I had a lot of trouble coming up with a question today for some reason, but fh gave me an idea. Actually he came up with the question!
Is your fh just as interested/engrossed in the wedding as you are?
Even though my fh came up with this question lol I am definitely more interested/engrossed in the wedding. I ask his opinion on things and sometimes he gives suggestions, but that is about it. Well, he does give his opinion that's for sure! We both care about it equally, but I am really more su**ed into the whole thing
Edited so that you could tell what was bleeped out!
FallBride2010
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FH has some opinions, but for the most part I am the one engrossed in everything. I just show him stuff, ask his opinion...but typically do what I want even if he doesnt like it. LOL. Actually, my color scheme is the only thing he isnt in love with
nanpink
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FH is not as involved as I would like for him to be. I always ask him for his opinion so, this way he does not think I am involving him!
MrsSx2
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Not at all! He only has offered his opinions on a few things. The rest is like pulling teeth!
bride2be1012
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He's not too engrossed. He gives his opinions on the big things and has gone with me to all the meetings with the big vendors. All the major research and planning has been up to me.
iHeartMoogle
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He has opinions, but he's not nearly as engrossed as I am. He is really just taking a backseat and when I ask his opinion, he'll tell me what he thinks I want to hear. It's been pretty good so far.
elisa112101
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he is def not as engrossed as i am(but who is?) i did tell him he is in control of the cake... he is very excited for this!
cleokizzy
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hmmm... there are some aspects of the wedding that he really is 'into' it - the music and guest list. everything else (i.e. all the little details that i pick on) doesn't really interests him much.
AngnShaun
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no.... when people ask him stuff he shruggs... its not because he doesnt know... its because everything i tell him goes in one ear and out the other
laurenandmike618
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he's just as interested in the marriage itself and in the act of getting married, but not quite as much in the details as i am.
halfbaked
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Not even a little bit, though everytime I express concern he insists he's 'stoked'.
JennandAnthony
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At first he was very involved.....we decided on almost everything together, now that Im on minor details hes not as involved except when needed....(ie cardbox assembly).....He says he wants to be involved he just doesnt want to go places he doesnt have to
smilesjc81
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nope- he wants to be informed, but im the one planning, calling, creating, researching, comparing.
I don't mind, he gives an opinion when I ask, but its mostly up to me
Lu2700
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i am THE wedding planner in this duo....fh has had his opinions..but like for 2 elements of the wedding, so far. we usually agree on most things (orrrr he's just saying what i wanna hear....either way!!!!) he does help a lot with going on appointments with me. and he booked the limos all by himself....
Nina1010
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Equal... not really, but I would say 40/60. He is right there involved in every decision, but isn't as DIY as I am. He love to be in the know though.
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FH has had 2 opinions and I didn't like either one of them. I lost one of them, but won the other.
So, we have to walk out the the hulk hogan theme song BUT he is not wearing a chocolate tux!
SoonToBeMrsCampos
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no, but he comes to all meetings with a smile on his face and completes his tasks that i give him. lol
TraceySLP1
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no where near as interested. in fact, he wanted justice of the peace! he hates drinking, dancing, and especially crowds and being the center of attention! so in essence, the wedding is his worst nightmare!!!!! lol....shows how much he loves me, tho, to be going thru it all for ME!
