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Thank You Cards: Is this tacky?
adelz
Posted: Jun 23, 2011 11:21 AM+

Posted: Jun 23, 2011 11:21 AM
Thank You Cards: Is this tacky?
I was going to make our own design and then get them printed on a post card (Vista Print has it), and on back of it put a message that's already printed on, we'll sign them and send it. Keep in mind majority of my guests don't even expect a thank you card.Ideally, don't want to put in envelopes...
What do you guys think?
AdriandSteve
Posted: Jun 23, 2011 11:22 AM+

Posted: Jun 23, 2011 11:22 AM
Re: Thank You Cards: Is this tacky?
umm.. eh. Kinda impersonal.Why do your guests not expect thank you cards?
adelz
Posted: Jun 23, 2011 11:23 AM+

Posted: Jun 23, 2011 11:23 AM
Re: Thank You Cards: Is this tacky?
It's just something atleast from our culture (the area I'm from), people don't normally do thank you cards.What if I did the post cards, and then did a personal message on them for everyone...but still did a postcard?
WeezyGirl2354
Posted: Jun 23, 2011 11:26 AM+

Posted: Jun 23, 2011 11:26 AM
Re: Thank You Cards: Is this tacky?
Posted by adelz
It's just something atleast from our culture (the area I'm from), people don't normally do thank you cards.
What if I did the post cards, and then did a personal message on them for everyone...but still did a postcard?
Maybe... im still kinda iffy on this one...
I totally hear you on the culture thing and that makes a lot of sense but I personally feel for such a big deal, for being part of such a big occasion every one should be writen out.. stamp, envelope - the whole presentation just looks nicer.. but thats just me...
MrsSx2
Posted: Jun 23, 2011 11:29 AM+

Posted: Jun 23, 2011 11:29 AM
Re: Thank You Cards: Is this tacky?
Nay.ETA: that would be too impersonal, especially for the people who do expect a thank you card.
SoontobeMrs.Brown
Posted: Jun 23, 2011 11:38 AM+

Posted: Jun 23, 2011 11:38 AM
Re: Thank You Cards: Is this tacky?
I would go traditional.
adelz
Posted: Jun 23, 2011 11:57 AM+

Posted: Jun 23, 2011 11:57 AM
Re: Thank You Cards: Is this tacky?
Got it! Thanks ladies!
AwaitingAugust
Posted: Jun 23, 2011 12:15 PM+

Posted: Jun 23, 2011 12:15 PM
Re: Thank You Cards: Is this tacky?
i don't think there's anything wrong with a personalized post card (ie: write something to each person) .... i actually like the post card idea
SummerBride10
Posted: Jun 23, 2011 12:16 PM+

Posted: Jun 23, 2011 12:16 PM
Re: Thank You Cards: Is this tacky?
I don't think there's a problem with a postcard but I would write a personal note to each one of your guests.
kshea23
Posted: Jun 23, 2011 12:49 PM+

Posted: Jun 23, 2011 12:49 PM
Re: Thank You Cards: Is this tacky?
Posted by SummerBride10
I don't think there's a problem with a postcard but I would write a personal note to each one of your guests.
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we're doing thank you magnets, and plan on writing a little personalized message to each guest.
JAAMS
Posted: Jun 23, 2011 01:08 PM+

Posted: Jun 23, 2011 01:08 PM
Re: Thank You Cards: Is this tacky?
Posted by SummerBride10
I don't think there's a problem with a postcard but I would write a personal note to each one of your guests.
Agreed
cateydee
Posted: Jun 23, 2011 01:25 PM+

Posted: Jun 23, 2011 01:25 PM
Re: Thank You Cards: Is this tacky?
i dont have any problem with the postcard (although it is a bit 'informal' if that matters to you), but I'd definitely write a personal note on the back, no matter waht.Just curious, where are you from that it's not expected?
Linzee636
Posted: Jun 23, 2011 01:59 PM+

Posted: Jun 23, 2011 01:59 PM
Re: Thank You Cards: Is this tacky?
My bestie did a postcard for her thank yous...Photo on one side, space for the note and the address on the other side - however, she did include a personal note and wrote 'love, katie & joe' in the address space... she put her postcards in envelopes since she didn't want the photo to get ruined in the mail, but it was really cute nonetheless.
She did a postcard STD also so it fit her style.
adelz
Posted: Jun 23, 2011 02:17 PM+

Posted: Jun 23, 2011 02:17 PM
Re: Thank You Cards: Is this tacky?
Yeah, I forgot about the whole postcard could get ruined in the mail. I think I might just go ahead and do a regular thank you card, get a nice envelope for them and voila. This way we can write specific messages to people.
adelz
Posted: Jun 23, 2011 02:17 PM+

Posted: Jun 23, 2011 02:17 PM
Re: Thank You Cards: Is this tacky?
Posted by cateydee
i dont have any problem with the postcard (although it is a bit 'informal' if that matters to you), but I'd definitely write a personal note on the back, no matter waht.
Just curious, where are you from that it's not expected?![]()
I'm Albanian --- I'm sure certain regions it is expected, but atleast where my family and hubby's family are from, it's an unheard thing.
Rosalind_75
Posted: Jun 23, 2011 02:20 PM+

Posted: Jun 23, 2011 02:20 PM
Re: Thank You Cards: Is this tacky?
Posted by SoontobeMrs.Brown
I would go traditional.
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