Am I too jealous?

Original post by camposal

Apr 29, 2006 11:02 PM

FH recently moved to Michigan and has few friends there. So when someone offers to go out, he jumps on it. Anyway, last night a single female co-worker asked him to go out for a drink. That didn't bother me. However, afterward he went back to her place and stayed there till 4 AM. Well today when he told me about it, I was really annoyed. I would never go to a guys place alone and stay till 4 AM. I have never met this girl and know nothing about her. Perhaps if we knew eachother, I wouldn't care.

What do you girls think? Would you be bothered by FH at girls place till 4 AM when you dont know her?

transamgirlie Posted: May 01, 2006 07:54 AM

Re: Am I too jealous?

Well I have to agree w/everyone else. Going out to have a drink w/ a female coworker in my eyes isn't acceptable unless your FH goes out w/ all his coworkers in a group setting. Anything alone is considered wrong. Heading to her house till 4am is so out of line I can't believe he is trying to make it ok.
As said before the rules change when you are engaged, it is a serious commitment. You as a couple are on a path to living out your lives together. Your FH has now lost all trust in your eyes.

I would definatly reconsider your relationship. He obviously has differeent views of it then you do. The point is it doesn't matter whether anything happened or not, the point IS he was in a situation that he wanted to be in.

I personally would be calling the wedding off. I would have slapped the ring on the table and took a long walk.

BernandRob Posted: May 01, 2006 08:40 AM

Re: Am I too jealous?

That's just not normal. After being out with another woman having some drinks and then staying at her place till 4am. Is this girl single? Did he actually believe that she had him at her place until 4am just to hang out?