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Is anyone getting 2 different invites, ones for your A listers and the others for your B listers??? Is this silly to do?
I'm not...i don't even know if im having a b list
im not doing the B list thing, its too risky especially considering that theres alot of ppl who wait until after the RSVP date to RSVP, and people who change it from no to yes or no to yes even after they rsvp...you can end up having too many people or getting it all messed up bc of that.
i was thiking of it...but decided against the B list...if we go over the ammount we want ( we prob wont) the room is big enough...we will just deal
I wouldn't. There really isn't a need for 2 types of invites imo
Posted by jackie604
I wouldn't. There really isn't a need for 2 types of invites imo
Posted by Espo22
Posted by jackie604
I wouldn't. There really isn't a need for 2 types of invites imo
yeah forgot to say this, if anybody realizes they have 2 different sets of invites it would make it more obvious they were on the B list...you never know, like if someone mentions how beautiful your invites were and the other person says yeah i liked so and so about it and the other one would be like![]()
Posted by davenjess
The chance you are taking is dangerous.
Friend A - receives the pretty invite & put is on her fridge, leaves it on a table, etc.
Friend B - comes over and sees it - figures her invite is still in the mail....but it never comes. She eventually gets an invite but it's different.
Friend A - receives the pretty invite & tells friend B - just wait until you get that invite - it's so nice - the colors are so vibrant, etc...
Friend B - never gets it and when she does - it's different. An immediate thought is ***?
Posted by MPAS
Posted by davenjess
The chance you are taking is dangerous.
Friend A - receives the pretty invite & put is on her fridge, leaves it on a table, etc.
Friend B - comes over and sees it - figures her invite is still in the mail....but it never comes. She eventually gets an invite but it's different.
Friend A - receives the pretty invite & tells friend B - just wait until you get that invite - it's so nice - the colors are so vibrant, etc...
Friend B - never gets it and when she does - it's different. An immediate thought is ***?
lolol good point again but friends will have one set and family and closer friends the other, ??????
Posted by MPAS
Posted by davenjess
The chance you are taking is dangerous.
Friend A - receives the pretty invite & put is on her fridge, leaves it on a table, etc.
Friend B - comes over and sees it - figures her invite is still in the mail....but it never comes. She eventually gets an invite but it's different.
Friend A - receives the pretty invite & tells friend B - just wait until you get that invite - it's so nice - the colors are so vibrant, etc...
Friend B - never gets it and when she does - it's different. An immediate thought is ***?
lolol good point again but friends will have one set and family and closer friends the other, ??????
Posted by Bride 2 Be
I'm not...i don't even know if im having a b list
Posted by davenjess
Posted by MPAS
Posted by davenjess
The chance you are taking is dangerous.
Friend A - receives the pretty invite & put is on her fridge, leaves it on a table, etc.
Friend B - comes over and sees it - figures her invite is still in the mail....but it never comes. She eventually gets an invite but it's different.
Friend A - receives the pretty invite & tells friend B - just wait until you get that invite - it's so nice - the colors are so vibrant, etc...
Friend B - never gets it and when she does - it's different. An immediate thought is ***?
lolol good point again but friends will have one set and family and closer friends the other, ??????
I dunno - i'd still be concerned..it could come out at the most random time & feelings could be hurt. A flower in your centerpiece could be on your invites & someone mentions it and someone on ther other list hears it and is like - mine didn't have that flower... There are a lot of things stacked against ya that way - but do what you have to do. I just feel like it's risky..
We're not doing a B list. I don't think you should do a a second set of invites if you're planning on having one. Just send out the same invitation.
i dont think you need two invite but maybe 2 diffrent RSVPs so the RSVP date is diffrent
I was just going to make a post about this (I still am right after I reply) I am having an A and B list of response cards not invites. Everything on the invite is going to be the same. Its the response card date Im changing. I had to have an A & B list because of my large family.
Why do you need different invites just because you have an A list and a B list?
Posted by Autumn08
Why do you need different invites just because you have an A list and a B list?
