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AHH! Dress Disaster!

sparklycat Posted:

AHH! Dress Disaster!

I totally screwed up. I have been so on top of everything, but I let my dress slip through the cracks.

I bought my dress and it ft me perfectly at size 8. Truly gorgeous-- Michelle Roth Maci with amazing details, silver embroidery, swarovski crystals, super sparkly, etc. It fit me perfectly then at size 8. Well, I've been losing weight and am now a 6. I had been told it wouldn't be hard to alter. I was referred to a local seamstress who owned a wedding shop back in her country and and she was going to alter it. She wasn't able to meet me till today, but I was told timing was no problem since she would devote herself to my dress.

Soo, she came to look at it today and thought it was phenomenal and did all the measurements and was going to make the hips a little more mermaidy, so I was happy. Then I took off the dress and she inspected the inside and told me it was too much work--she couldnt do it and didn't even give me an estimate-- she said it'd be easier to make a new dress! I know she really needs the work, so I was shocked. She said that she'd have to reconstruct the whole dress and handstitch all the detail back on.

I am shell shocked. I have 23 days and nowhere can take on alterations now cause it's prom season and there's just not enough time.

Okay, a few weeks ago, I looked at Burtons for flowers and out of curiosity looked at dresses. I did try on Demetrios 9668-- and fell in love, It was a mermaid and I was so tempted, but I already had a beautiful, more expensive designer dress. I just called Burtons and they'd be willing to sell me the sample. They would need to take it in a bit, but Carole promised me they could get it done in time as that dress is very easy to work with and it has a detachable train, so no bustle and I don't need the hem done. So, I'm going in on Sat to see Burtons seamstress and see the dress to see if I still love it-- cross your fingers for me!

Also, if anyone is a street size 8 I now have to sell the below brand new pristine silk dress in order to afford the new dress. Unless, any of you know a seamstress that can work fast in 3 weeks!

Thanks for listening-- I feel crazy and can't believe I wasn't more on top of this when I've been so detailed about everything else, but I truly believed the referred seamstress could do it.
DCW 2008 Posted:

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I will talk to my girlfriend. I know her dad does designer dresses. I will let you know tomorrow.
missesG Posted:

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Hello,
Everything will work out with your dress - if you really love the orignal one try places in Manhattan. These two places can work miracles on wedding gowns:

http://www.bermini.com/index.html

http://guillermocouture.com/index.php?Guillermo_Couture_page=welcome
sparklycat Posted:

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Posted by missesG

Hello,
Everything will work out with your dress - if you really love the orignal one try places in Manhattan. These two places can work miracles on wedding gowns:

http://www.bermini.com/index.html

http://guillermocouture.com/index.php?Guillermo_Couture_page=welcome



Thanks, I'll look into them and DCW thanks for asking your friend!

I'm afraid that it's so late that the alterations will cost more than a new dress
Sharron70 Posted:

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It can't hurt to ask around. Have you tried Fantasia Bridal in Rocky Point? I've heard great things about them - they even totally redesigned the sleeves/neckline on one bride's dress 4 days before the wedding!!!

carolinebr Posted:

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I was in the EXACT same predicament as you this time last year. EXACTLY. My dress was too big b/c I lost weight & with 2 weeks to go, I bought a sample dress. SO eerie.

I wore the sample gown & sold the other one here:
PreownedWeddingDresses.com

Its $25 to list your dress & the listing stays up for a month. I sold mine for $500 less than I bought it but mine had also been taken in twice. If yours is unaltered, you might be able to recoup a lot more.

GOOD LUCK!
sparklycat Posted:

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Posted by carolinebr

I was in the EXACT same predicament as you this time last year. EXACTLY. My dress was too big b/c I lost weight & with 2 weeks to go, I bought a sample dress. SO eerie.

I wore the sample gown & sold the other one here:
PreownedWeddingDresses.com

Its $25 to list your dress & the listing stays up for a month. I sold mine for $500 less than I bought it but mine had also been taken in twice. If yours is unaltered, you might be able to recoup a lot more.

GOOD LUCK!



Wow! That is eerie-- were you happy with the sample dress in the end, did you still have to alter it? I saw your pics and you look gorgeous in it
I have the Burtons sample option, but so nervous since they still need to take it in. Thanks for the website, my current dress is totally unaltered.
sparklycat Posted:

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This is the sample dress I might be able to get. What do you think? Thanks everyone! I'm so nervous!

bemyyoko Posted:

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you have FM

MrsInglima Posted:

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Your original dress is really beautiful! I'm sorry you can't have it altered, but honestly, by your description I was expecting something a lot more complicated. It looks pretty simple in the picture, so I'm not sure why the woman can't work with it. But I'm also not a seamstress, so what do I really know? I hope things work out ok for you! And I'm sure no matter what you will look beautiful!
BAL5-9-05 Posted:

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Posted by sparklycat

This is the sample dress I might be able to get. What do you think? Thanks everyone! I'm so nervous!



GORGEOUS!
Jayla127 Posted:

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I'm sorry to hear of the problems that you are experiencing with your dress. But, I do love the sample dress that you chose. It's gorgeous

I hope everything works out for you

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