper24 Posted: Mar 25, 2010 12:01 AM

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I would say about 4-5 days a week. I would like it more, but our opposite work schedules don't allow it.
Trust me girls... those of you that say you are 'horny' now....just wait until after 40 !!! It is like my libido is on red bulls! It is crazy. No complaints from DH, he says I'm lucky he is 30, because I would have definitely killed a man my own age by now.