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well that is so sad i feel for her.. but ur right i wouldnt want to raise my daughter in ahouse of hate.... different strokes for different folks
Posted by AMGBride2008
I don't understand the 'he gets one pass only'... IMO, NO! He doesn't get any passes! And niether do I!
We're going into this trusting one another and being true to one another. God forbid he ever 'wanders' I'm not going to shrug my shoulders and say 'well, you've used up your one free-be, next time you're in real trouble!...'
I just hope to God that I, and no one here, ever has to deal with such a heartache like that.... but like I said earlier, I don't know what I would do...
Posted by ant n tilde
Posted by Jesses Girl
Posted by ant n tilde
i'm no angel myself so i definitely believe in second chances i would give him ONE pass ( obviously i am not going to tell him this)
girl ur a trustworthy = or like...u can trust him kinda one... me like no second chances...he gets **** from like when we first started! hahaha
okay maybe ill forgive him but hes NOT ALLOWED to do it! hahaha in my mind he gets no pass!
i dont know whats wrong with me but i have NO idea what that first sentence says. . ..![]()
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its hard to sit back and watch ...but i kinda get mad at her because she lets it just happen and then she caters to him...like buying him things and stuff like that ! it sooo aggravating ...i feel bad for my FH because he doesnt know what to do ...he wants to kill him but has to sit back and watch since she is staying with him
I don't think I could ever truly forgive him because it would always be in the back of my mind which would eventually ruin our relationship.
No second chance here. If I give you my trust and you break it, then you lose.
Posted by ant n tilde
Posted by AMGBride2008
I don't understand the 'he gets one pass only'... IMO, NO! He doesn't get any passes! And niether do I!
We're going into this trusting one another and being true to one another. God forbid he ever 'wanders' I'm not going to shrug my shoulders and say 'well, you've used up your one free-be, next time you're in real trouble!...'
I just hope to God that I, and no one here, ever has to deal with such a heartache like that.... but like I said earlier, I don't know what I would do...
OMG I hope no one thinks that i would be like 'oh you cheated - well secretly i have been saving up this *get out of divorce free * card and now everything is hunky dory. . .LOL
we would have to go to couples counseling, maybe even live seperately for a little while, it would be HUGE process but i would try to make it work bc thats what I believe marriage is about. . .
just wanted to clarify so no one thought i was an air head!![]()
I would never ever forgive a cheater..once a cheat always a cheat...the marriage would be over! I'm worth soo much more than that!
Posted by megzzie
I don't think I could ever truly forgive him because it would always be in the back of my mind which would eventually ruin our relationship.[/QUOTE
I agree!!
I had an ex (thats why hes an ex) cheat on me, i found out by our lovely womens intuition....i tried to give it a chance it lasted one day, It drove me insane when his phone rang and where he was going. I became a psycho.(I'm not a psycho usually lol)..so i dumped him!!!!
