<3 QOTD <3 So, i want to know your secret... What makes your relationship with FH work? <3
Obviously, the fact that our personalities mesh, we have an unconditional physical & emotional love forone another and can make each other laugh help build us, but what really makes us strong is; Mutual trust Constant & clear communication and, we are still always trying to impress each other
mattandjess2013
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It works because we are opposites in a lot of ways. I'm a little bit of a control-freak while he's much more laid back. We balance each other.
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I think it really is communication. We communicate REALLY well and it really helps because I don't spend months fuming over an issue.. if there's a problem, we can discuss it, analyze it, and solve it! Other than that, we keep each other laughing!!!!
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I think the secret to mine and FH's relationship is trust and understanding. We also don't dwell on stupid things...we argue, fight and then get over it.
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Def communication. We are able to talk openly and honestly about everything. Also, we share the same goals and values for our future. We both want the same things and to me that is very important to be on the same page.
Eunified
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Posted by jassy119
Def communication. We are able to talk openly and honestly about everything. Also, we share the same goals and values for our future. We both want the same things and to me that is very important to be on the same page.
Good point!!!! Def important to want the same things out of life!
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It might sound weird but along with communication, trust, and so on it's actually humor. Before FH I dated this horrible guy and always felt like I have to be proper 24/7. FH is such a goofball that it's so relaxing that I can just be my goofy self around him.
torresm
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Honest to goodness, I believe the reason it works is because we are best friends above all.
JulesMarie27
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We work because we are such opposites. When I am freaking out, he can always make me laugh. There are days when I just want to kill him, but out of love <3 We also respect and trust each other to the very end.
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I am the outgoing, crazy, impulsive one and he is the steady, laid-back one. He definitely grounds me most of the time, which I need.... haha. We even each other out, we just WORK and we make each other laugh a lot!
JenniBella
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the way I feel today I dont know how we work
jassy119
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Posted by JenniBella
the way I feel today I dont know how we work
Aww is everything ok?
JenniBella
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Posted by JenniBella
the way I feel today I dont know how we work
Aww is everything ok?
Ya I'm ok thanks I just sometimes dont know how we work. Fm
SummerBeauty
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I think the most important thing is to remember that our lives are not romantic comedies--things aren't always perfect. I am the constant perfectionist--when things aren't perfect..I am literally crushed. FH has made me realize that things don't have to be exactly the way I imagined them to be perfect. I am much easier going with that now and not expecting the world even though he surprises me every day.
He is also a good listener--I never wonder if I am getting 'uh huh'ed' to death--I know he's there and truly listening to what I have to say.
Another thing that is so important to me that makes our relationship work is that we both have our own separate lives. He has his career and I have mine--we have our own friends--we can go out and do our own thing once in a while and be accepting of that without any questions. He's an architect and I'm a nurse--but boy could I tell you all about building structures and design layouts--and he could probably take the state nursing boards and pass--we always meet in the middle & seek each other out at the end of the day.
Truly--I second the idea that being your significant others best friend is number one on the list of what makes it work.
Kris10nGerard
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We work because as much as we are the same we are different. We want the same things, have the same beliefs about most things but we also have different personalities. We also work well together were both willing to do things for each other that we may or may not want to do. Although we fight we have learned when we can talk it out right away or if one of us needs a break and address it later. (That may have something to do with both of us working with children with special needs lol)
Irishbride16
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Having trust in each other and communication as well....that what keeps us both strong
Pretty_In_Pink
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I think the reason why me and my FH relationship works is because we Love each other. I know that sounds corny, but we genuinely care about each other so much........ We have great communication skills also.
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I think we work for a few reasons, we are different where we are suppose to be but very much alike at our core. We really not to sound corny but are each others best friends, we always go to each other before anyone else. We also don't yell at each other, which is something very important to me.
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We are on different work schedules. All kidding aside, we communicate our feelings, compromise on things, and share the same values. FH is also very funny and easygoing.
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FH and I work bc we are each other's biggest cheerleader and we ground each other. I am super organized and scheduled, and he is very go with the flow. We also make sure to take time out away from each other, which makes the time we do spend together (after school and work) meaningful
