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CrescentBride606 Posted: Dec 23, 2005 01:37 AM

Re: Does anyone get sickened thinking about their FH's bachelor party..

i told him i'd buy him the freakin strippers for him...the more the merrier and it doesn't bother me, cause g-d knows what ill be doing during my bachloreete party...hey my MOH is planning it and im scared! but i can't freakinwait!!!

leese Posted: Dec 23, 2005 08:33 AM

Re: Does anyone get sickened thinking about their FH's bachelor party..

Posted by MCDO15

if you guy really wanted to doing something he is not supposed to do at the B-Party, he probally would of done it already.... (IMO)
and not wait until right before the wedding to do so

good thoughts!!! wow!!!!!!!!

ChrissynRicky Posted: Dec 23, 2005 08:34 AM

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Posted by SexyEsq

Nope. He's marrying me, not whoever the BM PAYS to show up and dance.

DITTO...FI made a conscious decision to ask me to marry him...that's all I need to know.

soon2bmrsdunn Posted: Dec 23, 2005 08:35 AM

Re: Does anyone get sickened thinking about their FH's bachelor party..

Posted by CrescentBride606

i told him i'd buy him the freakin strippers for him...the more the merrier and it doesn't bother me, cause g-d knows what ill be doing during my bachloreete party...hey my MOH is planning it and im scared! but i can't freakinwait!!!

I totally trust FH.

LoriH Posted: Dec 23, 2005 08:49 AM

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If your FH is going to cheat, he does not need to have a bachelor party to do it. Remember you are marrying this man because you love and trust him. I think that most women dislike the idea of strippers and strip clubs because of the fear of the unknown. I have been to both male and female strip clubs and let me tell you us ladies get away with much more raunchy stuff with the male strippers. Are there Strippers that double as prostitutes yes. But the majority of female strippers are completely hands off.

Sweetpea130000 Posted: Dec 23, 2005 09:56 AM

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the only time I was actually worried while my DH was at his bachelor party was when I got a call from a GM telling me he was in no shape to drive.

I wasn't concerned with strippers at all (there weren't any, but I didn't know that) but he did get trashed and spanked with his belt, oh well, all in good fun

EmberLynn Posted: Dec 23, 2005 10:54 AM

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Your really going to have to trust your FH. This guy friend of his cheats and gets hookers? If I were you I would ask if your brother, male cousin or male friend of YOURs, to go, just to make sure. Not to spy but to help him make the right choose, and offer a better option than a hooker.

Noonie Posted: Dec 23, 2005 11:00 AM

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Posted by johnsae

no, because my FH's a moron and is inviting his Dad and my Dad - so I know nothing crazy will happen!

Oh, don't be too sure... My dad & brother in law's dad were at the bachelor party & they were just 'one of the guys'. Not tryin' to get you upset, but hopefully your guy will be a bit more reserved w/the dads there than my b-i-l was.

Noonie Posted: Dec 23, 2005 11:09 AM

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Yes! That's why my FH & I are NOT doing bachelor/bachelorette parties. We don't go out alone now or while we were dating. At first when we were dating, he was like, 'What's the big deal, it's not like I'd have feelings for a girl just because she's giving me a lap dance.' So, rather than FLIP OUT on him, I smartened up and was like, 'Yeah, that's true.. I mean, it's not like I'll be thinking about the male stripper's package on our honeymoon. Sure he'll have his crotch in my face, but it's only for the one night, right?' Well, to make a long story short, he agreed that maybe BP's & B-Ette Parties are not so fun after all.
Ladies, just remind your man that whatever they're planning on doing, you'll be doing too. Personally, I think those parties are dumb. It makes my stomach turn to think of another girl's boobs shaking in my man's face!!!!!!! If there is a bachelor party, then there's NO wedding for me!

franksgirl323 Posted: Dec 23, 2005 11:28 AM

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Not worried at all. I trust him 100000%

TheFutureMrsM Posted: Dec 23, 2005 11:33 AM

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it sounds like the bachelor party is what the best man and the friends in the wedding party want. Why doesnt the groom have a say in what he wants??? Why cant he be a leader and not a follower of his friends. If the groom doesnt want to disrepect his lady he will grow some u know whats and stand up to his 'friends' and tell them how it is going to be!!!!