Would you forgive your hubby if he had a one night stand?
Kathy116
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Would you forgive your hubby if he had a one night stand?
If he came to you and told you, and it would never happened again?
If you had kids, would it make a difference?
Ronnie&Theresa
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Nope.....
Having sexual intercourse with Anyone else besides me calls for him to be GETIING the HELL out of my house. We have discussed all of this. Having SEX with someone else isn't worth losing those you love and all you worked hard for!
Cira
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I honestly don't think so ... my first inclination was to shout ... ABSOLUTELY NOT.
But I don't know how I would feel with kids ... I probably still wouldn't be able to forgive and trust him again ... ! It would make me sick, to be honest!
alina
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ditto to Cira's post
dgtlsunshine
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I don't know how I would feel with kids. I know presently I am thinking he better not confess to me in the kitchen for I may burn his behind.
I don't think I would forgive my hubby. In our relationship I am more the sexaholic than he is and that would really bother me that he went out and had sex with someone else.
wacky
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If I was in the same financial situation Im in now yeah get the hell out,
If we were very rich no stay do what you want and Ill do what I want.
Dont yell just my opinion
boosh78201
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Absolutely not!! How would I know it wouldnt happen again?
Kathy116
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I started this post and I'm just at a loss for words.
Same as Cira, I want to say Hell No, but it's so hard to really speculate, imagine years of marriage, a children...but, the marriage would be destoryed anyways, I probably couldn't get over that, even if I did take him back, the marriage would probably end shortly anyways.
Ronnie&Theresa
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How can you ladies stay knowing he touched someone eles's private..
OH HELL NO!
Jordan
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I would *want* to forgive him...but I don't know if I could. It would really depend on the circumstances - where we were in the relationship, how I found out, etc. I would be devestated, I'm sure.
wacky
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I think it depends for certain people. Sometimes people need that assurance, some people can look the other way.
Some women are afraid because of finances.
anna
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I have to say 'ABSOLUTELY NOT'.
Although we DONT know what the future holds, as many of you said, its nice to know what for the time being our men have their heads on straight.
Jordan
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Because depending on the circumstances, wouldn't *you* want to be forgiven for one indescretion??
Kathy116
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I actually have a good friend who has been married for over 10 years, and they have an open marriage...they can have sex with other people, as long as it's not a relationship.
To this day, I am stunned....it works for them, but I am just stunned.
Also, they don't want to know each other's flings.
Julybaby
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My first inclination is to kick him out of the house and say forget it. But this is easier said than done. I would say that I would never trust him again and that alone would probably destroy the marriage. I don't know if having kids would make the situation different. I don't know if I want to subject my kids to the tension that would inevitably arise from the situation.
Ronnie&Theresa
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Kathy are they swingers?
LizD
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A big NO on this one. I honestly do not think I could ever trust him again, I would be wondering every time he left the house, came home late, or didn't call. I think you would end up driving yourself nuts worrying about it. Even with kids, I would still say no. Kids should grow up in a house with love, respect, and communication not cheating and deceit with no trust.
Kathy116
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No, they just do their own private things with differnet people.
Maybe I've got the def. of swingers wrong, but isn't that like finding another couple and switching partners?
Ronnie&Theresa
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I have some friends who aren't married yet. But to keep spice they pick up a hot female to bring home!
LisaT
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my first inclination is to say HELL NO. But I've seen marriages get past infidelity and grow stronger for it.
