AHHHH

Just found out that FH is being laid off... OMG im freeking out... we were supposed to go look at dj's today but now im not sure thats a smart thing to do at all......
thanks for letting me vent.

Awww is he able to start looking for employment somewhere else...is there anything else you two can do? I'm really sorry to hear this happened your both u and ur fh.

I hope everything ends up well

thanks... yeah he has been looking and applying for jobs online but now i feel like it would be foolish to make any appointments or book vendors cause i dont know how long its going to take him to find a new job.
im totally bummed
2006 has not been good to me and fh

I'm sorry What line of work is he in? Maybe we can help!

I'm sorry that this is happening to you & your FH , but I believe everything happens for a reason, and that it will all work out the way it was ment to.

Last Summer, my business was sold, and obliv, I lost my job (with a great salary, but I also worked when ever needed, it came w/ the teritory I missed events family parties everything)

I took some time (the stay at home puppy mommy days) to think about what was important to me, and discuss it w/ FH..

I know work for a publication, where soem of my co-workers complain b/c 2 days a week we work til 6pm, to help get it ready for print.. I feel so lucky that I don't work past 6pm and my weekends are mine! Granted I'm making less money, but I'm enjoying a higher quality of life...

Things do work out, keep those chins up!


* as far as booking I'd continue to reseach and meet w/ vendors, if you meet w/ one you MUST have & book, I'd talk to them about your situation and try to neg, where you can give them a smaller deposit. Vendors are people too, that also have these experiences, I'm sure that there will be some that are understanding and willing to work with you...

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thanks... yeah he has been looking and applying for jobs online but now i feel like it would be foolish to make any appointments or book vendors cause i dont know how long its going to take him to find a new job.
im totally bummed
2006 has not been good to me and fh

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tell him to go to a recruiter seriously...i said this before on here, but when you apply online there isnt an actual person who looks at your resume, it goes through this program once you email them and basically it scans the resume to check for keywords and if those keywords are not in there then it will never get checked by an actual person...also they get hundreds and some thousands of emails and takes a while even if it goes to the next step...I was applying in the summer, and i got responses months later after i already got a job through a recruiter...Actually i went to the recruiter they sent me on an interview the next day and i got the job the next day.

soo sorry about your FH, hope he finds something soon good luck

Hi there! You have FM.

i am very sorry to hear this!

my father was laid off after thirty years - and even though we had a really tough time for a while - he now has a job he LOVES - he works at the airport and gets to speak italian all day and hang out with people from the 'old country'!

first, find out if he is eligible for unemployment - and i think its a good idea to get some help looking for a job. . . i have had my job for over a year and a half and i am getting calls NOW from resumes i submitted online before i got this job!!!

check out usajobs.gov - all federal jobs are on there and you can apply for any he qualifies for - it may not be what he wants to do but its a steady job with great benefits!

good luck! - try not to give up on wedding planning!

I am so sorry to here this sad news. Hopefully he will find something even to hold him over. I wish the two of you aluck and happinesss for the new year.
I cant imagine going through what you are right now.