what do you think? i have two really close friends and am having a hard time deciding between the two of them to be my maid of honor. the one that i've known the longest and would probably say is my number 1 pick, lives out of state. i don't want all of the MOH responsibilities to be a burden on her due to the distance. my other friend lives closer (about an hour away), yet is pregnant with baby #3 (her other 2 kids are both under 4 years old) and she's a bit overwhelmed these days.
i'm not getting married until december 2007, yet i'm torn between my two friends. both of my friends have already offered to help in any way the can. if i ask both of them, they could share the responsibilities. yet, i don't want to insult them either. any thoughts on having 2 MOHs?
MattandTricia07
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I am a December 2007 bride as well and I am having a maid of honor and a matron of honor. Sometimes you jsut can't choose!
kay
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Posted by mrspapagorgio
I have two matron's of honor[ /QUOTE] me too
angel77
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I am having 2. My FH has 2 best men as well. I just couldn't choose, one is my oldest friend and the other is like my sister.
CLMon7906
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i have 2. it's more common than a wedding planning article might lead you to believe. i wanted one girl to be my MOH but wanted my MOH to be the one to sign my marriage license..and she's under 18 (my sister) so i have 2.
Bridex100
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I have 2 MOHs. I don't think it's a big deal at all.
thelastMrsG
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I have a maid of honor and a matron of honor. I don't think there is anything wrong with it. Especially since a lot of my friends husbands had 2 best men
MrsMagoo
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I am a MOH in my cousin's wedding in September, yet she lives in Ohio. There is a second MOH that lives closer to her. As much as I would love to do more...I can only do so much from 800 miles away. I would choose both if thats what you want.
McSulllivan
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I had two maids of honor.
ealvarado0178
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I think I've got you all beat! I'm having 3 Maids of honor & 1 Matron of Honor!
Two of My MOH, have been my friends forever-since 7th grade, and High School. My third MOH was responsible for pushing me and my FH together (I didn't like him when we met!) My Matron of Honor is my cousin, who took me in during a very difficult time in my life-no questions asked.
How could I choose between them? Remember it's your wedding, and you can do basically anything you want! I am putting a brief note as to why I chose 3 MOH in my programs, before I list each girl, and why I chose her.
All of my MOH will split the MOH duties (there are enough to go around).
All of the groomsmen will wait at the front w/ the Groom at the ceremony for the girls to enter. Upon exiting the BM will escort two MOH back down the aisle. Simple!
ChrisnAmy
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Yes, have them both.
TheFutureMrsM
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this is going to sound like the dumbest question ever...but what is the difference between a Maid of honor and a Matron of honor? thanks in advance!
FallBride05
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I had two - my sister and my best friend (I've actually known my best friend longer than my sister has been alive!)
ant n tilde
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a maid of honor is not married a matron of honor is married
although my matron of honor hates the word 'matron' and i am FORBIDDEN to use it in any part of my wedding LOL
i think having 2 MOH is nice :)
FallBride05
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Posted by soontobe2007
this is going to sound like the dumbest question ever...but what is the difference between a Maid of honor and a Matron of honor? thanks in advance!
A Matron of Honor is a married woman, a Maid of Honor is unmarried
TheFutureMrsM
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OMG...i feel so dumb, thank you so much for clearing this up!!!!
akaMrsT
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We had 3 MOH's My sister & my 2 best friends. We had 1 BM and no GM.
