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Its something that cant be changed and may just cause a huge rift between the family. I wouldnt want anything to be said even if I thought it was intentional just because of the drama it could cause. Whats done is done and its terrible, especially if it was done on purpose.

I would think some best men may think their speech is to talk about their own relationship with the groom. Maybe it was an honest mistake? I dunno only you know the guy and you said his girlfriend is jealous of you.

I don't know if it was intentional. Probably not. My DH doesn't think it was. I don't know the guy too well. He lives in another state and I only saw him a few times. I told my DH not to say anything. He said he wants to, that it is bothering HIM.
That is why I am staying out of it. I won't even bring it up tonight to my DH. If he says something to me, I will just listen.
I don't need any drama with his family.