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Am I A Terrible Person?

Original post by davenjess

Hi Girls -

I feel terrible....my MOH, my BFF of 20 years is pregnant and i'm VERY happy for her....but I have to admit that i'm really jealous!

When she told me last night - I actually got sad that it wasn't me. Yes, she's been married more than a year & she and her hubby were trying....but i just felt sad.....happy for her, but sad.

I don't know if it's because I wanted us to be pregnant together or if I just want a baby so badly....

Am I a terrible person or is this normal?????
bemyyoko Posted:

Re: Am I A Terrible Person?

I'm so not a baby person, but from what I've heard from others I think it's TOTALLY normal.
It's the same type of thing where girls get sad/jealous when they're friends get engaged even if the 'sad girl' doesnt even have a boyfriend at the time.

don't sweat it. you're not a bad person at all.
jeffamanda080808 Posted:

Re: Am I A Terrible Person?


Posted by davenjess

Hi Girls -

I feel terrible....my MOH, my BFF of 20 years is pregnant and i'm VERY happy for her....but I have to admit that i'm really jealous!

When she told me last night - I actually got sad that it wasn't me. Yes, she's been married more than a year & she and her hubby were trying....but i just felt sad.....happy for her, but sad.

I don't know if it's because I wanted us to be pregnant together or if I just want a baby so badly....

Am I a terrible person or is this normal?????



FIRST OF ALL IF I EVERY SEE YOU ASKING IF YOU ARE A TERRIBLE PERSON AGAIN...I'M GONING TO GET VERY ANGRY!!!!!!!!!!

Second of all.......you have been friends for 20 years, of course there is going to be a bit of jealousy. And who wouldn't want to be preggers with their BFF, and have their kids grow up together. IT is a normal thing. And just think.....she will have tons of advice and help for you once it is your time.
hannahshim Posted:

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that does not make u a terrible person. its normal.. a terrible person would think about killing her baby o.O not being jealous LOL

you'll be there in no time!!

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