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Advice Please - Bridesmaid Issue

Original post by Tina1117

My FH doesn't want one of the bridesmaids in the wedding (and I kind of agree with him)...What do I do?

Here's the situation:

I have been friends w. this girl for about 1.5-2yrs and I met her through my FH (she dates one of his friends who is also in the wedding). We became good friends and it was that way for about a year but now we are not close anymore.

I will admit that I jumped the gun with asking her to be in the wedding. At the time, it seemed like a GREAT idea but now we're not close and she's causing problems.

My FH came home last night and was extremely upset and told me he does not want her in the wedding and does not want me to associate with her at all. He said she's causing nothing but problems with everyone. His friends no longer like her or her boyfriend (their friend) and I guess it's starting to reflect on me and FH.

My FH friends do not really want to hang around with us anymore because they don't want her or her BF around. And my FH is afraid that people are starting to not like me because I'm associated with her.

We have grown apart and I talk to her (if anything) once a week. I think there's more to the story but my FH won't tell me. I don't think he wants to upset me.

WHAT DO I DO???? Can I ask her to please step down as a bridesmaid?

Please give me any advice (good, bad, ugly).

Thank you.
jeanne08 Posted:

Re: Advice Please - Bridesmaid Issue

I would find out from FH what the story is (the version he heard) then talk to her (get her version, than make a decision. It won't be easy but alteast you will be making an informed decision.

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