Spinoff from JENHOS's post about her friend....what would make you...

btrflygrl Posted: Apr 28, 2004 11:02 AM

Spinoff from JENHOS's post about her friend....what would make you...

want out of your marriage? what would be the thing (or things) that you ABSOLUTELY would not tolerate....

for me it's being hit or cheated on/lied to

JENHOS Posted: Apr 28, 2004 11:35 AM

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The same for me. I would never stay married to a cheater. Being able to get that trust back would be impossible!

gertyrae Posted: Apr 28, 2004 11:36 AM

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Definitely cheating. I don't think there would be any repairing the relationship after that. All trust has been lost.

boosh78201 Posted: Apr 28, 2004 12:45 PM

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Defintely cheating and if I found out he didnt want kids

Xelindrya Posted: Apr 28, 2004 01:53 PM

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Cheating is the simple one. There'd be no discussion. I find out, and im out the next day.

Not caring anymore. Treating me like a household fixture. That would just kill me. Even if I still loved him with all my heart I won't be used like that. Sure there'd be therapy and such first but still to give up on our love would be a big no no for me.

If he EVER hit me or my children.

princess99 Posted: Apr 28, 2004 02:13 PM

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CHEATING! DRUGS! No thank u to both of them.

AliKing Posted: Apr 28, 2004 03:30 PM

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Tough topic to even think about, but it would def be the cheating thing. If that happened I would be devistated and NEVER get over it. I think every time he left the house I would be accusing him of cheating on me... I would have to leave.

IrishTracy Posted: Apr 28, 2004 03:40 PM

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Cheating or if he ever dare hit me.

Scoop Posted: Apr 28, 2004 04:22 PM

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I would never tolerate cheathing or verbal/physical abuse. I truly believe everything else can and is worth fighting for to keep your marriage intact.