am i psychotic?!

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Posted by lilangel369

he showed it to me as an 'oh by the way.. this is what i was looking at before..' kinda thing ...

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IF HE SHOWED it to you, did you do it right then and there or went to it later. He is probably just bothered that you were under his name, went through it and even emailed someone from his name. Guys well people in general don't like that bc of their privacy...Just talk to him about how you feel, because otherwise by going on his name it will just upset him and then when you try to explain they'll be too mad to care.

Sorry you're feeling like this

Psychotic? No.

But, think about how you would feel if the shoe were on the other foot. You are marrying him because you love and trust him, and, an e-mail forward isn't a big deal. There will always be other women that our FH's and DH's encounter be it at work, or anywhere else for that matter, and, just because one is pretty doesn't mean we have to get the claws out!

If she starts to express an interest in your FH, then I'd worry.

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by lilangel369

he showed it to me as an 'oh by the way.. this is what i was looking at before..' kinda thing ...

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IF HE SHOWED it to you, did you do it right then and there or went to it later. He is probably just bothered that you were under his name, went through it and even emailed someone from his name. Guys well people in general don't like that bc of their privacy...Just talk to him about how you feel, because otherwise by going on his name it will just upset him and then when you try to explain they'll be too mad to care.

Sorry you're feeling like this

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Nope I did it under my name .. I just memorized the email address.

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Posted by AmandaLynn04

Psychotic? No.

But, think about how you would feel if the shoe were on the other foot. You are marrying him because you love and trust him, and, an e-mail forward isn't a big deal. There will always be other women that our FH's and DH's encounter be it at work, or anywhere else for that matter, and, just because one is pretty doesn't mean we have to get the claws out!

If she starts to express an interest in your FH, then I'd worry.

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yeah be glad its just jokes and things like that, and not that you read something inappropriate.

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Posted by AmandaLynn04

Psychotic? No.

But, think about how you would feel if the shoe were on the other foot. You are marrying him because you love and trust him, and, an e-mail forward isn't a big deal. There will always be other women that our FH's and DH's encounter be it at work, or anywhere else for that matter, and, just because one is pretty doesn't mean we have to get the claws out!

If she starts to express an interest in your FH, then I'd worry.

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denise and amanda are right
he is marrying YOU and if he showed it to you, it was because there was no malice behind it
was the email sexually explicit? offensive?

no ur not...bc FH gets like that when i get IM's from my coworkers...(my work IM and my home IM are the same)

he like gets a lil jealous and id be the same way...ur not psychotic...ur a girl!!!!!

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Posted by lilangel369

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by lilangel369

he showed it to me as an 'oh by the way.. this is what i was looking at before..' kinda thing ...

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IF HE SHOWED it to you, did you do it right then and there or went to it later. He is probably just bothered that you were under his name, went through it and even emailed someone from his name. Guys well people in general don't like that bc of their privacy...Just talk to him about how you feel, because otherwise by going on his name it will just upset him and then when you try to explain they'll be too mad to care.

Sorry you're feeling like this

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Nope I did it under my name .. I just memorized the email address.

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Yeah guys don't like that. Honestly i would get annoyed by that too. Unless another guy said something he shouldn't have said or there was reason for FH to get mad, then it would bother me if he memorized someones email address and then emailed them later without telling me.

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Posted by lilangel369

I think my biggest problem is her telling my FH. Cause that's not something I would do... and I didn't tell my FH that i emailed her because I wanted to know if she would tell him ...

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Well, I understand that. But, she knows your FH, and not you, and may have wondered where you got her e-mail from.

If it were you, would you have told him, if you were the girl?

You have to admit it is strange to get an e-mail from the fiance of a guy you work with.

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Posted by Snowflake08

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Posted by AmandaLynn04

Psychotic? No.

But, think about how you would feel if the shoe were on the other foot. You are marrying him because you love and trust him, and, an e-mail forward isn't a big deal. There will always be other women that our FH's and DH's encounter be it at work, or anywhere else for that matter, and, just because one is pretty doesn't mean we have to get the claws out!

If she starts to express an interest in your FH, then I'd worry.

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denise and amanda are right
he is marrying YOU and if he showed it to you, it was because there was no malice behind it
was the email sexually explicit? offensive?

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yeah good point, he showed it to you so obviously he is not trying to hide anything from you.

yeah haha .. it's not so much him that i'm worried about ...

but u guys are right .. he does have a right to be mad ...

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Posted by lilangel369

I think my biggest problem is her telling my FH. Cause that's not something I would do... and I didn't tell my FH that i emailed her because I wanted to know if she would tell him ...

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well, if you wanted to k now if she would tell him, then that means you thought she might and she did
she didnt do anything wrong by telling him, it could have been like, 'hey, angel emailed me back'

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Posted by lilangel369

I think my biggest problem is her telling my FH. Cause that's not something I would do... and I didn't tell my FH that i emailed her because I wanted to know if she would tell him ...

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I would say something too...if I had sent an email to a guy friend and his gf emailed me back from her SN, i would be like uhmmm what was up with that.

Honestly just let it go, if you see other things that are inappropriate or he does other things that truly are suspicious then you can say something other than that you can't get mad at him for things that he is not doing wrong and also playing these games where you email her just to see if she would tell him, what does her telling him prove? Its really not worth it and you're just stressing yourself out. Also the issue is not gonna be about whether he can be trusted bc he hasn't done anything wrong, but it will be about whether he can trust you.

Psychotic? No.

But I do think you may have trust issues. It was just an email of jokes based on what you said. Plus he showed it to you, he wasn't hiding anything.

He could have not shown you (which even then I have a hard time thinking he is doing anything wrong) but he did show you the e-mail. He didn't lie or anything.

Why do you feel insecure? This is an important topic you two will need to discuss.

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Posted by lilangel369

yeah haha .. it's not so much him that i'm worried about ...

but u guys are right .. he does have a right to be mad ...

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i understand feeling a little funny about the forwards - i would too! however, by emailing her. . .you arent fooling anyone ( meaning her or FH) it didnt come off as a sweet thank you. . . it is obvious what your intention was and that you are playing games.

now this is all easy for me to say bc FH has no female friends and works with all guys .. . but i can understand why he would be annoyed.

plus it kind of makes him look bad at work!