i have had very bad experiences with female OBGYN's... i have been going to a male OBGYN for about 3 years now & LOVE HIM!!!
everyone thinks i'm crazy when i say i feel more comfortable with a male OBGYN i was interested to hear everyone elses thoughts/preferences....
Butterfly123
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I prefer male and Ill tell you why. I feel like a woman will always think she KNOWS what youre feeling. A man doesnt have the same equipment so he cant feel like he can relate to whatever problem a woman is having. Ive had women docs and did not like any of them. My GYN is a male and Ive been with him for over 5 years now.
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I prefer male and Ill tell you why. I feel like a woman will always think she KNOWS what youre feeling. A man doesnt have the same equipment so he cant feel like he can relate to whatever problem a woman is having. Ive had women docs and did not like any of them. My GYN is a male and Ive been with him for over 5 years now.
ITA as well on this .. I took it out thou .. b/c I figured I would get this..
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Posted by Songstress
I prefer male and Ill tell you why. I feel like a woman will always think she KNOWS what youre feeling. A man doesnt have the same equipment so he cant feel like he can relate to whatever problem a woman is having. Ive had women docs and did not like any of them. My GYN is a male and Ive been with him for over 5 years now.
ITA as well on this .. I took it out thou .. b/c I figured I would get this..
Its so true. Every woman gynecologist I felt was dismissing any worried I had like, Oh thats okay. Whereas a man will ask more about what Im feeling.
olechka1911
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I go to MALE OB GYNs only. They are more gentle, women are like elephants in a china store.
TommysWife08
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WOW! there are so many ppl who feel the same way i do!! i never would have thought!!
MJDoc12
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Male gynos ONLY for me. my mom was the same way---i dunno. for me, i feel a man has been more sympathetic to me--like if i see a woman she's gonna say 'oh that's nothing -- i've been thru it'
my mom always used to tell me that reason she went to a man is because :
'I don't want to go to a woman and she looks at my coochie and thinks that HERS is prettier!!'
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I've had both but love my current one now and she's a woman. I've been going to her for about 5 years and she's fantastic. To be honest, I don't think sex matters, I think it's that actually dr, whether they're good or not.
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My Gyno is a man and I adore him.. He is so nice and gentle and has never made me feel uncomfortable about anything..
I went to a female once and found that she was very rough and had no connection to her as a dr..
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I'm more comfortable with a female...I always want to know why a man becomes a gyno. Why does he love looking at that all day...whereas a woman doesn't care because she has one of her own....LOL
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This thread is making me rethink my decision. I had been going to a male for about 8 years and i loved him. Anyway, a few friends and FH all thought it was sooooo weird that i went to a male so i started going to a female recently. I didnt dislike her but i felt like the male doctor was more caring and sympathetic. Maybe i need to rethink this again.
drpepper318
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I've been to both and I always prefer a male OBGYN... not sure why!
lillprincess54
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i have been going to the same obgyn since i 1st started going8-9 yrs ago, the 1st time i went she made me feel comfy and i have never changed it is a female, i do think that if i ever had to change it would be try to get another feamle
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Posted by MJDoc12
Male gynos ONLY for me. my mom was the same way---i dunno. for me, i feel a man has been more sympathetic to me--like if i see a woman she's gonna say 'oh that's nothing -- i've been thru it'
my mom always used to tell me that reason she went to a man is because :
'I don't want to go to a woman and she looks at my coochie and thinks that HERS is prettier!!'
thats great!!!!
well yay for us & our male OBGYNs!!!!
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I had a female gyn when i first started going to one and she made me so uncomfortable and made a huge deal that i wasnt on pills and just always made me feel bad so i stopped going to her and have been going to a male gyn since and i love him and his demeanor. i think it all depends on the person some men ive seen at my gyn have been plain out rude as well
Athee07
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Female for me... but Ive been referred to male specialists before and as long as they are good I have no complaints....
MrsQ-in2007
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I've been to both and much prefer a female OBGYN. I feel like a male doctor doesn't have the same stuff so it's harder for him to REALLY understand what I'm feeling or going through etc. I had a dr. I really loved down by Prince Street but they stopped taking my insurance so for the past couple of years I've been seeing a new dr. in midtown - I like her, but she def gives priority to her prego patients which makes me feel less important, but I'm too lazy to switch docs at this point, lol. In the end, I think it comes down the person, what type of dr. they are, how they are with their patients... but all things equal, I would prefer a female dr. over a male.
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I've always been more comfortable with male GYN's that I've had than the females, although whenever I went to a female it was usually a nurse practitioner.
I've always felt that the females were more dismissive, while the males had to pay more attention. There's no subjective comparison for them to make, so they have to go by what I say, not by what it means to them when I say something is uncomfortable or unusual or whatever.
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Posted by TM2008
i have had very bad experiences with female OBGYN's... i have been going to a male OBGYN for about 3 years now & LOVE HIM!!!
everyone thinks i'm crazy when i say i feel more comfortable with a male OBGYN i was interested to hear everyone elses thoughts/preferences....
exact same situation here... saw a few women, hated them all but went back anyway. needed an appt while i was home from school and my reg doc was away, so i reluctantly saw her colleague.... and LOVED him. so nice, gentle, and i've been seeing him ever since.
LuvMyAlfonse
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I go to a woman and LOVE her. I really have no preference though.
I've been going to her for years and have had no reason to change.
snwb08
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way back when i first went I went to a man. Had no issues with him, he was nice and always made me feel relaxed. but after I started working and moved I wanted one in the city and now I go to a woman and LOVE her like almost unnaturally so she's awesome and I never ever want to change.
but I probably would still be going to him if i had never moved, so I don't think I have issues with either a man or woman.