Do you have anyone that can bring a guest??? How short are you?
SeptBride70
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OK, how short is short?
Then, go to your Hall and have a meeting with either the GM or your BM to see about what you can do-- renegotiating your minimum or possibly putting something else in place of your guests...
Example: short 30 guests = a certain amount of money $$ so that money can be used for a VH or an extra station on your cocktail hour (like the fish boat) instead of feeding those 30 guests.
Your other option is to do everything you can to invite some people last minute.
Also, if you are short a small amount they can wrap those dinners up for you- you can freeze them and eat them after the HM.
There are a few options- start at the top and work your way down.
Just make sure you meet with someone at your Hall b/c that will make all the difference-- I'm sure they have encountered this before and will be able to give you options/help you.
GL!
leafgirl
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Include vendors and children.
twinkle164
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I would check about adding an option you weren't going to originally. Like sushi to the cocktail hour or something. They should be OK with that.
MJDoc12
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so sorry to hear! that happened to me too. i wound up inviting some of my fav LIW girls to come celebrate with me since i didn't want it to go to waste!
SeptBride70
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Posted by MJDoc12
so sorry to hear! that happened to me too. i wound up inviting some of my fav LIW girls to come celebrate with me since i didn't want it to go to waste!
:::clears throat::::
Please clarify for the readers that I was on the ORIGINAL guest list and was NOT an add on!
MJDoc12
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Posted by MrsDaniRella
Posted by MJDoc12
so sorry to hear! that happened to me too. i wound up inviting some of my fav LIW girls to come celebrate with me since i didn't want it to go to waste!
:::clears throat::::
Please clarify for the readers that I was on the ORIGINAL guest list and was NOT an add on!
of course you were on the original list--we needed to even it out and have some white folk there. hehe
olechka1911
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We are below too, and ppl keep cancelling The only thing that we could do is to include vendors in that count
Do not stress out about it!
SeptBride70
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Posted by MJDoc12
Posted by MrsDaniRella
Posted by MJDoc12
so sorry to hear! that happened to me too. i wound up inviting some of my fav LIW girls to come celebrate with me since i didn't want it to go to waste!
:::clears throat::::
Please clarify for the readers that I was on the ORIGINAL guest list and was NOT an add on!
of course you were on the original list--we needed to even it out and have some white folk there. hehe
I'm so pale that I actually make up for like five people.
One PALE Dani = Five normal white people
Ericab1980
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We are meeting Saturday with BM..and I did forget the Vendors..so now I'm only short like 25 people..I'll see what they can do/offer.. Thanks you guys!
My FH wanted to post a Bulletin on myspace
I said if Tila Tequila comes thats it wedding off
Ericab1980
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Posted by MrsDaniRella
Posted by MJDoc12
Posted by MrsDaniRella
Posted by MJDoc12
so sorry to hear! that happened to me too. i wound up inviting some of my fav LIW girls to come celebrate with me since i didn't want it to go to waste!
:::clears throat::::
Please clarify for the readers that I was on the ORIGINAL guest list and was NOT an add on!
of course you were on the original list--we needed to even it out and have some white folk there. hehe
I'm so pale that I actually make up for like five people.
One PALE Dani = Five normal white people
my FH is Casper He's so pale & fair he gets sunburned in November..true story
MrsQ-in2007
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Erica, so sorry!!! 25 people is a lot to be short! Are you inviting kids? How about your bridal party's parents? Already invited/included? Did you already count you and your FH?
Once you get a final headcount, go to the hall and negotiate - add or upgrade something like mentioned above. Or invite some LIW'ers You can have an LIW table.
I'm sure it will work out!!!
kns11
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Erica I'm sending you many and some . I hope with the above suggestions you will be able to work something out in your favor.
FutureMrsGK
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I hope everything works out for you....It always works itself out in the end, That's what I believe at least!!!
GabrielleandJohn
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I called my hall and we split the difference. So instead of paying for 20 non attending guests, I paid for 10.