PART 2- BM brought last minute guest complained at the RD that she wasn't invited with a guest (my BP was 20 pple plus family and i wasn't paying therefore I had no say on RD guests) Stole from other BM's at my bachelor party Stole from my mom Stole from my brother's girlfriend stole from other friends stole from MOH AT the wedding (stole money from her bag) No gift No card
No longer friends.... I SERIOUSLY could go on and on about the things she's done.
Thank you card? Yay or Nay??
MR1223
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Nay! nothing to thank them for lol
daniellek730
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Funk dat!
dazies1011
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NO WAY!!!!!!! I didnt send it to people that did that to me.
KerriJohnS
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that's what I thought. It's my boss.
julesrbf
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Absolutely not. What would you be thanking them for? 'Thank you for wasting $$$ of my money.' 'Thank you for being a douchebucket.' 'Thank you for having no manners.' NO WAY!
Tracey1979
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What would you thank them for?
KerriJohnS
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Posted by julesrbf
Absolutely not. What would you be thanking them for? 'Thank you for wasting $$$ of my money.' 'Thank you for being a douchebucket.' 'Thank you for having no manners.' NO WAY!
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well if they didn't show I'd say NO WAY!
i sent a few thank yous to relatives who gave nothing hoping they would be like. . um. . should i have given a gift?
didnt work
daniellek730
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WAIT... stole??? That's really crazy. If I'm reading this correctly, I would have this person arrested.
KerriJohnS
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Posted by daniellek730
WAIT... stole??? That's really crazy. If I'm reading this correctly, I would have this person arrested.
stole is the correct reading. you most definitely are reading correctly.
So if you would have this person arrested does that mean no thank you card?
I couldn't do that. It would be more drama than I'd care to have. Plus she stole things like hair products (and wrapped them up and returned them)... money, ipod, food, etc. Some are alleged.... others are proven. She had other issues going on... I think they made her nuts. She is no longer the person I once knew.
I had A LOT of insanity going on with my BP!!! A LOT!!!! But I smiled through it all because there were camera's all over!!! I wasn't letting their insanity ruin my wedding or my pictures!!!
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Posted by meara
well if they didn't show I'd say NO WAY!
i sent a few thank yous to relatives who gave nothing hoping they would be like. . um. . should i have given a gift?
didnt work
gina409
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no no no no to all of them!!!!!
LadyDuda81509
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Nay Nay!!
IrishBrideASmiling
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What would you thank them for?
my thoughts exactly
julesrbf
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Kerri, to the second one also - are you even kidding me???? WHY WOULD YOU THANK THAT THANKLESS SELFISH PERSON???? No way!
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Kerri, to the second one also - are you even kidding me???? WHY WOULD YOU THANK THAT THANKLESS SELFISH PERSON???? No way!
IDK! IDK!! I feel like I MIGHT end up sending her a blank thank you card. She was a BM. And her mother and sister and BIL were all guests as well. I'm close with the family as well. So it's kind of sticky. Also, she developed a serious problem and basically became a disturbed and disgusting selfish person because of it. She became addicted to pills. So I'm torn on what to do with a TY for her. We are no longer friends.
And I am NOT sending my boss a TY. he's the one who no showed no card nothing. I don't know what I would be thanking him for. You are all right. I just needed to hear it from others so I didn't think I was being a b!tch.
