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Really? Well, I have lived home all along, I like it, he hates it. (my family)

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Jamie! What's up???!!



Your post has me worried....

Is everything okay?

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Are you OK Jamie?

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Whew! OK, well as much as that stinks, you had me really worried! Will Frankie be coming to your moms too?
I'll keep my eyes peeled for apt.s for you guys. What areas would you consider???

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Awww Jaime, I am sooo sorry!

I know what stress is like and you have always been there for me, time and time again. I know you didnt feel like talking earlier but just know that when you want to, I am here.

I am sorry that those animals have forced you to make such a decision. Its horrible that we have to live our lives the right way only to be the ones that seem to get the short end of the stick.

Please im me if you feel like talking, venting or anything else.

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Aw Jamie! I'm so sorry. That must really s*ck!! Your neighbors sound horrible..

Too bad I'm moving to the Bronx (did I just say that???!!) or we would be neighbors!!

My 'separation' from DH is ending, and yours might be starting!!

Is there any other possible solution??? Take it from someone who knows, it is NOT easy to be separated. NOT easy AT ALL. It really tested our relationship big time, not to mention my patience in general. If there is any other possible solution to this, go for it. Resort to living separately only if absolutely necessary.




I hope they kick out your neighbors, and you guys get to stay.

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Jamie, Im sorry you have to go through this!

It BOTHERS ME SO MUCH that careless, ruthless people in this world can
*disprupt someone else's life.
*to the point that they feel they have to move out.
*Now you have to pack all your belongings that you need day-to-day, things for work.
*You have to work out a schedule to see your new-hubby.
etc
etc

Its just outrageous and sickening. IVe 'been there' with tenant horror stories, and my parents were the landlords getting 'Stepped on' for many years...

Its a no-win situtation sometimes. Try not to get into any type of confrontation. As much as WE ALL WANT TO in cases like that, and I HAVE at times, be careful. People can be very spiteful and cruel.

I hope something gets done and you dont have to move out and shift your whole life around for these animals.

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I second Anna ... I feel so horrible for your situation right now. I really hope that something can be resolved and you don't have to leave.

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We lived in an apt for 6 months, and then moved back with my parents for what we thought would be 6 months, as we waited for a house to be built. Well it has been a year and 4 months, and the foundation will be poured tomorrow. It is hard, but we figure it is worth it. I know that it is harder for my DH, but we would never be able to live with his parents, since his sister and niece live up stairs, and it would just not work.

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The people upstairs from us are making our lives miserable too. Are you in a complex? Make sure you can get out of your lease. Me and Hubby fight about the same thing. I cant tell you how many nights I have gone home to my dad because I cant take this hell anymore. It's pointless to make complaints, it will just get worse, just a word of advice. I had to get a lawyer to get me out of here. And BOTH of us are now going back to my dads to save money. But I TOTALLY know what you are going through. Just last night we were laying there watching tv and we could here this pain in the a** go on and on for like a half an hour. At one point I just screamed at the top of my lungs 'Shut up already,do you ever shut up'. I think theyheard me, he SHUT UP. And this is an apartment complex. I'm telling you, I want to sue the complex!!!!

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Jamie!! This stinks for you! Stupid upstairs people!!!

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Jamie...I'm so sorry...your neighbors upstairs are terrible and I don't blame you for wanting to get out of there...and if that means moving home then do it. You guys can manage...it's going to be tough but you'll do it!

Good Luck and I hope everything works out!!!



P.S. maybe this will mean it won't rain for Christmas???

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I am so sorry you have to live like this. I really hope the landlord does something to make this situation better for you

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Jaime!

I'm sooo sorry you are going through this. Like other posters, you are ALWAYS here for me and I feel like I've been less of a friend to not know what is going on with you.

I truly hope that Frankie gets some satisfaction from the landlord on this issue. I certainly understand you not wanting to live under those conditions anymore but to be separated from your husband and your home is terrible. Why should you be the one to leave when you aren't the problem?!? I wish I had someplace for you guys to go so you could start off on the right foot instead of living in this b.s.!!

B.A.S.T.A.R.D.S!!!

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Thats really awful that you have to live like that. They definately need to check for rugs because that will help if they do not have any but I think your 'neighbors' are doing more then just the normal noise and no rug is going to cut that out.

I don't know if you live in a complex or a house but if its a complex see if they can move your apartments for you. It would be worth it even if its just for 6 months. Also find out if there is a management company that runs your complex and talk to the head person there. Sometimes you need to talk to the people at the top to get anything done and they are obligated to provide you with a livable space since you are paying rent.

Good luck and

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