Adressing Invites

Our invites only have an outer envelope- no inner...

So for guests with a girlfriend, but not engaged do I put and Mr. John Smith and Guest or their name... Mr. John Smith and Ms. Jane Whatchamacalit?

If they have been together for a long time I would put the girlfriends name, if he is the type that goes through girlfriends like he does shirts , I would put guest.

Or if you don't like them just put and guest, like I am doing

Funny but true- somebody stop me!!!

Well on our save the date magnets we sent our envelopes with invitees name and underneath their significant other's name. We did this for couples dating longer than a year. Well, one of the couples just broke up. So we had a lot of drama about it. I am friends with the girl. DF's brother is friends with the girls' ex. Before deciding who to still invite, girl or both, I asked DF and DF's brother. Both said only invite the girl. So I verbally told her that. We she officially broke up with her ex this weekend. And apparently used our wedding as leverage. She said some mean things. I am not so happy now.
After this experience, I would either call the invitee and ask his/her preference or put and Guest for the invite, but on the place card I would put his/her name.
Lisa

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Posted by Stacey04

If they have been together for a long time I would put the girlfriends name, if he is the type that goes through girlfriends like he does shirts , I would put guest.

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that is exactly what i want to do with a friend of fh... i hate his girlfriend and just to be a b--ch, i want to put and guest... i guess it's mean but i don't care.... the b--ch snuck up to the bridal suite during my e-party to have sex with her boyfriend... if she does that at the wedding she's dead!