Advice...

What to do... Well ladies this is my second time around. I married at 23 and after a year and a half I annulled it. It just wasnt meant to be.

So now, happy days! I am engaged to a wonderful man. My first wedding was enormous, we had 250 ppl and spent more money than I can even stomach to think about.

My dilemna, do I have a wedding with 120 ppl and invite everyone including a ton of ppl from work and some extended family? Or do i just invite the ppl who are extremely special to me and have an intimate wedding. My reception location is fine with both, I dont have a minimum.

I have pros and cons for both.

A smaller wedding is more intimate and I dont like being center of attention. And cheaper...

A larger wedding includes everyone. Not just special people. Well obviously they wouldnt be special if I didnt invite them but you know what I mean.

FH says he wants whatever I want.

AM I GONNA REGRET NOT HAVING A BIG WEDDING?

I'd suggest to make a list of all the people you really want there, family & close friends. Put the co-workers & other friends on a seperate.

That's what I did. You need to know what number your working with at minimum for the most important people you want to be there. Not saying they all aren't important but you get what I mean

My immediate family alone was 45 people.