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grkbarbie Posted: Jan 18, 2011 01:33 PM+

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Posted: Jan 18, 2011 01:33 PM

taking this down sooon...

ok.. so a friend of yours dies..

on his/ her facebook do you write

RIP man....you are a great guy, had some good times in JHS...be well

be well???? dude hes DEAD... be WELL!??

kris_gets_hitched Posted: Jan 18, 2011 01:35 PM+

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Posted: Jan 18, 2011 01:35 PM

Re: taking this down sooon...

Erm...no way. No how.

I'm not the type to go onto the FB of a person that passed away and write something. But even if I was...it definitely wouldn't be that. But...people say/do weird things when grieving, so it's probably just a lapse of their regular, everyday behavior.

Becca2010 Posted: Jan 18, 2011 01:35 PM+

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Posted: Jan 18, 2011 01:35 PM

Re: taking this down sooon...

That's pretty weird...

Like total moronville.

AngnShaun Posted: Jan 18, 2011 01:36 PM+

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Posted: Jan 18, 2011 01:36 PM

Re: taking this down sooon...

Posted by kris_gets_hitched

Erm...no way. No how.

I'm not the type to go onto the FB of a person that passed away and write something. But even if I was...it definitely wouldn't be that. But...people say/do weird things when grieving, so it's probably just a lapse of their regular, everyday behavior.

DITTO... id write to his mom, dad, sis, bro, cousin, wife, etc... but i would never write on his page

grkbarbie Posted: Jan 18, 2011 01:37 PM+

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Posted: Jan 18, 2011 01:37 PM

Re: taking this down sooon...

writing on the persons page .. i kind of get.. cuz if i die i sure as hellll wanna stilll be able to look at facebook

but 'be well'?????

bluj786 Posted: Jan 18, 2011 01:40 PM+

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Posted: Jan 18, 2011 01:40 PM

Re: taking this down sooon...

little werid to write that, but as for writing on the facebook page, some people feel a way to still talk to the person and tell them that they miss them.

i know someone that passed she was 17 and its a way the family and friends feel like they can talk to her.

Future Mrs H Posted: Jan 18, 2011 01:40 PM+

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Posted: Jan 18, 2011 01:40 PM

Re: taking this down sooon...

I write on a friends FB page still (she passed last June)when I am thinking about her. Her Sister and SO still read it and it makes them feel better knowing that people still love and think about her.

BUTTTTTTTT- I would never write Be Well!!!

barbtony Posted: Jan 18, 2011 01:40 PM+

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Posted: Jan 18, 2011 01:40 PM

Re: taking this down sooon...

Absolutely not!

AwaitingAugust Posted: Jan 18, 2011 01:42 PM+

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Posted: Jan 18, 2011 01:42 PM

Re: taking this down sooon...

i totally understand the fact that they wrote on his wall .... it's a way to deal with the grief

but yeah 'be well' is very weird ... i'm thinking it was just a way to end the sentence and he didn't think about it.

Im_My_Own_Princess Posted: Jan 18, 2011 01:46 PM+

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Posted: Jan 18, 2011 01:46 PM

Re: taking this down sooon...

oh-hell-no!

i can understand writing on someones FB page as a way to get intouch with their family and express yourself.. but to write 'be well'... he must be high!

Lisalana Posted: Jan 18, 2011 02:00 PM+

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Posted: Jan 18, 2011 02:00 PM

Re: taking this down sooon...

wow - 'be well' is definitely not appropriate at all.

shelbylove918 Posted: Jan 18, 2011 02:06 PM+

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Posted: Jan 18, 2011 02:06 PM

Re: taking this down sooon...

its def not appropriate but i can understand when you say something stupid and dont realize it til after the fact.. I remember one time I was at a funeral, and I was soo uncomfortabel and nervous. i never know what to say when someone passes.. Well i went up to the mother and said sorry for your loss.. she said thanks for coming and I said 'No prob, anytime'

WHY THE HECK WOULD I SAY THAT!!!!! I was completely mortified.. I didnt mean that obviously but I was so nervous it just came out like that.. Anywho.. he prob didnt mean to say that and if he saw the post and realized what he said he should have erased it or deleted it.. cause it doesnt make sense.. But i can understand nerves maybe