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2010BTB Posted: Jul 12, 2011 08:47 AM+
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Wedding Gift Question

We had a couple come to our wedding (friend of my SIL) - they're getting married in October and since they're paying for it 100% they're keeping the guest list low. Told them we totally understand if we're not invited. So as it sits - we're low down on the B list. How much should we give as a gift if we're not invited? Same they gave us?
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halfbaked Posted: Jul 12, 2011 09:20 AM+
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Re: Wedding Gift Question

Friend of SIL? I'd probably give a little less.
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dctead Posted: Jul 12, 2011 09:21 AM+
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Re: Wedding Gift Question

If you end up not invited - I'd give less.
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BlushandBashful Posted: Jul 12, 2011 09:31 AM+
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Re: Wedding Gift Question

I would still give what they gave to you.

ETA: Unless you weren't invited in the end. Then I'd give less.
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HSsweethearts Posted: Jul 12, 2011 10:40 AM+
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Re: Wedding Gift Question

If you're invited, I'd give the same. If not invited, I'd send a registry gift for like $100
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