so dh gos on feb 5th for his surgery he is having DH the RPLND (retroperitoneal lymph node dissection) ive been reading about it online and remembering what the doctor said about it and im getting really scared, DH has not been himself the past few days. he is not taking this well at all. its just a big surgery and he is really scared. ive been a mess myself and cant wait for him to be ok and have this over with. his birthday is sat and ive planned a big party at our house to keep it off his mind at least for one night. i just pray things go ok and everything gos back to normal. he will be in the hospital for 4-5days so ill be there A LOT!!! dh is looking forward to TTC after his surgery although we will mostly have to do invitro but he and i are so excited to get that started since we didnt have any luck this month. just keep him in your thoughts that day that everything gos ok.
thanks ladies
DeannaNDave07
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stay strong sweetie... we are all praying for you both!! and for a speedy recovery for your DH!!
lilqtpie2181
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aww sweety!!! i will keep u and ur hubby in my prayers. I truley feel that everything will be ok but i can only imagne what ua re going through. try to take it easy, one day at a time and be there for him.
Dee606
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futuremrsGafforio
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We're all praying for him!!!
jtgarsik
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u are both in our thoughts and prayers!! please please PLEASE keep us updated!
fallinlove91407
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you'll both be in my thoughts and prayers -- you'll get through this and it will only make the two of you stronger as individuals and as husband and wife
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I'm so sorry you guys have to go through such a daunting, scary time. But you are doing exactly the right thing, being there for each other and focusing on the positive. Have a great party on Saturday, think about TTC and all the things you have to look forward to in your future together, because you WILL get through this and he WILL recover. That being said, I don't blame you for being scared out of your wits - make sure that as you're staying strong for him, you also stay open about your own feelings and fears, whether you talk to your parents, relatives, or us. Being 'the strong one' can wear you down. And the other girls are right - nothing good can come of the online research at this point - there is some scary stuff out there and chances are it will NOT relate in ANY way to DH's outcome. Hang tough - you're so brave
dgirl0114
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Tara, you both are & will continue to be in my prayers And remember, only good thoughts allowed-everything will turn out fine. You & James deserve that!!
SusiBtoM
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Take it day be day with positive thoughts. Both of you are in our prayers.
PattyK
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Keeping you & your DH in my thoughts & prayers
PeteysBride
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Just keep trying to eb as strong as you both have been. God will be there when you feel you cant take anyy more, to prop you back up. everything will work out. we're all wishigny ou the best!
rmsgirl
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Will be thinking of you and your DH.
Tobewed07
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You & DH will be in my thoughts & prayers!! Stay strong sweetie!!
Lools
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It will be OK - we are praying for you and your DH - that God will guide the Dr.'s hands as he operates, that your DH will have peace and that the surgery will go super smooth, better than expected!
