Repost from BHB: Do I really need to send a thank you for this?
My grandmother (on my Dad's side) sent me a card for the wedding with a little religious card inside of it.
She did not attend the wedding, and sent her decline in a week after the RSVP.
For the shower, which she did not attend, she sent a check for $25. And, I sent her a nice thank you card and included photos from the shower.
I am pretty upset that she did not send a wedding gift (I think it's because I am not speaking to my father and she wanted me to call him up and get him to come to the wedding- which I did not do)
But, 2 of my aunts (her daughter's) did send gifts, so I wanted to send them thank-yous, with some photos and a favor.
but, if I do that, but not send anything to my grandmother, I think it may make her mad...
But, I don't think it's fair that I should have to send her a thank-you when she didn't even send me a gift in the first place...
thoughts?
She did not attend the wedding, and sent her decline in a week after the RSVP.
For the shower, which she did not attend, she sent a check for $25. And, I sent her a nice thank you card and included photos from the shower.
I am pretty upset that she did not send a wedding gift (I think it's because I am not speaking to my father and she wanted me to call him up and get him to come to the wedding- which I did not do)
But, 2 of my aunts (her daughter's) did send gifts, so I wanted to send them thank-yous, with some photos and a favor.
but, if I do that, but not send anything to my grandmother, I think it may make her mad...
But, I don't think it's fair that I should have to send her a thank-you when she didn't even send me a gift in the first place...
thoughts?
