How many ladies are planning on trying for a bun in the oven right after the wedding?
We are either trying right after, or waiting one year tops
jenafee
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We're hoping for a HM baby, but we'll see
JenMike331
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Posted by SN2BMRSBURTE
How many ladies are planning on trying for a bun in the oven right after the wedding?
We are either trying right after, or waiting one year tops
i agree one yr tops
kris15198
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We're waiting about 2 years.
tricia3381
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if we have my way we're waiting 4 years, his way 1 year. i guess have to compromise.
ds319
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we plan on having a honeymoon baby
tonimike
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Posted by jenafee
We're hoping for a HM baby, but we'll see
ditto
JeanineP2B
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I want one now so we'll definitely be working on that the morning after the wedding!
miss nee
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WELL.. THAT WILL BE ME RUNNING TO THE BABY MAKING LINE..I'LL BE 35 IN 2 WEEKS..AND TO ME THERES A LIMIT TO EVERYTHING
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I think we want to enjoy being married for a while before we try. My parents waited 9 years (!!!!!!!!!) before they had me. That is a LOT longer than we want to wait...but we'll probably hold off for 2-3 years.
kris01
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Waiting a yr probably..but if it happens before it happens!!
-Kris
anglbyme
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I'm not waiting!!!
kitty1224
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1 year tops
LandsEnd06
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We are waiting a little while. We don't see any reason to rush into starting a family.
Jenn n Lance
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Ah! I'm definitely going to be trying my best to wait a good 3 or 4 years! He's a little older ( 26, 30) I def look forward to having kids, but I'm perfectly fine waiting a bit ;) I have a lot of friends though that were very happy to have their babies within a year after marriage.
Michy
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I would like to wait about two years.
AlmostMrsKelly
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i want a baby sooo bad, but FH is right, we really can't afford it right now. we'll probably wait until next winter to start TRYING. but if it happens sooner, we won't be heartbroken, that's for sure
eden
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I asked my DH about this, he's 35 and I'm a few years younger but still no spring chicken. He is not ready to have one yet, at 35! He'll be 36 in a few months.
Anyone see something wrong with that? :(
Mandyin2007
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Not for a long while after we get married!
Mrs.Ptobe
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So explain to me this... how does one come up with $25 - $50k for a wedding then have a child almost immediately... I'm not being sour grapes here... I really want to know so I can figure out what I am doing wrong b/c I think we are going to be way too broke to start a family immediately - AND I will be about 35 myself... so my clock is running low on batteries too... but really - kids are not a cheap thing... although I do have to admit - I would not return to work full time - seriously - does that make the big difference? If you are going back to work is that the reason it is more manageable... and those that will stay home or work p/t will have to wait a little bit... again, please no one get upset - I really need to calm FH down b/c the bills for the wedding look ridiculous. We wanted a HM baby too, but I think on the HM I'll be drinking away my bill stress... and I'm not planning a very expensive wedding...
Please let me know how people are managing this... I am sincerely curious... cost of living on LI is so expensive...
