It's Friday, some of us are bored (ahem, ME!) so let's talk about our hubbies
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1 thing DH does that annoys the crap outta you
2 things DH does that just makes your day
and 1-3 things he does that makes you MELT
I love hearing about everybody's men - it's so entertaining. lol. It seems we've all got us some great guys (even tho they're bound to annoy us from time to time) So spill your guts, ladies!
RockysGirl
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Oh my gosh - we all have such loving husbands. Seriously, reading all this is making me so happy. Everybody has faults, but it's great when you can look at it and laugh (knowing that you have faults of your own) and realize that his GOOD qualities wildly surpasses all of the bad.
Keep 'em coming, ladies!!
... and i just have to agree with Bride908 real quick, because last night I was in one of my MOODS (it's that time of the month, I couldn't help it). I just kept going from happy, to sad, to angry, to just wanting to cry because I love him so much. Ah! It was exhausting! lol. But he was so sweet to me thru it all. NEVER made me feel like the b!tch that I clearly was for a little while. And later that night when I apologized, he was like 'you have no reason to feel bad or to apologize...' Ah! He's just SO good to me!
Oh, and somebody else mentioned when their hubby needs to always give a kiss goodbye, even if the other is still asleep. I LOVE that!! My DH leaves for work pretty early, but before he leaves, he'll always come back into the bedroom and give me a hug & kiss goodbye. It's very thoughtful of him and that's another thing that kind of makes me melt a little bit. I love when he puts ME first, ya know? It goes both ways though, because I always put HIM first as well
emomma17
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Posted by KK Holiday
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He makes me melt when he – talks to my belly to tell the baby how excited he is to meet him/her, tells the baby how much he loves him/her, or sends me a text messages that says I miss you both, my heart just melts...
M-i-a!! that is the cutest EVER!!! how adorable you both are!!!
It really is just the sweetest thing ever, he completely becomes a mush when it comes to the baby and me.
RisiLeigh
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DH annoys the crap outta me when he leaves his mail and papers all over our kitchen table! We seriously have a pile of his stuff thats been on the table for months now! I keep threatening to throw it all out but I haven't yet - maybe I need to!!!
DH makes my day when he always kisses me hello or goodbye - well, we both make sure we do this, but he never forgets. Like last night I was asleep and he came home at like 1am and came in just to tell me he was home and give me a kiss
DH makes me melt when I see him with his nieces and nephew (who has Downs Syndrome), or when I see how he is with my grandmother - he is seriously THE sweetest guy ever and never loses patience the way I tend to do!
emomma17
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he annoys me when he leaves his nail clippings in a little pile on my nightstand (to gross me out!) its also annoying that no matter what i say he always responds firstly with 'What?'
he makes my day when he gets up early to get me a cup of coffee from dunkin donuts so i dont have to go out into the cold.
he makes me when he bites my shoulder like eating an apple
he annoys me when he leaves his nail clippings in a little pile on my nightstand (to gross me out!) its also annoying that no matter what i say he always responds firstly with 'What?'
OMG I WOULD DIE IF MY HUSBAND DID THIS! LOL I CAN'T EVEN HEAR HIM CLIP HIS NAILS IT MAKES ME CRINGE, LET ALONE FIND THEM ON THE NIGHTSTAND!!!
SFAR89
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Oh, and somebody else mentioned when their hubby needs to always give a kiss goodbye, even if the other is still asleep. I LOVE that!! My DH leaves for work pretty early, but before he leaves, he'll always come back into the bedroom and give me a hug & kiss goodbye. It's very thoughtful of him and that's another thing that kind of makes me melt a little bit. I love when he puts ME first, ya know? It goes both ways though, because I always put HIM first as well
Yes, he wakes up, goes to take the dog out, and then before he leaves he kisses me goodbye. I wake up b/c I want to say bye to him, and I hug him and sometimes I don't let him go lol Then I ask him if the dog pooped....every single morning lol
Future Mulligan
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omg you guys reminded me of the pile of PAPERS AND MAIL DH has left sitting on the kitchen table (for weeks!) another thing that def annoys me
SFAR89
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lol wow, I can't even comment on the bad things DH does. I have a BOX full of my own papers that I still need to go through since before the wedding!
All of your DH's and I need to join
Procrastinators Anonymous haha
Browneyesncute
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1 thing DH does that annoys the crap outta you
ugh he throwns he dry cleaning on the floor! and hang the towels over the shower curtain!
2 things DH does that just makes your day
suprises me with a night out
and 1-3 things he does that makes you MELT
when i'm feeling down he hugs me and kisses me on my forehead, always makes me feel safe
Mici n KC
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Do I really have one thing for annoyance because another thing is when he shaves and he forgets to rinse the sink out when he's done! YUCK!
futuremrsfab
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Do I really have one thing for annoyance because another thing is when he shaves and he forgets to rinse the sink out when he's done! YUCK!
good one & mine too
SFAR89
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Do I really have one thing for annoyance because another thing is when he shaves and he forgets to rinse the sink out when he's done! YUCK!
good one & mine too
lol eww I hate that. I even have one of those mesh drain thingys, and I went to clean it the other day and it was like a nest of hairs in it from him shaving.
GMar9508
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It is so annoying when he plays play station 3 till dawn
When he sends me flowers for no reason Rubs my back
Cleans Makes dinner of things I love Buys me a present
sheyrena1314
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omg you guys reminded me of the pile of PAPERS AND MAIL DH has left sitting on the kitchen table (for weeks!) another thing that def annoys me
Mine too!!! WTH????
Espo22
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1 thing DH does that annoys the crap outta you-since this just happened recently, this one is on my mind. He can't just say something he doesnt want to do, and at first will just go along with something, keep his mouth shut and then gets mad. Like yesterday on our way to his parents house i said i have to stop at the supermarket, he was really tired and not feeling great so i said 'do you want to come with me on the way there or do you want to stop at your parents, you get out and i'll take the car and go' I OBVIOUSLY Offered to drop him off first. But at first he said its ok he'll go. When i say to stop at a certain supermarket he started getting so cranky, so i said do you not want to go, want me to drop you off?' he said yes he doesnt want to go, and i start yelling why didnt he just say that and that i dont care, now this is the part that bothers me, he says 'well why cant you just say its ok babe you dont have to come with me, ill drop you off, and not offer both options' he does this ALOT and drives me nuts. Youre 30 years old now, just spit out what you feel and want. Instead he'll sit there annoyed, and then gets cranky when we could've avoided all that if he just said 'you take the car and go' i offered it so i have no problem with it or else i wouldn't offer.
2 things DH does that just makes your day- 1-when he does things for me without me even saying anything. Like picking me up something on his way home that i would want. 2-when he texts me and says miss you cant wait to see you later
and 1-3 things he does that makes you MELT 1-when i am laying down on his chest and he kisses my head, something simple but i love it. 2-when he wakes up but still laying in bed, he always tells me to turn around and we cuddle like that for a bit.
SFAR89
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1 thing DH does that annoys the crap outta you-since this just happened recently, this one is on my mind. He can't just say something he doesnt want to do, and at first will just go along with something, keep his mouth shut and then gets mad. Like yesterday on our way to his parents house i said i have to stop at the supermarket, he was really tired and not feeling great so i said 'do you want to come with me on the way there or do you want to stop at your parents, you get out and i'll take the car and go' I OBVIOUSLY Offered to drop him off first. But at first he said its ok he'll go. When i say to stop at a certain supermarket he started getting so cranky, so i said do you not want to go, want me to drop you off?' he said yes he doesnt want to go, and i start yelling why didnt he just say that and that i dont care, now this is the part that bothers me, he says 'well why cant you just say its ok babe you dont have to come with me, ill drop you off, and not offer both options' he does this ALOT and drives me nuts. Youre 30 years old now, just spit out what you feel and want. Instead he'll sit there annoyed, and then gets cranky when we could've avoided all that if he just said 'you take the car and go' i offered it so i have no problem with it or else i wouldn't offer.
haha I thought DH would grow out of that with age, I guess all men are the same no matter how old lol It's really not that hard to just say how you are feeling towards a situation and give your opinion of it, especially if you do NOT want to do it! I don't get that.
Espo22
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Posted by Espo22
1 thing DH does that annoys the crap outta you-since this just happened recently, this one is on my mind. He can't just say something he doesnt want to do, and at first will just go along with something, keep his mouth shut and then gets mad. Like yesterday on our way to his parents house i said i have to stop at the supermarket, he was really tired and not feeling great so i said 'do you want to come with me on the way there or do you want to stop at your parents, you get out and i'll take the car and go' I OBVIOUSLY Offered to drop him off first. But at first he said its ok he'll go. When i say to stop at a certain supermarket he started getting so cranky, so i said do you not want to go, want me to drop you off?' he said yes he doesnt want to go, and i start yelling why didnt he just say that and that i dont care, now this is the part that bothers me, he says 'well why cant you just say its ok babe you dont have to come with me, ill drop you off, and not offer both options' he does this ALOT and drives me nuts. Youre 30 years old now, just spit out what you feel and want. Instead he'll sit there annoyed, and then gets cranky when we could've avoided all that if he just said 'you take the car and go' i offered it so i have no problem with it or else i wouldn't offer.
haha I thought DH would grow out of that with age, I guess all men are the same no matter how old lol It's really not that hard to just say how you are feeling towards a situation and give your opinion of it, especially if you do NOT want to do it! I don't get that.
I don't get it either, it drives me nuts. And its funny bc i am never the type of person who says 'UGH why cant you just do it, or why not' i always offer ok ill just go and never got mad when he said he didnt want to do something.
Sometimes he'll keep something in for days and i can tell when he does this, i know something is wrong. I'll ask him whats wrong and it will finally come out and its like OMG are you seriously stressing about something so small, its not a big deal at all, this is so small and doesnt matter to me lol.
OH and he did it TWICE yesterday lol, hes lucky it was his bday or i wouldve really gone off. BUt the mortgage broker called him, and i said 'youre not going to pick up' he says that he is going to call back when he gets to his parents house. SO after being at his parents for some time i asked if he called and he said no and gets cranky. I asked what his problem is and he said 'i dont want to talk to him, i dont understand why you cant call him and talk to him' i did get mad and took his phone and walked away and said 'JUST F*IN SAY IT NEXT TIME' he is the one who said he was going to do it, so of course i dont think twice about it. If he wanted me to call he could've just said it thats all, and again we could've avoided all that.
turning 30 yesterday he was real cranky
FinallyMrsB18
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1. leaves globs of toothpaste in the bathroom sink (does any get in his mouth)
2. coming up behind me when i am in the kitchen making dinner and hugs me and kisses the back of my neck
3. goes to BBB and buys coffee for the Keurig and uses all the coupons even the expired :)
jtgarsik
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I am a bit late for this! but here we go
1) one thing that annoys the crap outta me: The laundry basket is stationed right next to dh's dresser....however he ALWAYS makes a pile(although its folded lol) ON his dresser....PET PEEEEVE!!! i'm always like 'wth?! the basket is literally an inch away! it takes more work to fold, put it on ur dresser, and then put it with the dirty stuff later!!!' his excuse is 'well it's not really dirty yet'...OKAY SO THEN HANG IT UP!!! and he answers back 'but they're not really clean either'...LOL.WTH?!?! ..this is especially annoying right after i clean and on the rare occasion actually give in to putting his clothes away...one time i left him a note that said 'I KNOW u didn't just make a pile after i just put ur other one away!' ...needless to say the clothes were gone when i came home
2) things that make my day: 1: texts and phonecalls just to say hi or to tell me about somethin' 2: when he brings home flowers! some girls aren't fans of this, but i love it
3) things that make me MELT: 1: His smell...or rather his cologne?? or the combo of the two lol. there's just somethin' about it if there's ever a day i have to get up after dh has already left for work, the bathroom ALWAYS smells like him...i always throw him a text telling him it makes me want him there! lol. if i'm sick or not feeling well, i'll grab one of his shirts that have his scent on it & wear it...cheesy but true i just love it...and it makes his hugs that much better and bedtime that much nicer!
2) When i lay on him and he pets my head always makes me feel loved!
3) If we're just relaxing he'll just stare at me untill i giggle and say 'what??' and he'll say 'Nothin' - i just love u '
btw - the last 3/4 of this definetly out weighs the laundry thing
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DH annoys me when he doesn't lift the seat of the toliet bowl and his pee gets everywhere or when he uses my razor in the shower to shave his um...you know
Dh makes my day when I come home from work and he hugs and kisses me and tells me he missed me all day
Dh makes my heart melt when he plays with my hair anytime/day/place cuddles up close to me in bed and kisses my head
Re the pee-I will give you a secret to how I got my ex to learn to pull the tiolet seat up. I used to say how lucky I would be if I fell in. After many times of sitting in it I threatened to pee in a cup and pour it on him. I said if I can have your pee on me then you can have my pee on you Well, he changed real fast.
wundmoretime
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1-Dumping plates with food in the sink, we don't have the sink stopper so it gets backed up
2-He works the weekends and makes sure that he brings in my newspaper and kisses me goodbye. We have different weekends, so he always makes sure to prep my coffee the night before, and he will drive me to work if the roads or bad or if I don't want to drive
3-When he tucks me in every night and I love how we spoon in bed to sleep. He does so much to make me melt, I can go on and on. He is super sensitive to me. He knows what I like w/o me asking.