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Really need tons of prayers - UPDATE

Original post by GettinHutched

Ugh...I would have posted about this last week but I felt maybe it was just a relapse and everything was gonna be fine.

DH's brother has Multiple Sclerosis. He was diagnosed about 8 years ago. He was living in Nashville at the time and his roommates called to say he wasn't getting out of bed. He also wasn't making any sense, his memory was suffering. So he moved back in with his parents.

Years later, medication- he can function somewhat on his own but not well enough to go back to work. So he's been on disability all this time.

A week & a half ago, we find out he's in the hospital. He took a serious downturn - wasn't making any sense, had no sense of time (which happes often) - he couldn't even remember DH's name. He didn't even realize he was in the hospital til days later. The doctor said he figured he wasn't taking his meds and wasn't eating and that was the cause for the relapse.

He made it back home, wasn't getting too much better. Needed help going anywhere, could barely stand on two feet. His parents were so concerned, and were considering putting him in assisted living because they were too worried about leaving him home. I just couldn't believe it.

Now he's in the hospital again and he's even worse. THIS I don't believe- his stepmom actually called and is preparing us if he doesn't make it.

I'm so sick over this. I refuse to believe it. For one thing, MS is not typically a terminal disease. But I'm still so worried.

Anyone out there know much about MS?

I just couldn't imagine another horrible thing happening to DH's family....it's bad enough they lost his oldest brother when he was killed by a drunk driver. A few years after that, Dh's brother was diagnosed with MS. Like they've been through enough.

Sorry for the long winded-ness....we just need some serious prayers out there. And if anyone has any knowledge of MS that would be helpful.

Thanks everyone for listening...

UPDATE****

Thanks for listening to the long winded-ness. Wow, I'm amazed any of you got through it. We were so scared last night- just the way they were talking, as if he wasn't going to make it. He was basically in a coma yesterday.

Today, he's much better. not totally out of the woods- he's remembering some things, but strange things...he asked his stepmom how her parents are doing- they've been dead for years. But at least he's awake and coherent. He's going to be moved to a rehab facility either today or tomorrow. His stepmom said he's had these relapses in the past, they last for 2 weeks- but it hasn't been this bad yet. Thank goodness things seems okay. It really was too scary.

Thank you all SO MUCH for your support. It was a scary night for us...

and thank you SO MUCH for your prayers!!!
AeroJenn Posted:

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Tara, I'm so sorry to hear about ur BIL. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

twinkletoes807 Posted:

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I wish I had some info on MS for you but I don't. I send BIL, you, DH and his family many hugs and lots of prayers!!
MrsMagoo Posted:

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You have FM.

amytee Posted:

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I hope he is okay
SylvieB Posted:

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Tons of prayers for you & your family
DeannaNDave07 Posted:

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i am so sorry to hear this.. . such terrible news.. ill be praying for him and your DH's family!

MrsQ-in2007 Posted:

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Tara, I'm really so sorry to hear this - sounds like the family has been through a lot and his brother has been suffering. I'm sending lots of prayers your way - I hope it's not as serious as they're thinking now.

Aug07OFCbride Posted:

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oh gosh, tara! im so sorry to read this!! you and DH definitely have my prayers.

which form of MS does he have? I have a good friend and she also has MS. I also have a very basic understanding of the course of the different forms from my studies. But with my friend, youd never know she has MS. She's extremely into sports and activity, and hasn't been affected much at this point, aside from some vision issues I believe.

im just really sorry to hear this and i hope he is able to make progress back to where he was.
PeteysBride Posted:

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You have FM honey.

hunnybunnyxoxo Posted:

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oh my! i am so sorry for the news!
i cant believe it!

i will send lots of prayers for you and your family!
MeNBobs Posted:

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So sorry Tara. Many prayers for your bil, you and your dh. I will keep you guys in my thoughts.
melbalalala Posted:

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Im so sorry

milana Posted:

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I am so sorry to hear about your BIL...sending lots of prayers to him
cindyandkevin Posted:

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Omg, I'm so sorry to hear this, Tara!!!!!

MS is a terrible disease, I hope your BIL will be able to pull through.
GettinHutched Posted:

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thanks all- update on page 1
dgirl0114 Posted:

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Keeping your family in my prayers that your BIL continues to improve.
RadiantBride Posted:

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Thank God he is doing much betters. We will al continue to keep him in our prayers.
diva7531 Posted:

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glad to hear he is doing better


for a speedy recovery!
JennNicole Posted:

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Sorry to get in on this late in the game.. Prayers for you and the family
DeannaNDave07 Posted:

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continuing to pray for him .. keep staying positive!

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