A question for everyone

CloudNine Posted: Jul 14, 2009 01:44 PM

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i would like to start right away. FH has 2 kids already so he told me whenever im ready for them he will be too.
finishing a career or traveling is a good reason to wait although the financial reason..i feel like you will never be financially ready for a baby. just have the baby and you will make it work because you have to

asg450 Posted: Jul 14, 2009 03:42 PM

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I would like to wait a year or a year and a half. For some couples it's not a problem to have a baby right after marriage, but for us, we need to save and get ready for to have a family.

Soon2bShea Posted: Jul 14, 2009 03:43 PM

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At least a year!

soontobecruz Posted: Jul 14, 2009 03:44 PM

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Probably 2 years or so.....

Iluvpoodles Posted: Jul 14, 2009 03:47 PM

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6 months- a year. I don't want to be 50 with a 5 year old.

Jna2010 Posted: Jul 14, 2009 03:55 PM

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honeymoon babyyyyyy!!!!

marinai7 Posted: Jul 14, 2009 04:06 PM

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I would loveeeeeeeeeeeeeee to have a honeymoon baby, but we want to buy a house and sell our condo when we get back from our honeymoon. So we figure we will need some time to get settled in the house once we buy and save some more money. I would say a year or so - I will be 27 when I get married, so I will have 3 years to have a baby before I'm 30. My goal is to have our first child before I'm 30.

MrsSoto Posted: Jul 14, 2009 04:09 PM

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after about 10 months to a year but if we buy a house which would be around the year mark, itll be right after that, hopefully!

MrsSoto Posted: Jul 14, 2009 04:11 PM

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Posted by CloudNine

i would like to start right away. FH has 2 kids already so he told me whenever im ready for them he will be too.
finishing a career or traveling is a good reason to wait although the financial reason..i feel like you will never be financially ready for a baby. just have the baby and you will make it work because you have to

i agree about the financial thing. i used to also think that we had to be financially ready but honestly well never be, lol, sad but true so...well just make it happen

Future Mrs H Posted: Jul 14, 2009 04:38 PM

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at my age.... we are not. I dont want to retire the same year my child would be graduating jr. high

blessed18 Posted: Jul 14, 2009 04:42 PM

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Honeymoon baby too!!!

MrsMartiniToBe Posted: Jul 14, 2009 04:43 PM

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Probably like 3-4 years...so I want to be pregnant around 26-27

Ivansgirl Posted: Jul 14, 2009 05:33 PM

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Posted by T E R I

We don't plan on having any at all and everytime we say that people don't believe us, they keep telling FH that I'm going to want one, but they don't realize that i'm the one saying NO

My friend is the same way. Both her and her FH do not want kids. There is nothing worng with that

Ivansgirl Posted: Jul 14, 2009 05:34 PM

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Forgot about us lol, 2-3 years I would like to be in a house first...but I am starting to get the baby itch.

scatteredx12 Posted: Jul 14, 2009 05:38 PM

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Definitely a few years for us. We'll be 21 and 23 when we get married and I'll still be in school, so a baby would be way too much to deal with. Especially because we'd like to have our own house and a lot of money saved up.

JoanneAndJustin Posted: Jul 14, 2009 05:38 PM

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we'll be trying right away.

StaceYums81 Posted: Jul 14, 2009 05:40 PM

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I think I'm gonna go off the pill sooner rather than later. I'm getting older ya know...

lisagail55 Posted: Jul 14, 2009 05:46 PM

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FH wants to try on the HM and I am OK with that! We've not only been together for years, but have lived together, and we both have good jobs... Hey, I'm not getting any younger and I'm sure the younger you are when you have kids, the easier it is to work that extra weight off!!!