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Am I over reacting??

Original post by Mrs Z To Be

Please don't quote!

First, I want to you girls for letting me vent, judgement free!!
AND thank you for reading this

As you all know, FMIL is a HUGE Thorn in our sides, and LOVES to stir the pot and kick up drama....

So, I am *almost* officially moved into our aprtment.....

Fh & I live in a two floor apartment, but it' a house from the 1800's, so the upstairs is really an attic that was converted into two bedrooms, and one bathroom.

Now , we also have a bathroom downstairs, FYI.
So yesterday the wicked witch stopped in our aprtment, (of course, while I WASN'T home)....

So FH is telling me this, and he casually throws in 'So don't be mad, but she asked to see our bedroom'...

So me, 'you're kidding me right??'???
He let her see it.

Here's the thing: She is VERY intrusive, and it's none of her damn business, nor her place to be IN MY BEDROOM, especially while I'm not there!!
I should have left a HUGE dildo on the bed

I think I'm more annoyed at the fact that I think it is rude that she even asked, ESPECIALLY because I know she is just trying to find something else to say!!!

GRRRR Ok VENT OVER. :
P.S- She has ALREADY seen the upstairs!!
Spring143 Posted:

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Nooooooooo way over reacting! make sure that Fh knows anytime his mother is over when im not there she is to stay OUT of the bedroom.
The one time when she saw it (all our new wood furniture) she ran out and bought herself a new bedroom set. Talk about an annoying fmil. I guess thats why people say marry an orphan
Mrs Z To Be Posted:

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Posted by Spring143

Nooooooooo way over reacting! make sure that Fh knows anytime his mother is over when im not there she is to stay OUT of the bedroom.
The one time when she saw it (all our new wood furniture) she ran out and bought herself a new bedroom set. Talk about an annoying fmil. I guess thats why people say marry an orphan


Marry an orphan!
Marianne13 Posted:

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Yeah next time leave condom wrappers and handcuffs on the bed.. haha.

Nina1010 Posted:

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NYYankeeGirl72 Posted:

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Sorry to hear that...

And you are definitely not overreacting.
mosh424 Posted:

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Kiki1103 Posted:

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FMILs are annoying, trying not to let her get to you
Tessie728 Posted:

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dont let it get to you!! thats what she wants!!

Jna2010 Posted:

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taking it on face value yes it does sound like your overreacting, i would think you would be more mad with fh since he's the one who was there and let her. BUT im sure this is just one of many things that have rubbed you the wrong way so i could totally see how this would piss you off..... sorry hunnnieeee
StaceYums81 Posted:

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No way you are not overeacting I completely agree - who is she to ask when she stops by unannouced - sounds like a marie barone thing...

allegracristina Posted:

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I totally understand where you're coming from! I freaked out when FH at the time, now DH let the NEIGHBORS see our house (it was SUCH a mess and under construction and I was embarrassed). So I can totally understand freaking out if your FMIL is a witch and she was all up in your new space while you weren't there. I feel you girl.

But on a lighter note, CONGRATS ON THE AMAZING PLACE!!! It sounds so cool!!
MrsH37 Posted:

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GR2010 Posted:

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I think it's a weird request since she's already been up there and she knows you're still in the process of moving in... Why not wait until you were home and after you were all settled?

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