Adults Only?

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by Cindyrella

Since the invitations are usually address to just the couple - you would think people realize that their kids arent invited. We are only having our niece and nephews but not inviting anyones kids so i cant really put adults only.

But i know from my first wedding that i invited a divorced cousin and guest - and she brought her 11 year old daughter.

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oh yeah ppl dont care, they'll bring 4 extra ppl which ive seen done ALOT...then some ppl decided to avoid that by doing reply cards that say ' we have reserved 2 seats in your honour' and ive seen girls on the board say that guests cross out the 2 and will put another number like 4 or 6 what dont these ppl understand lol

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I think thats a good idea- cept how rude is it for people to change the number!?

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Posted by Mimacat

maybe it means there will be lots of porn at the wedding.

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POrn + Wedding = memories to last a lifetime

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Posted by Espo22

I STILL dont think they would get it...maybe if we wrote Mr and Mrs Smith ONLY and yes that means your kids are NOT invited as in no they cant attend the wedding so get a babysitter or leave them with relatives, and no you cant invite any other family members if we want them there we'll personally invite them and again NO kids

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HAHAHA.

I wonder if that will fit on my invite

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by Mimacat

maybe it means there will be lots of porn at the wedding.

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thats what someone said once and it made me thing...usually adults only means things like that, so makes it sound like its a different kind of party

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You can put 'adult reception' or 'adult reception to follow ceremony' instead of 'adults only'.

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Posted by Celest76

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Posted by Espo22

I STILL dont think they would get it...maybe if we wrote Mr and Mrs Smith ONLY and yes that means your kids are NOT invited as in no they cant attend the wedding so get a babysitter or leave them with relatives, and no you cant invite any other family members if we want them there we'll personally invite them and again NO kids

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HAHAHA.

I wonder if that will fit on my invite

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you can always try lol, or put it on a note in the invite hahaha.

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Posted by blu6385

i was planning on putting adutl reception only the receoption card i am also on the RSVP card putting _ seats reserved ...

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ditto!

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Posted by MISSESPINK722

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by Mimacat

maybe it means there will be lots of porn at the wedding.

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thats what someone said once and it made me thing...usually adults only means things like that, so makes it sound like its a different kind of party

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You can put 'adult reception' or 'adult reception to follow ceremony' instead of 'adults only'.

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yeah but even just adult reception makes me think of that now lol

Like i said, were gonna do the whole 'we reserved 2 seats in your honour' anyone who replies with kids we'll call to personally apologize...FH's dad offered to be the one to call to tell his family and since most of the kids would be from FH's dads side it works out. My side if its close family(which we have no little kids) or close family friends my parents will say something and we did it for our e-party so alot of the guests know this already.

Im not doing it on mine. I am going to write WHO the invite it to, and knock out the 'NUMBER OF GUESTS' on the send back... this way, if for example Im inviting Ms.Apple and Mr Apple, for the return I am putting, Ms.Apple and Mr.Apple would like to reserve two seats at your wedding,
will not be able to make the wedding..
something like that. I don't have it figured out yet

I recieved and invite that said, 'No children'

Now, I'm not inviting children either or else my guest list would jump from 250 to 350! (ok a little exaggeration) I think it is perfectly fine to add Adult Reception to the invite, as well as the RSVP card. This way there is no confusion, no phone calls and no kids showing up. It's just the wording that makes it rude.

I do like the 2 seats reserved in your honour.

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by MISSESPINK722

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by Mimacat

maybe it means there will be lots of porn at the wedding.

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thats what someone said once and it made me thing...usually adults only means things like that, so makes it sound like its a different kind of party

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You can put 'adult reception' or 'adult reception to follow ceremony' instead of 'adults only'.

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yeah but even just adult reception makes me think of that now lol

Like i said, were gonna do the whole 'we reserved 2 seats in your honour' anyone who replies with kids we'll call to personally apologize...FH's dad offered to be the one to call to tell his family and since most of the kids would be from FH's dads side it works out. My side if its close family(which we have no little kids) or close family friends my parents will say something and we did it for our e-party so alot of the guests know this already.

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thats a good idea, im telling people word of mouth andddd putting that on my invite, im just the type of person to know how freakin people are, and they will come with their 4-5 kids and a friend...i dont think so! lol

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Posted by MISSESPINK722

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by MISSESPINK722

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by Mimacat

maybe it means there will be lots of porn at the wedding.

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thats what someone said once and it made me thing...usually adults only means things like that, so makes it sound like its a different kind of party

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You can put 'adult reception' or 'adult reception to follow ceremony' instead of 'adults only'.

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yeah but even just adult reception makes me think of that now lol

Like i said, were gonna do the whole 'we reserved 2 seats in your honour' anyone who replies with kids we'll call to personally apologize...FH's dad offered to be the one to call to tell his family and since most of the kids would be from FH's dads side it works out. My side if its close family(which we have no little kids) or close family friends my parents will say something and we did it for our e-party so alot of the guests know this already.

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thats a good idea, im telling people word of mouth andddd putting that on my invite, im just the type of person to know how freakin people are, and they will come with their 4-5 kids and a friend...i dont think so! lol

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Oh im calling ppl if they RSVP with more ppl and letting them personally know if anything.

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by MISSESPINK722

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by MISSESPINK722

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by Mimacat

maybe it means there will be lots of porn at the wedding.

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thats what someone said once and it made me thing...usually adults only means things like that, so makes it sound like its a different kind of party

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You can put 'adult reception' or 'adult reception to follow ceremony' instead of 'adults only'.

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yeah but even just adult reception makes me think of that now lol

Like i said, were gonna do the whole 'we reserved 2 seats in your honour' anyone who replies with kids we'll call to personally apologize...FH's dad offered to be the one to call to tell his family and since most of the kids would be from FH's dads side it works out. My side if its close family(which we have no little kids) or close family friends my parents will say something and we did it for our e-party so alot of the guests know this already.

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thats a good idea, im telling people word of mouth andddd putting that on my invite, im just the type of person to know how freakin people are, and they will come with their 4-5 kids and a friend...i dont think so! lol

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Oh im calling ppl if they RSVP with more ppl and letting them personally know if anything.

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Yep you def. have to call......alot of people think they can just come to places with uninvited guests...and just expect you to accept it since theyre there already.

I personally wouldnt.
But it is very clear for those people who do add ons to the RSVP that no kids.

Lots of people so this ... some phrase it as 'Adult Reception'

IMHO I just don't like to see that kind of stuff in PRINT.

We are having children at ours, probably about 14 kids under the age of 13. But we are not having any babies, this is being passed around via word of mouth - the more tactful way of getting the message across.