Ok girls...sorry if this isn't a great one...I'm on my way out the door to Kleinfelds...I know I'm crazy because I already have a dress but I just feel like I have to go for the experience
soooo the QOTD is....
If you were given a million dollars...and told you could only spend it on ONE thing... A Wedding or a Million Dollar Home...but whichever you chose, you couldn't have the other...(i.e. you choose the home, you can't have a big wedding, you can only get married and vice versa)
this was a rough one for me...but I think I would choose the wedding, it's a once in a lifetime chance...and Ive dreamed about my wedding foreverrrrrrr! and I think FH & I would be just as happy in a half million dollar home...
although I dooooo dream of having a big beautiful house and living like a housewife of OC! it's true I admit it!
this is a tough one girls!
FutureJOC
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HOUSE! I go straight to City Hall, get married and then seal the deal in our brand new mansion! LOL
Ang9483
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I want both but I would settle for a nice cute house even though my dream is to be a housewife also I would choose the wedding. I got married the quick way and while you are excited to be married. You don't have that feeling of being a bride and feeling beautiful and saying vows in front of poeple. That is why I am deff doing a wedding. Sooo I think I would do the wedding.
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i would definitely choose the house. as much as wedding means to me, it's only a 1 night ordeal. after which, all you have left is photos and memories, but a house, it's an asset that you can put towards your name, something you can leave for your children, something you can sell sometime down the line (even possibly for more than a million) and then take that money and throw an even bigger wedding, lol..
so for me, it'd def be a house.
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oh hell no! I;d so get a big *** house! I have a love hate relationship with my little cape.
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Without a thought....THE HOUSE. Then i would have a small wedding in my great big ole house
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omg this is a toughie!!!!! butttttt I think I'd have to go for the wedding! My friends and I would always talk about this while in college (like if you could have one or the other) and I would always say the wedding. Even tho now, seeing how expensive life is, my head says house - I have to follow my heart and go with wedding. The wedding is once in a lifetime. FH & I can work hard to hopefully have the million dollar house later on!
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Posted by Panamasweet
Without a thought....THE HOUSE. Then i would have a small wedding in my great big ole house
I didn't think of that get the house and then have a small wedding AHA! That would be a smart choice.
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100% house
Weddings are great and all.. but I'm already facing the chance of having to live with my parents forever lol
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Posted by Ang9483
Posted by Panamasweet
Without a thought....THE HOUSE. Then i would have a small wedding in my great big ole house
I didn't think of that get the house and then have a small wedding AHA! That would be a smart choice.
that really is an awesome idea!
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Easy! The house - a wedding is once a house is 'forever' Now the sneaky side of me then says buy the million dollar house, so you use the money as stated. Then turn around and sell the house immediately, thus getting the million back, but having used the original $$ as intended. Then take the 'new' money and invest some into the wedding and the rest into the house.
Go creative logic!
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What? A tough decision? NOT AT ALL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
THE HOUSE!!!!!!!!!!!!
I know I want a big wedding but as long as My FH and I are together IT DONT MATTER having a BIG WEDDING or just signing papers with my fam & witness... We are thinking of the FUTURE, that is why everything is on LOW BUDGET for us.... We want a better future with a HOUSE of our Own... We dont want to Rent or Get married and live in parents house or little rooms... we want a House.
So this is not a hard questions for me, without thinking we woudl choose the House ...
Big wedding? Nah, I dont need a big wedding, as Long as I am marrying my Fiancee and we are pronounce Husband & Wife ... having a Big wedding does not matters.
chreesta
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H O U S E
Hands down!
meya1084
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Definately the house! Maybe a few years later we could renew our vows or something.
jackieee
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house!!!!! fh and i would do anything for a house! i just want to marry dino..i dont care about the wedding!!!
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Posted by LoveyDovey
this was a rough one for me...but I think I would choose the wedding, it's a once in a lifetime chance...and Ive dreamed about my wedding foreverrrrrrr! and I think FH & I would be just as happy in a half million dollar home...
although I dooooo dream of having a big beautiful house and living like a housewife of OC! it's true I admit it!
this is a tough one girls!
True... Everyone will be happy with a Half a million dollar home ( We would be happy wiht 100,000 home!!!) BUT where in the World would we come up with HALF of a MILLION?!!!!!!!
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Posted by VCanizalez
Posted by LoveyDovey
this was a rough one for me...but I think I would choose the wedding, it's a once in a lifetime chance...and Ive dreamed about my wedding foreverrrrrrr! and I think FH & I would be just as happy in a half million dollar home...
although I dooooo dream of having a big beautiful house and living like a housewife of OC! it's true I admit it!
this is a tough one girls!
True... Everyone will be happy with a Half a million dollar home ( We would be happy wiht 100,000 home!!!) BUT where in the World would we come up with HALF of a MILLION?!!!!!!!
SERIOUSLY!!!!!!! I'd take the half million home over the wedding too!!!!! I want a home!!
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Definitely the house for me. FH and I are fixing up the house we bought and it's a huge pain. I would hands down take a gorgeous house where I can just move on in and rest my feet!
I want a nice wedding but I never wanted a big spectacle.
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A house - def. And I wouldn't even want like a huge mansion, just something nice that we could afford to use some of that money and pay the taxes on the house!! LOL
Ya - nice to have to money to buy such a big house but then can we afford the upkeep?!?! LOL this is the kinda cr@p i think about
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Posted by jackieee
Posted by VCanizalez
Posted by LoveyDovey
this was a rough one for me...but I think I would choose the wedding, it's a once in a lifetime chance...and Ive dreamed about my wedding foreverrrrrrr! and I think FH & I would be just as happy in a half million dollar home...
although I dooooo dream of having a big beautiful house and living like a housewife of OC! it's true I admit it!
this is a tough one girls!
True... Everyone will be happy with a Half a million dollar home ( We would be happy wiht 100,000 home!!!) BUT where in the World would we come up with HALF of a MILLION?!!!!!!!
SERIOUSLY!!!!!!! I'd take the half million home over the wedding too!!!!! I want a home!!
Yes =) HOME!!!! Where is the 100,000,000 home?! If I can get that, then I Would get marry sooner =)