All those who feel...

Dreemer107 Posted: May 05, 2008 11:35 PM

All those who feel...

like they are at a totally different place in their lives then their friends, say I....

iiiiiii!

Just wondering if any1 feels the same way i do w/ getting married & having single friends who like to go out and spend $ and party...

so_in_love630 Posted: May 05, 2008 11:52 PM

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i definitely do... i feel kinda weird talking to most of them about the wedding...

GiantsBride Posted: May 06, 2008 05:35 AM

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I am the opposite. All of my friends are married. Sometimes it feels very 'been there, done that' when I talk about the wedding planning stuff. My BM has been amazing, but my girl friends from work don't even ask most of the time. If I move, I doubt I will invite them to the wedding.

michesq Posted: May 06, 2008 06:08 AM

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i'm in the middle and always will be as 1/2 my friends are marreid with children or already married and then some are single still- not sure FH and I have deprived ourselves of anything as we have really stuck to wedding budget so we still have those times we are out and I would not say partying ( that ended in my late 20s) but we have a good time. guess we try and strike a balance

Tori9299 Posted: May 06, 2008 07:10 AM

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iiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii

fiore76 Posted: May 06, 2008 07:15 AM

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Summertimegal424 Posted: May 06, 2008 07:20 AM

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I'm half and half...and half

half my friends are single and like to party their butts off
half my friends are getting married and still like to party
then half my friend are getting married and dont do anything lol

Just Cindy Posted: May 06, 2008 07:26 AM

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me 2

Ann 52409 Posted: May 06, 2008 07:29 AM

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iiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii

JKFris09 Posted: May 06, 2008 07:59 AM

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I'm the opposite too, either our friends are married or they're in serious relationships, it's pretty cool

VickiR510 Posted: May 06, 2008 08:03 AM

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I have a few friends still single & alot married but i feel like my single friends are cool & get it but every now & again i get your always doing something wedding related. So i tell them well yea duh! I have a year to get allof this stuff done & i begin to rattle off &then they say oh yea i get it. OH!!!!!

maggie728 Posted: May 06, 2008 08:58 AM

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I do! sometimes I feel like they dont even care.... I think I need some new friends

frenchy702 Posted: May 06, 2008 09:04 AM

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I !!!!!!!!!!!

FutureMrsLV Posted: May 06, 2008 09:04 AM

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I have three friends getting married this year! I fell like we are all kind of on the same page..in serrious relationshios and starting to get married.

PoppedInASnap Posted: May 06, 2008 09:21 AM

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I barely talk to alot of my friends any more. all they talk about is spending money, and thats not where i am at this point in my life...

I much rather baby sit my nephew and go for long walks with fh....<3

Cacarina Posted: May 06, 2008 09:24 AM

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I definitely am. I am the only one of my close friends who is engaged. Most of my really close friends don't even have boyfriends. However, I think I am very good at keeping the balance. I never feel like my friends and I have a disconnect just because I am getting married and they are still doing the single thing.

aliska21 Posted: May 06, 2008 09:37 AM

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ha....IIIIIII
yep...thats me as well!!!!
Most of my friends are single and always go out and have fun spend their money...and most of all always hang out with each other! im not jealous or anything.,....i just miss being with all of them ..but my life is in a diff stage right now..and i love it the way it is...

MrsInglima Posted: May 06, 2008 09:45 AM

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IIIIIIIIIIIIIII!!!!

I'm 23. Needless to say all of my friends are still going out clubbing every weekend and going on major shopping spree's and either graduating from college, in a masters program, or still trying to figure out what to do with their lives. And they all live in NYC and I'm in the suburbs.

Granted, if I wasn't with FH I'd still be clubbing and shopping too, but now that everything is changed I feel totally left out and like I never see them anymore because I'm poor.

But I'd still rather be with FH than out clubbing trying to find a 'man' any day of the millennium.

Dr Meg Posted: May 06, 2008 09:52 AM

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Most of my friends are married already. And the majority of the girls who will be BM's live out of state. I kind of felt like I didn't have anyone to share in the wedding planning excitement with. Two of my girlfriends are really excited about the wedding and the planning but they live in MD and MA so it's kind of hard to involve them in planning.
Then the other day I went out to dinner with my friend Fredy whom I have known since I was 5. He was like, Meg I can't believe you are getting married, I am gonna be an emotional mess. He had to go through my whole wedding binder and got me really excited about things. (PS he is gay so he's all about fashion and making sure I look perfect!)