yet i find myself so beside myself.. all i want to do is cry .. .. FH is never around to finalize stuff.. am mad at him for not being able to dedicate 5 minutes to me all day yesturday but yet spending 4 hours at the fire house BSing.... today i call him and he is on the other line .. does not bother to click over to take my call nor call me back .. now i try calling him again and he does not answer...
I just want to go sit by the water and cry ... cry it all out ..
malagian
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im so sorry to hear that. I know crying does help though. Hang in there.
eperlman
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I'm sorry to hear that... don't worry, FH gets like that too. It's a guy thing. You know he's really into the wedding, but they get side tracked so easily. I've been working on almost everything too and I can't get FH to help, but when it comes to planning his Bachelor Party in Vegas he'll be on the phone with friends or on the computer for hours..
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dnt worry yourself, it the same here with my fh and it isnt crunch time yet. but i feel like he doesnt want to be involoved doesnt mean he doesnt want tio get married to me, feels bother by all this planning , typical man, doesnt care, it more of a woman thing for us to care of the details . but dont worry we have your back and we are alaways here for you. you have less then 2 weeks to go , so dont fret, we will always be here!!!
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Don't worry...it's just pre-wedding madness getting to you. And guys definitely like to hide when the crazy train rolls in. Cry if you have to. You might feel better! It'll all be okay!
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I can understand you being upset. I would too. Maybe u can set aside a couple nights a week that are MANDATORY for finalizing wedding details?
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try not to get upset...i think most FH's are into the whole 'marriage' part, but not necessarily the actual wedding and it's details...let's face it, they don't dream of their weddings like we do
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Awwwwwwww, sweetie you deserve a million hugs... Im sorry..
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melbalalala
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Ivette, Im so sorry to hear this, you need to whip this man into shape and tell him how important it is to you that he dedicate some time for YOU!
dplehat
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Men just $uck sometimes.
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Im sorry babe!!!!! U dont need this right now
charisma
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ditto to that...emotions run really high at this time...so cry if you have to it ok
MF9282
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I'm sorry to hear that. Mine is of no help ever!!
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Don't let him get away with it, thinking that 'it's a guy thing' crap. You're going to marry this man in a couple of weeks, and sounds like he's being seriously disrespectful to you. Don't put up with that before you're married, because it will just get worse later on.
Don't wait for him. Give him one last chance, then finalize the stuff yourself. And don't call him and beg for him to call you back. That's just not how you treat your partner in life, he should know better. It's rude and disrespectful and you deserve better from that from the man you agreed to spend the rest of your life with. Do you want to spend your married life crying like this? Because you might. Start this marriage as you mean to go on. Don't be a doormat.
