Okay so everyone already wrote what i think but ill say my part anyway! I'd just come out and tell him and be excited about it! I wouldn't be as giddy as you are with your girls but i'd let it out! You will feel better and it will help him in the long run.
PS- I had something similar too...my X of like 4 years ago! Yikes - they never give up hope sometimes! He always surfaced every so often - mostly as times when I was with FH - and so he eventually stopped calling and took to emailing. Well i got one this christmas and had to respond with my good news! no word since....hopefully he's moving on!
failurebydsign
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toughie..old flames and ex's are a rough thing to deal with..
my mom put on her list for the wedding my EX FIANCES PARENTS..like that wouldnt be akward..just come out and say it when the time is right..
ant n tilde
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Posted by failurebydsign
toughie..old flames and ex's are a rough thing to deal with..
my mom put on her list for the wedding my EX FIANCES PARENTS..like that wouldnt be akward..just come out and say it when the time is right..
omg so are you definitely inviting them or did you veto the idea?
i dont think they would want to come anyway right?
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Posted by ant n tilde
Posted by failurebydsign
toughie..old flames and ex's are a rough thing to deal with..
my mom put on her list for the wedding my EX FIANCES PARENTS..like that wouldnt be akward..just come out and say it when the time is right..
omg so are you definitely inviting them or did you veto the idea?
i dont think they would want to come anyway right?
I hope that you would not invite them!
failurebydsign
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no way am i inviting them..waaaaaay to weird..when my om said that i hung up on her..and caled her backa few minutes later and said 'are you thinking clearly now you crazy woman'
shes like well they were good friends of ours for like 30 years..im like
well they were almost my inlaws and what if he came..i don tknow if he even knows im getting married to someone else
nmagel
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why don't you mention it in an email? (i'm a chicken)
ZeppsGirl
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I actually emailed him and he already knew. He and FH are going to be working together soon and as much as I am happy I just really didnt want to say it and not be aware of his feelings.
but he already knew from the guys at work so!!!! Not big work for me to do. Now he is asking if I am excited and asking about the date. So I guess it worked out fine.
FH doesnt understand the big deal in me being weird about telling him. I guess its different fir guys,
Thanks for the advice even though in the end I didnt need any of it...he beat me to it.
