A question for everyone

I think that you should do whatever you want to do. If you guys want to try right away who is to tell you not to? everyone is going to have an opinion, not only about tis but about everything! so just smile and say 'yeaaaa'

but as for me.. we are on the 5 year plan! we want to do everything we want before we have responsibility.. and i am NOT in baby mode.

I want to take my honeymoon before getting knocked up and since that's 11 months after the wedding, we'll be waiting at least a year to try. If not, two years or so. I'm having girly issues which might be effecting my fertility currently so if the dr says sooner is better, well a honeymoon is just a trip. If I'm going to end up having to invitro, then I might as well wait a little or give it a chance to happen naturally.

Tell your co worker to shove it, she asked you a question, you didn't ask her for advice.

Sorry but I'm done with people and their opinions lately.

I would say 5 years, but since I will be 30 when we get married - I am going to say 2, we want to go to europe before we have 's

i want to start trying right away. my brother already has 3 kids between the ages of 7 & 2, so i would like our kids to be close in age with their cousins, but FH at the moment doesn't like that idea. i also would like to space our kids our at least 5 years, because its just too much work to have them so close in age.

we will discuss again after we get married to make a more final decision. i think FH is just overwhelmed with just buying a car & needing a place to live that he can't think about kids at the moment.

3-4 years..

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Posted by babsbeark

My co worker just asked me how long after getting married would i like to have a baby?

So i told her we plan on trying right after she was shocked telling me to wait whats the rush bla bla

Why do people have to tell you what to do can't they just say oh that's nice

So this has me thinking how long after are all of you going to wait?

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We are going to try right away also..

1. We've been together 8 years... By the time we get married, it will be 9 years...

2. We have lived together for about 7 of those 8 years...

3. Neigther of us want to be 60 years old with teenagers...

I plan on popping them out quickly... if i can! lol

Umm....2-3 years

I want a HM baby....but FH had to go and be all sensible and suggest that we wait until I have finished my Masters and possibly have held down a job for ~6 months before we start trying

So that'll probably be like 2 years after we get married. I'd like to be pregnant at 27.

P.S. - A lil bit of something funny...FH already has a daughter and I keep telling him that I want a baby NOW...and he said 'Absolutely not, I want to do it the 'right' way this time'...he has never been married so I guess he wants to get married and THEN have a kid...the 'right' way

We're gonna start trying right away....we'll both be 30 and i would like to have more than one...and i would like to have them all by 35...

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Posted by grkbarbie

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Posted by Rosalind_75

im on the fence with wanting kids but fh dropped a big bomb on me last week and says he wants to try during our HM!!!!!!!!!

W*T*F

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maybe he was metaphorically speaking.. put it in a nice way of telling u he just wants to bang bangbanng

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lmao
you are to funny!!!!

i wish it was true. i will 5months shy of 35 when we get married. he likes saying 'babe, you're not getting any younger' he can be so honest. god i love this man.

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Posted by Rosalind_75

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Posted by grkbarbie

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Posted by Rosalind_75

im on the fence with wanting kids but fh dropped a big bomb on me last week and says he wants to try during our HM!!!!!!!!!

W*T*F

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maybe he was metaphorically speaking.. put it in a nice way of telling u he just wants to bang bangbanng

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lmao
you are to funny!!!!

i wish it was true. i will 5months shy of 35 when we get married. he likes saying 'babe, you're not getting any younger' he can be so honest. god i love this man.

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LOL... ouch, low blow...

Another reason I want to start asap, is because I have this irrational fear that I can't have children... my mom is one of 12... one of her sisters cant have children... and It scares me that in my super huge family i will not be able to either....

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Posted by T E R I

We don't plan on having any at all and everytime we say that people don't believe us, they keep telling FH that I'm going to want one, but they don't realize that i'm the one saying NO

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ITA !!!!!!!! FH ALL OF A SUDDEN WANT TWO !!!! I KEEP TELLING HIM WE HAD A DEAL ! they try to convince me that i will change my mind .. lol i dont think i will but hey u never know

I hate people sometimes. hahaha If you don't ask for their advice or input, there is NO NEED for it!

I would love to start right after we get married. He'll want to wait a little bit probably. He wants them soon, but not too soon.