Posted by sassygirl9
exactly...it stays dormant in your system and never really goes away...what type of insurance do you have...maybe some of us can recommend a dr. for you...you may need to go to an allergist/specialist
Posted by Jess125483
Posted by sassygirl9
well my sis did have chicken pox ...I know that...I don't want to scare you though...there are different stages of shingles....so def. talk to your dr. about it...don't read everything off the net...there are other stress related hives besides this one, maybe googling that would help narrow something down
personally I've never heard of anyone getting a rash due to BC...not that it's not possible, but i always like to get a second opinion
Hey thanks for the advice.
Rash is actually a listed common side effect of my BC (Loestrin). It says it on the box and the website. I still don't know if that's what is causing this, but either way it's not an impossibility.
I looked at pics of the singles and they don't really look like what I have. Neither of the doctors mentioned it, but I will definitely ask when I go in again.
Posted by sassygirl9
i hope you get better![]()
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WOW you guys are having a deep convo here, I cant keep up, maybe thats what you needed, just to let it all out verbally
I think you might be right. It's definitely good to get it out and to know you're not alone.
Exactly, like when someone is venting on here , they feel much better after doing so
It definately helps to vent!! And also, to see that you aren't the only one going through all this!
MPAS ... share your 'stay happy' tips with us!!!
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Im only joking.
Just stay focused, pamper yourself, like get a message, be around friends, I go out alot and to be around people and mingle and have a good time, and dance and most important DRINK, hahahah, my mind wonders to a good place, where I dont want to think about anything negative. I also drink alot of coffee so Im wired 24/7![]()
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Posted by missliss
Posted by MPAS
WOW you guys are having a deep convo here, I cant keep up, maybe thats what you needed, just to let it all out verbally
I think you might be right. It's definitely good to get it out and to know you're not alone.
Exactly, like when someone is venting on here , they feel much better after doing so
It definately helps to vent!! And also, to see that you aren't the only one going through all this!
MPAS ... share your 'stay happy' tips with us!!!
Prescription meds![]()
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Im only joking.
Just stay focused, pamper yourself, like get a message, be around friends, I go out alot and to be around people and mingle and have a good time, and dance and most important DRINK, hahahah, my mind wonders to a good place, where I dont want to think about anything negative. I also drink alot of coffee so Im wired 24/7![]()
Adding to list of things to do:
Get friends who actually WANT to go out and have fun! Instead of not going out because your BF doesn't want your too..ugh. My friends suck!I need some new ones!
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Posted by missliss
Posted by MPAS
WOW you guys are having a deep convo here, I cant keep up, maybe thats what you needed, just to let it all out verbally
I think you might be right. It's definitely good to get it out and to know you're not alone.
Exactly, like when someone is venting on here , they feel much better after doing so
It definately helps to vent!! And also, to see that you aren't the only one going through all this!
MPAS ... share your 'stay happy' tips with us!!!
Prescription meds![]()
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Im only joking.
Just stay focused, pamper yourself, like get a message, be around friends, I go out alot and to be around people and mingle and have a good time, and dance and most important DRINK, hahahah, my mind wonders to a good place, where I dont want to think about anything negative. I also drink alot of coffee so Im wired 24/7![]()
Adding to list of things to do:
Get friends who actually WANT to go out and have fun! Instead of not going out because your BF doesn't want your too..ugh. My friends suck!I need some new ones!
Come out with ME![]()
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omg like every night...first year teaching, planning a wedding and trying to by a house is NOT a good idea to do all at the same time : /
i hear you.....yesterday I told FH, let's skip the wedding and just go on the honeymoon.
Posted by Dolce19
I went through this same thing a few months before my wedding. I had a 2 year engagement..so probably half way through I practically hit the walll. When people asked me about my plans, or if I was excited I didn't even want to talk about it. I had such a short fuse and would just break down for no reason. And forget about if I got bad news about anything...I would in a way be annoyed by it and couldn't deal with anything. I honestly would finish off a bottle of wine in my bedroom and want to be alone. And work...HA...what a joke. Work was the last thing I wanted to deal with.
I was like that for about 2 months. But then for some reason I sort of got over it. The excitement started to come and I kind of got out of my funk. I think maybe I was more stressed out about the wedding then I thought, and even stressed out about becoming a wife. And because I had that stress everything else that went wrong in my life was magnified 100X.
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That just wants to get away from everything right now lol...with the wedding, personal issues, and just so many other things i feel worn out...its sad bc i remember this time last year and it was so different and great, we were engaged a few months and barely started planning and this week last year we went away and had a great trip and there were no problems at all. I go to bed late bc i have a million things on my mind, wake up early for work-tired all day and have so many things on my to do list that i have a hard time getting toI would give anything to go back in time one year ago lol
I made plans for after work to meet friends for happy hour and cant wait
I think happy hour will def. be a temporary cure.![]()
Question: How does your FH sleep and go on about his day? Does all of this stuff get to him like it gets to you? Or is he kind of blissfully unaware?
I feel like I carry all the stress....he's stressed don't get me wrong. But he has an extremely demanding job that lately has been making him work around the clock, so I feel like I try to keep as much additional stress away from him as I can....and I don't want to worry him with how stressed out I am, ya know?
Oh fh is worse than me and gets less sleep than me, this whole weekend he stayed over my house and he told me i would be passed out and he was up until 4-5am. He handles stress worse than most ppl, he is manic depressive so its highs and lows with him and honestly his highs and lows have become my highs and lows, thats another thing having to deal with that, its not always easy![]()
Ugh, I'm sorry. I hope you know I wasn't trying to insinuate anything, just wondering if there were any differences. Do you think he worries more that you're worried?
oh no not at all, you had no idea and probably didnt even expect that answer hahaha...oh certain things i worry about that i bring up to him will make him worry even more and freak out. But him stressing and worrying also just makes it harder on me lol, when he has his lows its real hard on me
Posted by Jess125483
You are not the only one...
Every since last Thursday I've had hives that have been coming and going. I thought it was the BC I was taking and my gyno told me to stop immediately. I had to leave work in the middle of the day on Thursday. Then Monday they came back after being gone all weekend. I had to get up in the middle of class at law school and leave. I went to my GP and he pretty much said he didn't know and to take benadryl. I went home and took it and they went away. This morning I went into work and after being there an hour I realized my entire body had hives again, and this time worse than everytime before that. I didn't even tell my boss, I just got up and left and went straight to the ER. At the ER they said it definitely is not MRSA (that flesh eating bacteria going around) but that they weren't convinced it was an allergic reaction either. They said it could be, or it could be a viral infection. They gave me steroids and sent me home.
I also had a callback interview today, that I had to cancel because of this.
All of this on top of work, school, trying to decide which job to take for post-grad...I feel like I am slowly but surely losing it.
Posted by kimNanthony
Yes I am so stressed financially. I still have to save a lot of money to pay for the wedding and I lost my job. My school loans go into repayment next month and the monthly payments are ridiculous. I need a job![]()
Posted by MPAS
It been ok for me, Im getting alot of wedd things done so I can relax my mind until the new year. Maybe you are just having 'one of those days', trust me I had my share when I dont want to do anything and I want to be left alone. WHy dont you take a weekend trip with FH or if you dont want FH go hangout with your girlfriends, go to AC or something. RELAX AND HAVE FUN!!!!!!!!!!
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Posted by kimNanthony
Yes I am so stressed financially. I still have to save a lot of money to pay for the wedding and I lost my job. My school loans go into repayment next month and the monthly payments are ridiculous. I need a job![]()
I am so sorry you lost your job, ill keep my fingers crossed for you, maybe this will be for the best and you'll end up with a much better job that you love bc in your thread you said you hated it...good luck![]()
Posted by dajc23
Yea im def. feeling the same way..Lately I just want to go home, be by myself and not talk to anyone. I dont want to plan anything, go out anywhere, I barely see FH anymore b/c hes working a million jobs. I hate getting up for work in the morning, I hate getting dressed, I hate that i'm so broke. I just want to go away..but I cant afford to lol
The moment I leave work my cell starts ringing and its usually my mom or FH calling to fill me in on the drama that happened that day. I DONT CAREEEEEEEEEE I get enough of it at work, I have clients calling me all damn day, I work with a bunch of retards, so I just dont feel like talking to anyone. I prefer text msgs lolol
Sorry i'm rambling but I'm just stressing out
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Posted by kimNanthony
Yes I am so stressed financially. I still have to save a lot of money to pay for the wedding and I lost my job. My school loans go into repayment next month and the monthly payments are ridiculous. I need a job![]()
I am so sorry you lost your job, ill keep my fingers crossed for you, maybe this will be for the best and you'll end up with a much better job that you love bc in your thread you said you hated it...good luck![]()
Thanks Denise I appreciate it! Yea I was really unhappy there. It would have been ideal for me to quit once I had something lined up but everything happens for a reason. I'm sorry you are feeling so down. If you need to talk I'm a good listener![]()
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It been ok for me, Im getting alot of wedd things done so I can relax my mind until the new year. Maybe you are just having 'one of those days', trust me I had my share when I dont want to do anything and I want to be left alone. WHy dont you take a weekend trip with FH or if you dont want FH go hangout with your girlfriends, go to AC or something. RELAX AND HAVE FUN!!!!!!!!!!
i just saw this now, i missed it when you posted it...i wish i can say it was one of those days but ive been having 'THOSE' days ALOT for the past 6 months. Plus theres actual reasons i feel like this. Yeah ill try to think of something soon to go do, i have done it and things will be great but then it comes back to this...even if i dont go away ill have weekends for example that i have the best time and then its only temporary bc problems just start again, its been a never ending cycle. SO much so that i even sit here and think W** did someone put a curse on me or something, at this point anything is possible hahaha
