One of my BM turned out to disapear and to make a long story short...she said that keeping in touch with me feels more like a JOB haha....meanwhile Ive seen her once since my wedding and that was to show me her ring....So I kind of wrote he an email telling her its not worth it....
SO yeah....Shes at the end... of my pics so how would I do this???
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not yet i havent.. let me know when you figure it out. I prob have to do that too!
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no i havent but if i had to do the wedding day all over again i would have like 2 bridesmaids rather than 8
Aug07OFCbride
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thats really sad. slightly drastic to crop someone out IMO (not trying to offend).... was she at least there for you on that day/through the process. i wouldnt ruin my pics by cropping but....ts fairly easy..theres just a 'crop' function on most photo editing programs. which program are you using??
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I want to, but cant b/c she is in between 2 other girls
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no i havent but if i had to do the wedding day all over again i would have like 2 bridesmaids rather than 8
. Well...I have no cousins so My frends ae all I have....But I would of kept sil and my sister, plus my two LONG time friends since Kindergarten....and taht leaves one out...and its this girl im talking about.... Its so sad...but I should have realized it sooner....all the signs were there....shes all over my wedding video witha puss on her face the entire time...she left my rehersal dinner early, went away my bach party and orderd one of my important bms the wrong size dress....she never said one nice thing about my wedding...she said my wedding was HOT......She still has my bridal shower book and wont give it to me...she says shes too busy!!! ...sorry for the vent...but this is insane
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thats really sad. slightly drastic to crop someone out IMO (not trying to offend).... was she at least there for you on that day/through the process. i wouldnt ruin my pics by cropping but....ts fairly easy..theres just a 'crop' function on most photo editing programs. which program are you using??
It may be drastic....but I dont know what else to do...she upset me....and from what she said on my voicemail...she doesnt seem like she wants to mend anything...she was just plain nasty
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If you need help, let me know. I have become very good at cropping in MS Office Picture Manager.
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thats really sad. slightly drastic to crop someone out IMO (not trying to offend).... was she at least there for you on that day/through the process. i wouldnt ruin my pics by cropping but....ts fairly easy..theres just a 'crop' function on most photo editing programs. which program are you using??
It may be drastic...but most of the pics that I have of her....are her making a puss face. Ill how u....if I can find one. then Ill remove it.
Photo shop...my husband actually just told me he can do it.
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ok prob solved....
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no i havent but if i had to do the wedding day all over again i would have like 2 bridesmaids rather than 8
. Well...I have no cousins so My frends ae all I have....But I would of kept sil and my sister, plus my two LONG time friends since Kindergarten....and taht leaves one out...and its this girl im talking about.... Its so sad...but I should have realized it sooner....all the signs were there....shes all over my wedding video witha puss on her face the entire time...she left my rehersal dinner early, went away my bach party and orderd one of my important bms the wrong size dress....she never said one nice thing about my wedding...she said my wedding was HOT......She still has my bridal shower book and wont give it to me...she says shes too busy!!! ...sorry for the vent...but this is insane
Ugh this SOOOOOO reminds me of someone at my wedding - thankfully she wasn't a BM although I was told that I SHOULD have had her as one, but whatever. Anyway, this person, who is a part of my family, had the biggest puss on her face throughout my wedding. You can see it in every picture she's in!!!!!!! It's like, okkkkkkkkk. She was supposed to meet us on the day of the wedding and arrived THREE HOURS late, no explanation, no apology, no nothing. In the end I'm happy she wasn't there the entire time, but I still found it rude that there wasn't even a 'sorry I'm late' comment. This is also the person that at my bridal shower (where one of my BM's had gotten personalized wine bottles and chocolates with two of my e-pics on them - me alone, not me and DH) she actually said 'Yesi, what do you do when you take pictures - act like you're a model?' !!!!! Some people were with me when she said that and couldn't believe it. I could only say, 'Actually those are from our professional e-pics that were included in our wedding package' - but HOW RUUUUDE!
OK, so sorry for hijacking your thread with my own rant. Just wanted to let you know you're not alone.
Funny thing is, I still talk to this person and I don't hate her at all or anything - she's just like that (all the time) and I don't even think she realizes it.
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I probably have to do that too! I have not seen one of my bridesmaids since my wedding day and it has been 7 months.
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I wanted to do this, during my ceremony my MOH made faces the whole time like she was completely miserable
and on top of the shoe hitting, smacking and knife wielding incidents....I want to crop her out but can b/c she is next to me in all my pictures. We are still friends, Im just very unhappy about the situation
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no i havent but if i had to do the wedding day all over again i would have like 2 bridesmaids rather than 8
. Well...I have no cousins so My frends ae all I have....But I would of kept sil and my sister, plus my two LONG time friends since Kindergarten....and taht leaves one out...and its this girl im talking about.... Its so sad...but I should have realized it sooner....all the signs were there....shes all over my wedding video witha puss on her face the entire time...she left my rehersal dinner early, went away my bach party and orderd one of my important bms the wrong size dress....she never said one nice thing about my wedding...she said my wedding was HOT......She still has my bridal shower book and wont give it to me...she says shes too busy!!! ...sorry for the vent...but this is insane
oh trust me i know the feeling. 2 of my girls were miserable all night.. althoguth they said they were sooo happy for me and both of them coked up in church they both looked like they were at a wae during the reception. THEN i had one BM faint at church.. but it was sooooo dramatic that i actually laugh. drama queen at her finest. oh and the list goes on. I dont wanna crop any of them out but .. i gues sif i could do it all over again iw ould do that one thing differnt. U can vent all u want.. i feel u pain
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thats really sad. slightly drastic to crop someone out IMO (not trying to offend).... was she at least there for you on that day/through the process. i wouldnt ruin my pics by cropping but....ts fairly easy..theres just a 'crop' function on most photo editing programs. which program are you using??
It may be drastic....but I dont know what else to do...she upset me....and from what she said on my voicemail...she doesnt seem like she wants to mend anything...she was just plain nasty
sorry to hear that.
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Its amazing....how people can be so selfish and inconsiderate! Harsh words I know...but its the truth!!! Thanks girls!!! Cant wait for the passion party lol
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OK I have to agree with Jess. My MOH as everyone knows, dropepd out of my world for some silly nonsense..at elats I am assuming thats what it was because she did a 180; fine one day and then never returnign calls the next, or texts, OR MAIL and Pete called her husband too (who is proompt with return calls) and nada...fSince September. And Ive tried to mend whatever it may be but she just didnt wnat to. I know it sounds vague but I dont honestly know WHAT it is..just suspect it has something to do with ehr twin who never liked me.
Anywaho, she was my MOH so in all my photos. I thought about not including her in the pics but didn't. I realized that despite us not beign friends NOW, we were back then at that point and she did do o much for me and despite our falling out, she did have a positive impact on ym life in many ways so I am focusing on that.
Trying to think of a saying from my grandma (she loved sayings) 'The best relationships are the ones that end like shooting stars; bref but wonderful. They teach you the most.'
I had a great time with her when we were friends and she got em through that day. LOL She probably cropped me from her photos but at least to me, she was truly my friend.
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I'm so sorry this is happening to yo, I hope it gets worked out
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Trying to think of a saying from my grandma (she loved sayings) 'The best relationships are the ones that end like shooting stars; bref but wonderful. They teach you the most.'
I had a great time with her when we were friends and she got em through that day. LOL She probably cropped me from her photos but at least to me, she was truly my friend.
i like your grandma's saying - makes all the sense...
how about just doing one group shot and then if your phtoographer took single photos of you and each BM to use those instead to include for the album?
your not the only one - if i could do it again i would have just had my sister and called it a day...
